Every parent is a child's first teacher and a lifelong teacher. Parents' education for their children is a useful supplement to school education. It is the urgent need and hope of every parent to train their children to be physically and mentally healthy and useful to society. As a parent, I have been studying and exploring, trying to make my son grow up healthily and happily in a harmonious environment.
First, set an example and let children have a good example.
Parents are children's first teachers, and children's initial words and deeds are obtained from their parents. I am a kindergarten teacher. I am strict with myself in my work, insist on doing things honestly, live in harmony with every colleague in the unit and be helpful. My son has witnessed my love for children and my persistence in my work since I was a child. Knowing that his mother is a responsible mother, he will try his best to do one thing. I realize from my heart that parents' words and deeds are very important, and I strive to let my children develop a good style of integrity, friendliness and diligence from an early age.
Second, warm and harmonious, and create a good family atmosphere.
Create a warm and harmonious family environment and strive to make children grow up healthily in happiness. Together with family members, create a harmonious family atmosphere for children, so that children can always feel the ubiquitous affection and love. What's the big deal at home? Bring it up and discuss it with the children. Husband and wife have the same educational concept and unified requirements for their children. Knowing that "children are praised, not criticized" will usually give affirmation and encouragement to their son's little progress. Of course, we will never compromise on the mistakes that violate the principle, explain the reasons in time, and let them know where the mistakes are, so that they will not happen again.
Third, communicate with children from time to time and be their mentor.
As parents, communication with children should be the first in family education. If you have the conditions, you can take time to communicate with your children every day. In communication, we can know the changes of children's thoughts in time, make correct judgments according to children's thoughts and behaviors, and then guide children in time and correctly.
Fourth, actively cooperate with school teaching.
School is the main place to educate children. I attach great importance to the cooperation with the school, attend every parent-teacher meeting seriously, communicate with the class teacher, and understand the children's performance in school. Communicate and discuss with children patiently, praise their achievements and urge them to improve.
My educational philosophy is: listen to children's voices and give them free space; Share children's successes and setbacks and give them rational guidance. In the future, I am willing to use smiles and encouragement to illuminate my child and let him grow up healthily and happily.
Article 2: excellent parents' deeds materials
* * *, * * The mother of Class One, Grade Two, Primary School. Since entering * * * Experimental Primary School, she has actively supported various activities organized by the school, closely cooperated with the head teacher and classroom teachers to do a good job in home-school education, adhered to the principle of "love without drowning, temper leniency with severity", and strived to promote the all-round and healthy development of children. Her daughter * * * is already the monitor. She has a wide range of hobbies, cheerful personality and excellent grades.
Summing up the growth in recent years, we have made great achievements in all-round education for children, mainly in the following aspects.
First of all, set an example and be a good child's first teacher.
Parents are children's first teachers, and children's initial words and deeds are obtained from their parents. So * * * family pays special attention to lead by example. Usually, I insist on doing things honestly, being friendly to people, never slacking off in my career, and making mirrors for my children in all aspects. And often tell children that if you want others to be good to you, you must be good to others first; As you treat others, others will treat you. Always tell children stories of doing good deeds, guide children to get along well with every classmate in the class, be good at discovering the advantages of classmates, be willing to help classmates, and let children understand that only when they like classmates will classmates like themselves. Let children develop an honest, friendly and diligent attitude from an early age.
Second, warm and harmonious, and create a good family atmosphere.
Create a warm and harmonious family environment and strive to make children grow up healthily in happiness. * * * I always think that excellent grades are gratifying, but happy growth is the most important thing. To this end, together with family members, strive to create a harmonious, democratic and relaxed family atmosphere for children, so that children can feel deep affection and love all the time. In the indoor environment, children's needs are also fully considered, such as hanging children's paintings and certificates to motivate children; Hang up a map of China and the world to let children know about the outside world. What's the big deal at home? Bring it up for discussion with children to enhance their democratic consciousness. Husband and wife have the same educational concept and unified requirements for their children. Knowing that "children are praised, not criticized", they usually give affirmation and encouragement to their daughters' little progress. Of course, we will never compromise on the mistakes that violate the principle, explain the reasons in time, and let them know where the mistakes are, so that they will not happen again.
Third, we are committed to ideological and moral education.
While doing a good job in children's study, don't forget to carry out ideological and moral education for children. * * * knows that educating children to become talents is not only for small families, but more importantly, it is necessary to train outstanding talents for the country. Usually, she attaches great importance to the cultivation of children's ideological and moral character. At school, children are required to respect teachers and classmates, and at home, children are required to respect their parents. In public places, she requires children to consciously abide by public morality and cultivate love and sense of justice from an early age. Every Monday when the flag is raised, she will wash her daughter's clothes and bring the red scarf neatly. And tell the children that this is a respect for the national flag. She is good at educating children from small things to form a correct outlook on life.
Fourth, pay attention to details and develop good study habits.
Good family study habits are the guarantee of school education. When children leave school, the first thing is to ask them to finish their homework for the day. Homework must be done in one go, not by halves. After that, prepare stationery and textbooks for class the next day. To form good habits, we should start from childhood and start from details. In order to cultivate her daughter's reading habits, she often accompanies her daughter to study, regularly takes her daughter to the library and Xinhua Bookstore to borrow books and buy books, and also subscribes classic books, simple and wonderful compositions and other reading materials for her daughter, and adheres to the principle that creditsailing.com reads for her daughter before going to bed and learns to be a man through reading, so as to cultivate love. Now, as soon as each classic book arrives, * * * reads it with relish. From the initial picture reading to the current Chinese and foreign masterpieces, there are many books in her family. In order to increase children's interest in reading extracurricular books, couples often read with their children and discuss the characters in the books together, so that children can understand that reading extracurricular books will make people smarter and more capable. Now my daughter has developed good reading habits, and her academic performance at school has always been among the best.
Fifth, clearly encourage and build children's self-esteem and self-confidence.
As the saying goes, "it is better to win the prize than to win the prize." * * * all know this truth. Therefore, she gives more affirmation and appreciation to the children's education methods. Consciously establish children's self-esteem and self-confidence. She encourages children not only in school, but also in all aspects of life. Let the children's outstanding principals' advanced deeds materials always maintain an optimistic attitude. * * * A phrase that often hangs on my lips is: "My daughter can do it. Nothing is impossible as long as you work hard. " Therefore, the activities arranged by the school and teachers can be completed particularly well.
Six, all-round development, cultivate children's comprehensive quality.
Modern society needs talents with comprehensive qualities, and couples have long paid attention to the all-round development of their children. * * * started painting when he could hold a pen, began to learn calligraphy at the age of eight, and actively participated in various sports in his spare time. In order to cultivate her daughter's interest in writing, drawing and singing, she often practices calligraphy, learns to draw Chinese painting in front of her daughter, sings with her daughter, and often participates in sports activities. At present, her daughter has a strong interest in painting, music, writing and sports.
Seven, close to nature, expand horizons, improve the realm.
Try to seize and create opportunities, take children out to travel and see the outside world. Usually, I often take my children to nearby scenic spots, parks or rural hometown, play games with them, take them to the pond to fish, listen to the birds and insects of nature, and go to the fields to see crops in spring and autumn, so that she can understand the truth that man and nature live in harmony.
Now, my daughter * * * is an excellent student with all-round development in morality, intelligence and physique, with outstanding achievements, and her academic performance has always been among the best, which has been well received by teachers and students. To this end, * * * will continue to educate children to make them better on the road of growth.
Article 3: excellent parents' deeds materials
XX is the mother of XXX, a student in Class Four (1). She actively participated in various activities organized by the school, closely cooperated with the class teacher and the classroom teacher to do a good job in home-school education, adhered to the principle of "love without drowning, temper leniency with severity", and strived to promote the all-round and healthy development of children.
Her daughter has a wide range of hobbies, cheerful personality and excellent grades, and is a special student in painting. She won the prize in the National Children's Painting and Calligraphy Competition, and won the title of "Excellent Student" in the school for many times, which made her outstanding performance in various activities inside and outside the school.
XX's education for children mainly achieves the following points.
First, set an example and be a good teacher for children.
Parents are children's first teachers, and children's initial words and deeds are obtained from their parents. Be friendly to others, never slack off on your career, and be a mirror for your children in all aspects. And often tell children that if you want others to be good to you, you must be good to others first; As you treat others, others will treat you. Guide children to be good at discovering the advantages of their classmates and be willing to help them, so that children can understand that classmates will like themselves only if they like themselves. Let children develop an honest, friendly and diligent attitude from an early age.
Second, warm and harmonious, and create a good family atmosphere.
Create a warm and harmonious family environment and strive to make children grow up healthily in happiness. Zhang Bin has always believed that excellent grades are welcome, but happy growth is the most important thing. To this end, together with family members, strive to create a harmonious, democratic and relaxed family atmosphere for children, so that children can feel deep affection and love all the time. The layout of the indoor environment also fully considers the needs of children, such as hanging children's paintings and certificates to motivate children; Hang up a map of China and the world to let children know about the outside world. What's the big deal at home? Bring it up for discussion with children to enhance their democratic consciousness. Husband and wife have the same educational concept and unified requirements for their children. Knowing that "children are praised, not criticized" will usually give affirmation and encouragement to their son's little progress. Of course, we will never compromise on the mistakes that violate the principle, explain the reasons in time, and let them know where the mistakes are, so that they will not happen again.
Third, we are committed to ideological and moral education.
While doing a good job in children's study, don't forget to carry out ideological and moral education for children. XXX knows that educating children to become talents is not only for small families, but more importantly, it is necessary to train outstanding talents for the country. Usually, she attaches great importance to the cultivation of children's ideological and moral character. At school, children are required to respect teachers and classmates, and at home, children are required to respect their parents. In public places, she requires children to consciously abide by public morality and cultivate love and sense of justice from an early age. Every Monday when the flag is raised, she will wash her son's clothes and bring the red scarf neatly. And tell the children that this is a respect for the national flag. He is good at educating children from small things to form a correct outlook on life. Under the influence of this thought, in May 2008, my son donated all his savings without hesitation in the donation activity for Sichuan, and was awarded the title of "caring teenager" by the school. Now he actively participates in the school's small community of environmental defenders, organizes various activities, and appeals to all students to carry out environmental protection.
Fourth, pay attention to details and develop good study habits.
Good family study habits are the guarantee of school education. When children leave school, the first thing is to ask them to finish their homework for the day. Homework must be done in one go, not by halves. After that, prepare stationery and textbooks for class the next day. To form good habits, we should start from childhood and start from details. In order to cultivate her son's reading habits, she often accompanied him to read books, regularly took him to the library and Xinhua Bookstore to borrow books, and subscribed to classic reading, simple and wonderful composition and other books, insisting that creditsailing.com read to his son before going to bed, and learn to be a man and cultivate love in reading. Now that every classic reading has arrived, XXX has read it with relish. From the initial picture reading to the current Chinese and foreign masterpieces, there are thousands of books in her family. In order to increase children's interest in reading extra-curricular books, XXX couples often read with their children and discuss the characters in the books together, so that children can understand that reading extra-curricular books will make people smarter and more capable. Now her son has developed a good reading habit, and his academic performance at school has always been among the best.
Fifth, clearly encourage and build children's self-esteem and self-confidence.
As the saying goes, "it is better to win the prize than to win the prize." Miao Ailing knows this truth well. Therefore, she gives more affirmation and appreciation to the children's education methods. Consciously establish children's self-esteem and self-confidence. She encourages children not only in school, but also in all aspects of life. Keep children always optimistic. Every day, Qi Hang Jr. walks to the school gate and says loudly: I can do it, I am the best! Miao Ailing often said, "My son can do it. As long as you work hard, nothing is impossible." So XXX, the activities arranged by the school and teachers, can be completed particularly well. XXX's scientific and technological production has been exhibited by the school for many times, and in 2009, it won the title of "Science and Technology Production Teenager" in tieli city. With her encouragement, her son's ability is improving day by day, and now he is actively preparing for the school election and challenging the post of captain of the Young Pioneers.
Six, all-round development, cultivate children's comprehensive quality.
Modern society needs talents with comprehensive qualities, and the XX couple have long been concerned about the all-round development of their children. Qi Hang Jr. began to draw when he could hold a pen, and began to learn calligraphy at the age of eight. He takes an active part in various sports activities in his spare time. In order to cultivate her son's interest in writing, drawing and singing, she often practices calligraphy, learns to draw Chinese paintings in front of her son, sings with her son, and often participates in sports activities. At present, her son has a strong interest in painting, music, writing and sports. Because of her explosive power, seven-year-old Qi Hang won a brand-new repeater with the fourth place in the tieli city Children's Roller Skating Competition. In the 20 10 school sports meeting, Xiao won the first place in the 100-meter, hoop rolling and dance with absolute advantage. Because of his hobby, Qi Hang Jr. also learned a unique skill-unicycle, which is super strong.