I think it's your repeated avoidance that makes him reckless. The more you avoid him, it is equivalent to telling him and his friends that you really like him, and they will take it for granted that if you and your friends don't have ghosts in their hearts, why do you avoid him? Especially since he was sure you liked him before, and now you and your friends are avoiding him, how can he not feel that you two are avoiding him, for fear of getting deeper and deeper or being shy? Put yourself in your shoes, wouldn't you think so if you knew that a heterosexual liked you and later found out that he was avoiding you? For him, perhaps being liked and paid attention by strange girls is something worth showing off, which is why everyone around him knows it, but never considers your mood.
You said yourself that this kind of man will only like him if you are blind. I think you and your friends are also angry at his slander. I suggest that if you want to stay in the library, you might as well fight back. Next time, in front of so many people, you can tell him generously: "Can you stop being romantic?" You think you're Pan An? Do all the girls around you like you? I haven't even talked to you. How can you be sure that I like you? If you think I'm spying on you, if you're not spying on me, how do you know I'm spying on you? I thought you liked me and you had a girlfriend. I didn't want to be gossiped, so I avoided you. Don't you know? What is even more ridiculous is that I misunderstood that my friend likes you, too. Don't you even have a face? I have been saving face for you, and I don't have the heart to expose you. Are you happy that you show off your nose and face to friends around you, forcing me to tell the truth in public and poke you in the face? Besides your blind girlfriend, which blind woman can value a man like you? I thought about writing you a letter to explain it clearly, but you don't want it. Then I can only tell you clearly in front of so many people. I hope from now on, don't make rumors that my friends and I like you. You are shameless, we have to face it! "
I believe that if you tell him such a thing in public, he will be a disgrace. From now on, see who dares to gossip about you and your friends, and the object of gossip may be him. Such people, the more you give in, the more they put up with it. What do you want his girlfriend to think if you keep putting up with it like this? If his girlfriend can take it out on her boyfriend, it doesn't matter. I'm afraid his girlfriend will put the bill on you and your friends. If his girlfriend finds you and your friend in public and says something ugly, you can swallow it even if you don't care. Have you ever thought about your friends? What did she do to accompany you to this humiliation? Because she's your friend? Even if you don't do something for yourself, don't you do something for your friends? In this incident, the most innocent person is your friend, who was inexplicably involved. Shouldn't we reflect on our mistakes? If you only have the ability to drag your friend into the water, but you can't protect her, with all due respect, it doesn't matter if she waits for a while now, sooner or later she will be chilled by you.
Finally, I think you are stupid because you think you are poor and humble, and you dare not get emotional easily in the future. You know very well that this boy is not a good guy. At best, you are not allowed to judge others. Will you only like men like him in your life? Why deny men all over the world because of a man with low quality? Is he doing this to you because you are not good? Does he accept your feelings on behalf of you? A man like him, if he has a girlfriend and accepts your feelings, is love rat, but it doesn't mean you are good, does it? So what he did is not enough to influence you to make such a judgment on yourself. Just like a couple, a man cheated on another girl and dumped his girlfriend. Can you say that his girlfriend is not good enough? Can you say that the third party is good enough? If that mistress is really a good thing, she can't steal someone else's boyfriend, can she?
So don't be silly. You can learn a lesson this time, that is, don't like a person without knowing him in the future, because if you don't know each other, you won't know their personality or even whether they have a girlfriend, so you will easily suffer. Reality is not a love novel. In a romance novel, you meet a boy who falls in love at first sight in the library and silently pays attention to each other. After the other person finds out that you like him, he also pays attention to you silently. Finally, but in real life, how can there be so many routines and sweetness of romance novels?
As for modesty, you are really modest and timid. I can tell you responsibly that no man will like a cowardly and humble girl, because when you are humble, the other party has no reason to look up to you. People have to love themselves before others can respect you. If you don't understand this, I don't know how many times you will experience similar blows in the future. People say that confident girls are the most beautiful. Because the light from confident girls is enough to cover up the flaws, you can't stop liking other boys because of this experience, it will only make you more humble. In case a boy confesses to you, I am really afraid that you will be grateful. But be careful when you really fall in love in the future. Don't like a stranger easily, especially don't stage the drama of love at first sight. Even if you chat with netizens online and like each other, at least you will have feelings after chatting with others for a while, right? Learning from mistakes is no big deal. The most important thing is to find a way to take the initiative and firmly deny that you ever liked that man. You'd better humiliate him and let him know that you two are not easy to bully and have ambitions for yourself.