1、? The contradiction between curiosity, sensitivity, competitiveness and emotional fragility and insufficient willpower.

2. The contradiction between the awakening of self-consciousness, the establishment of adult consciousness and the relatively slow social maturity.

3. The contradiction between rapid sexual development and relatively naive sexual psychology.

The education methods of junior high school students are:

1, don't care if you don't like it.

(1) Pay attention to cultivating children's independent living ability and do what they can.

(2) Pay attention to cultivating children's good habits of diligence and thrift.

(3) Pay attention to educating children to respect others.

2. Don't let go, pay attention. As parents, we should pay special attention to children in the critical period of youth. First, we should pay attention to children's behavior changes, such as dressing, dressing up, who to associate with, and whether they can go home in time after school. If you find anything unusual, you should communicate with your child in time. When communicating, pay attention to the child's explanation, don't be subjective, simple and rude, and don't interfere.

3. Don't control the emotional system. Encourage parents to influence with love and educate with heart. When children make mistakes, help them analyze the reasons, point out the harm, or give guidance, instead of using simple and rude means such as beating, cursing and scaring to control them.