In fact, I think this thing should be regarded as a super small thing. Just because you don't want to go to the library is nothing in itself. You should be unhappy if you are unhappy. He wants you to go to the library even though you don't want to. Isn't this forced?
However, if your boyfriend goes to the library, it seems that he should be a good learner. For a boy, he can not stay in the dormitory to play games, but want to go to the library to read books. There are not many boys who are so motivated, so he should cherish it.
You don't want to go to the library, which means that you are a scum. This configuration is not very good. This kind of thing usually has two results, either the scum is cultivated into a schoolmaster by schoolmasters, and the last two schoolmasters study together and brush CET-6 together, which is inseparable. Either the scum didn't want to be a bully, and there was a strong conflict with the bully. Scum thinks about how to turn bullies into scum. I just want to say that you think too simple about bully.
How can Xueba become a scum because of your change? The probability is really too small. You've held him back for a long time. I felt different, so I broke up naturally.
I have seen many such cases, often both. Both sides are unwilling to change, or the chances of breaking up can be slightly higher. If you two are really schoolmasters and scum, you should be prepared psychologically. It's not easy to coax a boyfriend, because you two represent different positions.
You have your attitude towards life, and he has his principles. If both sides are unwilling to give up, then the result can only be what I said before, and it will end slowly.
If you don't want to go just because you're not feeling well today, that's another matter. Just a special case. In this case, explain it to your boyfriend. Boys have a thick psychological line. If they are often unhappy, it will be fine in a short time. I feel a little wrong to be angry with you when I meet a slightly better boy. You should consider your feelings. Maybe you don't need to coax him, he will apologize to you himself.
Even if you have to coax your boyfriend, be a little charming and say that you are wrong. When a boy is soft-hearted, he will generally tell you that he is not doing well, take out the attitude that a boy should have and hold his girlfriend in his hand. That's about it.