After reading Pride and Prejudice 1 This book made me think: What is a beautiful love and marriage, and how can I have happiness? At the same time, it also brought me some insights.
I appreciate the love between Darcy and Elizabeth, not only because they are the protagonists. Elizabeth is lively and lovely, elegant, opinionated and not tacky. She often has accurate and original views on problems and people, and can see the essence and humanity of problems that others can't see, but she will also fall into preconceptions and prejudices.
Myth 1: Every time Darcy goes out, he is particularly arrogant, doesn't associate with people, and even doesn't bother to express his basic greetings, which causes the public to misunderstand and dislike him. In particular, Darcy commented on Elizabeth's appearance in front of everyone when they met for the first time, which made Elizabeth have a preconceived dislike for him.
Myth 2: Wickham, who is personable and approachable on the surface and deeply liked by Elizabeth, slanders Darcy, and Elizabeth believes Wickham's story.
Misunderstanding 3: Elizabeth knows that Darcy has blocked Bentley's love with his sister Jane and hates Darcy even more.
Myth 4: The self-righteous tone of Darcy's proposal angered Elizabeth. She refused Darcy's proposal of marriage in the most rude way. During this period, Darcy's dissatisfaction with Elizabeth's family status and her family's quality education was intertwined. The blow of the rejection of the marriage proposal made Darcy realize the consequences of arrogance for the first time. He reflected and changed himself, caring about Elizabeth as a friend. With Eliza getting to know Darcy better, she realized her prejudice against Darcy and began to get along with him again with a new attitude. Finally, they lived happily together.
Feeling: Two seemingly contradictory people, with the deepening of understanding, found that the other is the most suitable person for them. In Elizabeth's words: her lively temperament makes his thoughts less rigid and his manners more elegant and moving; He is knowledgeable and will definitely let her know the world and increase her knowledge. This is due to great love, which can eliminate all disharmonious factors and let them put down their arrogance and prejudice. These changes are subtle, and good love makes people grow and make themselves better.
If I love you less, I can talk more!
Jane and Bingley chatted happily when they first met at the dance. They have the same temperament and talent, and they are really a perfect match. But Bentley is a weak man who has no opinion and is easily influenced by the outside world. Jane, on the other hand, has a good upbringing and doesn't show her emotions and thoughts in front of people. The communication between the two people was only a polite conversation, and they did not express their love to each other. Therefore, Darcy and Bentley's sisters misunderstood that Jane was not in love with Bentley, that she and her family were only after Bentley's property, and persuaded Bentley to leave without saying goodbye. Since then, the two have been separated for nearly a year and have never heard from each other. But they all stood the test of time. Later, Bentley reunited with Jane and proposed.
Feelings: The two never showed their feelings to each other before breaking up, and they were friends. Bentley suddenly left without saying goodbye. Even though Jane has been to London to look for him, his friends and sisters won't let him know the news. After a year's separation, the two had no news and contact with each other, while Bentley's sisters and friends alienated and obstructed their feelings. But in the end, they still have a happy ending. Maybe true love can stand the test of time and setbacks. To borrow a sentence from Jane's father: Maybe some girls don't like plain love, and they have to chew their heads after twists and turns.
Pride and prejudice ii reflection. Do you think a man who only invites high-ranking women to dance at the ball and pretends not to see the fact that many women have no partners at the scene is arrogant? Do you think it is arrogant for a man to save a man who took his money for love and begged when his sister slandered his beloved woman?
I'm afraid the answer is self-evident. But can you imagine? These two "he" are both Mr. Darcy. At first, Ms. Elizabeth could not accept Mr. Darcy's behavior and only regarded his admiration as a shame. But with the help of many times, Ms. Elizabeth gradually realized that maybe her ideas were biased. After getting to know him, she discovered that family education and growing environment led to his distorted personality.
There is another person in the story. He is tall, handsome and rich. He has helped many people. Every girl in the town is infatuated with him, and everyone thinks he will be an honest and kind young man. But then what? It was found that the property belonged to Mr. Darcy, and he also killed old Mr. Darcy. People think he is a lying murderer with prejudice and forget that he used to be a good man.
Helplessness, arrogance and prejudice are so dramatic. After laughing at the plot of some novels, think carefully. Who really dares to say that people are not biased? What are the consequences of prejudice?
First of all, I think prejudice will affect my interpersonal communication. In our impression, it is generally believed that Northeasters are generous and informal, while Shanghainese are smart but have strong xenophobic thoughts. However, if we don't analyze the specific problems, it is easy to produce cognitive bias. For example, if a Shanghainese appears in your living environment, but you don't use this knowledge to associate with him, you may lose a good friend.
Secondly, prejudice may hinder the happiness of yourself and others. This reminds me of If You Are the One. Once, after a male guest came on stage, all the female guests turned off the lights because he was nervous, incoherent and acting strangely. It is the first time for them to meet. According to the performance of male guests, female guests judged that they were obscene, timid, timid and temperamental, and finally chose to turn off the lights. Female guests don't understand male guests, because prejudice eliminated male guests, but male guests may be generous and humorous under the stage, but they are too nervous on the stage. Isn't this the real version of Pride and Prejudice? Elizabeth's understanding would be the same without Darcy's help again and again.
Further thinking, prejudice may cause great psychological harm to others. In a social experiment, 20 passers-by were invited to play keyboard man, and their first impressions of the selected guests were all made on their mobile phones. At that time, a guest seemed very gentle and insecure. She introduced that because of work reasons, she usually sleeps during the day and works at night. Comments such as "social butterfly" and "late mother" appeared on the comment wall. After evaluation, the truth is that she is a friend who has no' night guard'. A series of unsightly comments from passers-by are really ironic. Fortunately, this is just an experiment. What if it is put into reality? Will she face it rationally? Will she be depressed from now on? All this is beyond our imagination.
How terrible prejudice is. Hurting yourself hurts others more. Let's treat everyone sincerely! This is what Pride and Prejudice taught me.
After reading Pride and Prejudice, I have read the introduction of the book before, but after reading it carefully, it has a different taste. When the hero has Gao Fushuai, the heroine will naturally be a Cinderella with connotation. Although there are few accidents in the world, I also see different views on love from different angles from characters with different personalities in the book, which makes people think deeply.
Elizabeth and Darcy are both more or less arrogant and biased against each other. In Elizabeth's eyes, Darcy is arrogant, because he disdains talking to people like her who have no money and no power, let alone wanting to marry all five daughters to rich mothers, and his two vain sisters make Darcy too lazy to pay attention. So Elizabeth's family hated him. And love from scratch is another miracle. Darcy's contempt for Elizabeth ranges from admiration to admiration, and perhaps even he can't explain it clearly. Outsiders can see clearly, I think it's because she is an alternative in Darcy's eyes. She won't talk well around him like other girls around her, nor will she deliberately fiddle with her posture to attract his attention. This is why he will pay attention to her first and be curious about her before he wants to know her, because he is different and falls in love with her. This is the scene used in too many idol dramas now. Okay, let's go back to the story. Darcy's first proposal to Elizabeth was rejected, which was a great blow. So he wrote her a long letter. Elizabeth should let go of her prejudice against Darcy from this letter. This letter explains Elizabeth's misunderstanding of him. After several subsequent meetings, the two settled their differences and fell in love with each other. Of course, idol drama, how can it make the hero and heroine smooth sailing! Elizabeth's sister, a teenager, eloped with an unreliable person. This man is very kind to Elizabeth and has spoken ill of Mr Darcy. Of course, the misunderstanding was explained in that letter. God, haven't you written for a long time? I can't type a lot. ) So Elizabeth said goodbye to Darcy and went home to help her family solve this shameful thing. Even if you share your troubles with your family, it is also a kind of spiritual comfort.
It was Elizabeth's uncle who helped solve the problem. Of course, it needs a lot of money, because the person who is extremely worried owes a lot of gambling debts. And that disappointing sister was blinded by love. Immersed in this doomed unhappy dream. The ending is still satisfactory. Later, Elizabeth learned that Darcy secretly helped the man pay off his gambling debts, promised to give him some money every year as a family allowance, and found him a good position. Well, everyone knows that the idol drama is over here. Just like all idol dramas have happy endings, Elizabeth and Mr. Darcy live happily together ... Oh, yes, I forgot to introduce Elizabeth's sister at the end of the story. She is an easy-going person, who thinks everything beautifully and never speaks ill of others, because everyone is a good person in her eyes. In the book, she fell in love with Darcy's good friend and became a beautiful story. The other girl is also very interesting. Maybe she has read too many books and always wants to sort everything out. The other sister was not sensible when she was young, but later became natural and graceful under the influence of Elizabeth and Darcy, and later lived a happy life.
Every character in the novel is vividly described, and at the same time it is often compared with the current life and characters. At this moment, I can't help but think of a sentence "Character decides fate" ...
After reading Pride and Prejudice, I often read novels, but I never thought of reading famous books. Positive energy reading activities made me interested in them in my spare time. The first time I saw this month's book list, I told myself: I want to watch Pride and Prejudice!
Pride and Prejudice is the most famous novel of Jane Austen, a British novelist in the19th century, formerly known as First Impression. The story revolves around the marriage of the little squire's daughters. Among them, the feelings of the second daughter Elizabeth and Darcy are the main line, and the marriage of Elizabeth's sisters and friends is the foil to set off the heroine's ideal marriage.
The heroine in the book is lively and naughty, smart and witty, and good at thinking. Because she listened to the rumors of the young officer Wickham, she was prejudiced against the protagonist Darcy, and because of Darcy's own arrogance, she was extremely disgusted or even disgusted with him. After a series of interesting twists and turns, the misunderstanding was finally eliminated, Elizabeth was no longer prejudiced against Darcy, and Darcy realized his shortcomings under Elizabeth's sophistry, overcame his arrogance, and let the two young people get to know each other again, and finally lived happily together.
It tells us not to be biased against anyone or anything, but to put aside some one-sided things and look at them objectively. Network is a communication platform, where we make friends, pay attention to the news we are interested in and kill our leisure time. However, there are too many marketing bloggers who maliciously spread other people's news, which affects the first impression of celebrity artists in the eyes of passers-by, and also makes netizens biased against celebrity artists. Regardless of the positive energy he gives others, they just abuse and misunderstand his every move, causing great or small harm to star artists. I think this kind of behavior is extremely shameful and annoying, not to mention that star artists are human beings and have their own lives, but we should appreciate his entertainment and joy in all aspects, instead of automatically shielding his wanton scolding because of some unintentional mistakes!
What I want to say is: many times, we are not with the parties and we cannot know who they are. At this time, you should keep your thoughts, don't be guided casually, and don't look at someone or something with prejudice. Be objective, have something to say, be kind, after all, it has nothing to do with you, and he has nothing to do with you. Maybe that's why I want to read the title. I want to prove my point from here, which is true: less prejudice, more calm, and everyone is happy.
At the same time, there is only a material marriage between Charlotte and Collins without love. Lydia and Wickham regard marriage as a child's play without considering material life. The happy marriage between Elizabeth and Darcy with both love and material forms a sharp contrast, which warns us to establish a correct view of marriage: marriage should not only talk about love or material, but also be considered comprehensively. Only when both aspects are taken into account can we really get happiness. There are countless examples around, so this has always been my opinion.
They all said: If you are not blind, don't know me from others.
Comments on Pride and Prejudice Jane Austen's masterpiece Pride and Prejudice is set in1England at the beginning of the 9th century. Mr. Darcy, the blunt protagonist in the book, is a representative of arrogance in external performance; Elizabeth, the heroine who has her own ideas, interprets the word prejudice.
The stories don't like each other. Later, through the "intense communication" every time we met, we found that the facts were different from our preconceived ideas. Then the hero and heroine finally changed their external arrogance, put down their prejudice, and the plot took a sharp turn and evolved into appreciation and love for each other. A series of wonderful dialogues and dramatic plots in the book made me forget all about eating and sleeping, and I didn't want to put down the book for a moment.
When people meet for the first time, the first impression is often the deepest. But are our first impressions of each other really correct? Mr Darcy neglected Elizabeth at the dance, which led to her prejudice against him. Coupled with the lies made up by a willing heart, the heroine is convinced of the hero's point of view. Do we sometimes make the same mistake as Elizabeth, only seeing the thorns in others' eyes and not seeing the pillars in our own eyes?
After reading this book, I found that arrogance and prejudice go hand in hand. When we are biased against a person, our attitude towards him will inadvertently show arrogance. And if we often unconsciously show our arrogance, others' prejudice against us will follow. When arrogance meets prejudice, the result is an irrational situation, such as mutual disapproval, opposition to everything, opposition to people, and even opposition for the sake of opposition. It is also difficult for both sides with different channels to have opportunities for communication and understanding.
Don't think that it is impossible for us junior high school students to have such a situation in our daily life. For example, transferring students to our class is probably because they are unfamiliar with the new environment, not good at communicating with others or speaking inappropriately, which makes old classmates misunderstand each other's arrogance or arrogance. And this self-righteousness can easily become prejudice against transfer students. When arrogance meets prejudice, it is often an indelible gap caused by misunderstanding.
To avoid the above situation, the only way is to put down your arrogant attitude, lose your prejudice and think differently. Through mutual communication and understanding, we can really understand each other. Just like Mr. Darcy in the book, although the appearance gives the impression of arrogance, arrogance and arrogance. But in his heart, he is kind and sincere, willing to put down his body and not stick to his own opinion, which is really admirable.
And Elizabeth always "bravely expresses her thoughts", which also makes me admire. Because I am always the quietest one in every group discussion. Even if I have different opinions in my heart, I dare not express them because I am afraid. This is the place where I should study most.
To understand a person, you can't just look at the surface, but be honest with each other. There is no need to deliberately make flattering behavior, as long as you show the truest side, there will be a good interaction and a good cycle. How to get along with people? How to deal with advance and retreat? How to treat people without hurting others? How to express your doubts when encountering friction or misunderstanding? The problems pointed out in this book are worth pondering and thought-provoking, and it is an important lesson that we junior high school students must seriously think and learn.
After watching Pride and Prejudice, I watched Pride and Prejudice as early as in high school, but I just thought it was a humorous and interesting love story. But now watching this movie, I have a very different feeling.
Pride and Prejudice is Jane Austen's masterpiece. This work is based on daily life, which is contrary to the content and artificial writing method of sentimental novels popular in society at that time, and vividly reflects the life and social conditions of British towns and villages in a conservative and closed state from the end of 18 to the beginning of 19. This novel with social customs not only attracted a large number of readers at that time, but still gives readers unique artistic enjoyment today.
In this novel, Austin shows the different attitudes of girls from middle-class families in villages and towns to marriage and love through the different treatment of the five Bennet daughters to lifelong events, which reflects the author's own view on marriage: it is wrong to marry for property, money and status; It is also foolish to get married without considering the above factors. So she is not only against getting married for money, but also against taking marriage as a joke. She emphasizes the importance of an ideal marriage and regards the feelings of both men and women as the cornerstone of an ideal marriage. Elizabeth, the heroine in the book, comes from a small landlord family and is loved by Darcy, the son of a rich man. Despite the gap between family status and wealth, Darcy proposed to her, but she refused. Elizabeth's misunderstanding and prejudice against him is one reason, but the most important thing is that she hates his arrogance. Because Darcy's arrogance is actually a reflection of the status difference, as long as there is such arrogance, he and Elizabeth can't have the same thoughts and feelings and ideal marriage. After that, Elizabeth observed Darcy's behavior and a series of actions with her own eyes, especially seeing that he changed his arrogant attitude and eliminated his misunderstanding and prejudice, thus concluding a happy marriage with him. Elizabeth's different attitudes towards Darcy's several marriage proposals actually reflect women's pursuit of personality independence and equal rights. This is the progressive significance of Elizabeth's image.
As can be seen from the film, Elizabeth is smart, resourceful, brave, far-sighted, self-respecting and good at thinking. As far as a young lady waiting for the word at that time is concerned, this is commendable. It is precisely because of this quality that she has an opinion on love and has a happy family with Darcy.
In Pride and Prejudice, Austin also wrote about the marriages of several sisters and girlfriends of Elizabeth, as a foil, in contrast to the heroine's ideal marriage. For example, although Charlotte and Collins lived a comfortable material life after marriage, there was no love between them. This kind of marriage is actually a social tragedy hidden under the gorgeous coat.
Another touching scene in the film is the conversation between Elizabeth and her father. Unlike his wife, Mr. Bennet does not measure a person by money, but asks Elizabeth to follow her heart and encourage her to pursue her happiness bravely. This was not easy at that time.
Elizabeth, the most talented of the 5000 gold medals, explained with her dignity that the poor can't move and the strong can't bend … a portrayal of a perfect goddess!
After watching Pride and Prejudice, I actually watched Pride and Prejudice once in junior high school and once again in senior three, but I can watch a little every noon. After a long time, the specific events may be a little vague in my memory, but I still have some feelings and thoughts left by this book.
In fact, leaving aside other interpersonal relationships and stories in the book, I was most impressed and moved. It should be the love between Darcy and Elizabeth, just like most people. The love between them is not as frivolous and hasty as Elizabeth's sister, nor as dull and boring as Charlotte and Collins, just because they are suitable for each other. In fact, most people's marriages in this world, like Charlotte and Collins, have no love.
Although the love in the student days is beautiful, after all, we are still in the period of cultivating three views, life is not independent, and the future is still very confused and uncertain. So I think most of the love in my student days will die, because I submit to the trivial life of reality, unlike fairy tales and idol dramas, because our unrealistic expectations for it are not worth the daily necessities. How simple and fragile love is when I was a student. How few people can finally enter the marriage hall, manage their own marriage after entering the marriage hall and continue to be happy.
Why did Charlotte and Collins talk about their schooldays love? Actually, I don't know. I just feel that after entering the society, love is no longer as pure as it was when they were students. Many people stay together not because they like to get along, but because they are afraid of loneliness. In the end, many people, like Charlotte and Collins, just get married because they are suitable for each other and choose to spend the rest of their lives with someone who doesn't love them so much.
Neither of the two situations I just mentioned seems to have a happy ending emotionally, but I still believe in love. I'm here to celebrate the love between Elizabeth and Darcy. In fact, I think Elizabeth is the most admirable person in this book. She would rather risk being poor and lonely all her life than marry someone who neither loves her nor loves her. Because of Darcy's arrogance, she has deep prejudice against him. She thinks he is an arrogant son, but in the communication and conversation with Darcy, she is attracted by the other person's personality and conversation. Fortunately, Darcy finally faced up to his heart and bravely put down his identity to express his love for Elizabeth, which was not easy in their time.
The two of them, one is arrogant and the other is biased, but in the end, because of love, one put down the arrogance and the other eliminated the prejudice. Their love is undoubtedly the most wonderful part of this book. Their love is not as indecisive as Elizabeth's sister and Darcy's good friend, but after determining their own heart, they are extremely firm, and he wants to love himself all his life.
I think this is the right love. After getting to know a person well, rather than seeing the color, it is the true soul fit between two people. After meeting, you should "love what you love, do what you do, listen to your heart and ask for nothing more", which should be to follow your heart firmly. I believe there must be such a suitable person in the world since we met him.