Communication includes three aspects: expressing yourself, listening to others, creating an atmosphere and establishing relationships. As long as these three points can be done well, it can constitute effective benign communication. The Art of Communication integrates different chapters into three parts: seeing people, seeing people and seeing people, which also conforms to the above three aspects of communication. By reading this book, I can not only complete my communication process, but also learn a lot of skills and thinking in dealing with people.
The Distant Savior has always been my favorite novel.
This novel is better than the plot, but better than the characterization. The hero in it is a man with profound cultural background and speculative ability. The whole book has profound thoughts on the cultural differences between China and the West, religion, material and life, and many classic paragraphs in it are full of Zen. It is a good book worth reading and rereading.
Another non-skill book is The Little Prince.
Before I saw it, I heard many people praise it, but I didn't care too much at that time. I thought it was just a fairy tale for children. But I was deeply shocked after reading it. In fact, every girl is a fox and a rose. However, before being a fox, the rose didn't know how to restrain her own thorns, which hurt people very much; Similarly, a fox who has never been a rose will not understand that kind of deep love and will not be so peaceful. When a girl becomes someone's rose after all, she and her little prince will cherish it more and know how to get along better.