How long can you wait to find someone?

For Luo Siqing and Zhang Guihong, it has lasted for 7 185 days, 236 months, 19 years.

And will stick to it.

Luo Siqing and Zhang Guihong, who live in Chenzhou, Hunan, have a pair of children. They opened a small shop and were busy with business. The two children are smart and lovely, and their lives are dull and happy. On March 19, 2003, Frankie Luo, the youngest son, was cheated out of a kindergarten in Chenzhou, Hunan Province, and he was separated from him and his whereabouts were unknown.

That year, Frankie Luo was five years old. Since then, the couple have embarked on a long road to find children.

This year, Luo Siqing was 58 years old and Zhang Guihong was 54 years old.

19 years ago, that unforgettable Wednesday.

"It's impossible! I am in the store with my father. "

On March 19, 2003, at about 5 pm, Zhang Guihong went to the kindergarten to pick up the child to hang salt water, but was told that "the child had been picked up by his father".

"At that time, our business was busy, and the special kindergarten was a full-time nursery, and we didn't take it home until Sunday. He coughed a little in those days, and the doctor said that he had inflammation and needed salt water. "

Even after many years, Luo Siqing still clearly remembers that Fan Chao was kidnapped on Wednesday.

"A man called the kindergarten and said that the parents gave their children's grandmother a birthday, sent someone to pick them up and left the license plate number. The kindergarten teacher had no doubt and handed the child over to a motorcycle driver. "

The motorcycle driver took Frankie Luo to the station according to his instructions. "The driver heard the man ask my son to take him to his father, became suspicious, and secretly followed him, watching him go to the wholesale market with my son in his arms, went in by himself, and left my son at the door for a while. Later, I used my superhuman taxi and CMB. "

Luo Siqing remembers these details before 19. Zhang Gui was very worried after the child was taken away. "I can't say clearly on the phone. I only know that the child had an accident, thinking it was a fall or something, which was more serious. I rushed to the kindergarten and found the child abducted. At that time, I felt that people were going to faint and all the food was spit out. "

The two called the police and the local criminal investigation detachment responded quickly. By the early morning of March 20th, several key figures such as motorcycle driver, taxi driver, bus driver and conductor were found. However, no one noticed where the man with extraordinary arm strength got off the bus.

From Chenzhou to the county seat below is a CMB. If you don't indicate the station, you can't determine the whereabouts of that person, and the clue is broken here.

Luo Siqing can also accurately describe the physical characteristics of men. "He is in his thirties, about 1.6 meters, with a slightly round face, but not much meat. His upper teeth have a worn silver inlay, which can be seen as soon as he speaks. "

But according to the appearance, no one was found. "At that time, there was no monitoring, and there was no big data and technology now. Finding someone is like looking for a needle in a haystack. "

Luo Siqing and Zhang Guihong listened to the police of the Criminal Investigation Team and waited patiently for more than a week. "They live in the hotel next to the XingZhenDui, afraid of missing any clues, but there is no news after waiting for a long time. We can't wait, so we'll find it ourselves. "

The couple mobilized their relatives and friends to search all the counties near Chenzhou. "A village looked for it to see if there were any children crying, but there were none."

The business failed, and all my thoughts were looking for my son.

I searched all over Chenzhou and surrounding counties, but there was no news. After Frankie Luo was kidnapped for more than half a year, the couple expanded their search to the whole of Hunan.

"After I arrived at the kindergarten on March 19, I didn't take care of the store, and the store door was pulled down by my neighbor. Fan Chao is gone, and we look for him every day, and we are not in the mood to do business, and the newly arrived goods have not been opened. It didn't take long to give the store to others at the price of _ ". "

After closing the store, the focus of the two people has completely shifted to finding children.

For more than half a year, the two have been to Guangzhou, Shenzhen, Xiamen, and some places in Anhui and Fujian, but they have found nothing.

From 2003 to 2004, Luo Siqing and his wife were highly nervous. As soon as they received any possible clues, they set off with their bags. "There are things like searching for you in the bag, and I didn't even change my clothes. I don't care about my personal life at all. I just want to go and see if it is my child. "

In order to find the child, the two men suffered a lot. "At the end of their tether, they don't even have a place to live, so they have to live in bridge opening. I remember once, it was very cold in winter, and we searched somewhere for a few days. Like beggars, we don't even have money to eat. I met a kind boss and was very concerned when I saw that we were looking for children. I cooked us a bowl of hot noodles and found us a simple place to live. "

Luo Siqing said that in 19, they had seen the hottest summer and experienced the coldest winter.

"Once the TV station invited us to participate in the program of finding children. My wife and I arrived early by train, thinking about not wasting time, and gave many people playing cards with information about missing children at the station. In addition to being extraordinary, there are many other children's information. In the process of finding my son, I know many parents who have the same experience. We all help each other. "

Wherever they go, they will try their best to post information cards and notices to find their children, hoping to receive useful clues one day. "How many times have I rushed there hopefully, only to be disappointed?"

/kloc-I came to Hangzhou 0/7 years ago and continued to look for it while working.

Two years before Fan Chao was kidnapped, the couple traveled all over the country, but no matter how anxious they were, they had to consider the reality of survival. In 2005, Luo Siqing came to Hangzhou to find a job to make a living, and his wife Zhang Guihong shouldered the main responsibility of finding children.

"Other parents who came to Zhejiang because they were looking for children said that the public security police in Zhejiang are very good at finding abducted and missing children. We also speculated that Wenzhou might have some clues, so we came, settled in Hangzhou and found a job similar to security. "

When looking for a job, Luo Siqing made it clear to his boss that if he was looking for a child, he might leave at any time and go somewhere else. "The boss also understands me. He said it's okay. When you are looking, you can go directly. I am very grateful. "

17 years, Hangzhou, Shanghai, Wenzhou, Huzhou, and the surrounding cities with clues and places to go, Luo Siqing has almost been there.

For so many years, two people have been running on the way to find their children. Slowly, they are no longer lonely and isolated. "In the early years, I walked by myself. Later, there were volunteers all over the country. Where there are clues, local volunteers will help us to contact and verify first, without running around, saving a lot of tolls and accommodation fees. "

"I also met many other parents in the process of finding my son. We contact each other on mobile phones, help each other and inspire each other. "

What makes Luo Siqing feel warm and grateful most is the Zhejiang police and the good people he met along the way.

"The police of Zhejiang Public Security Department and City Bureau who handled my case helped me a lot. Officer Sui Yonghui has always been very concerned and enlightened that we will definitely find it. First of all, we must live our own lives and take care of ourselves. "

In recent years, Luo Siqing and Zhang Gui Hongdu have encountered coldness, but they are more concerned and warm. "There are people who pass bottles of water, people who help buy food, and many caring people who help design cards, posters and flags to find children and help us post information. Thank you very much for making us feel very warm. "

After coming to work in Hangzhou, Luo Siqing lived alone in a small room of more than ten square meters near the company. In addition to personal daily necessities, he is still looking for his son's extraordinary posters, T-shirts, cards and various public welfare products with relevant information printed on them.

His wife, Zhang Guihong, undertook the main task of finding children. For the sake of her children, she went to the West Lake and other places to find a card during the Chinese New Year, and also learned to use WeChat, Tik Tok and Aauto more quickly. "She will broadcast live on the Internet. Although there are not many people watching, there is more hope for one more person to see extraordinary information. "

After Frankie Luo disappeared, Guangxi suffered a great blow. "Sometimes I have a headache to explode, and now I am in poor health. Just got out of the hospital a few days ago. I recently recuperated in my hometown in Hunan and paid attention to children's news online. "

Now that technology is developed, I firmly believe that one day there will be a family reunion.

On the morning of June165438+1October 18, Luo Siqing went to Ziyang Kindergarten in Hangzhou to participate in anti-abduction propaganda exercises.

The first half is the anti-abduction drill of kindergarten children, and he watched it carefully. "There are still many children who have no awareness of anti-abduction. This exercise can also make parents and teachers vigilant and strengthen their awareness of prevention. "

Recalling everything before 19, Luo Siqing still felt sad. "Others will be surprised to hear about our experience. How could they be cheated in kindergarten? As long as one person feels that something is wrong and calls the police, my son will not be abducted, but it is so unfortunate. "

19, the pain of separation of flesh and blood, the couple insisted on finding their son's way, and did not forget to publicize anti-abduction tactics and methods of recognizing relatives. Whenever dealing with strangers, Luo Siqing always gives his son Frankie Luo's business card to each other. In addition to detailed information about Frankie Luo, anti-kidnapping tips and police tips are printed on it.

"The more people know, the more likely they are to help find their families as soon as possible. The anti-abduction reminder is also to make more people vigilant, and no one will encounter this kind of thing again. "

Zhang Guihong's circle of friends is almost always looking for information about Frankie Luo and other separated children. She passed on her son's related information in various forms over and over again on various platforms, expecting the reunion to come one day earlier.

Luo Siqing said that after Fan Chao was kidnapped, he didn't spend the Spring Festival at home. "His schoolbags and shoes were at home when he was a child. Every time I go home, I think Fan Chao likes to play with this toy. He likes to sit in this position. The more he looked at it, the more sad he became. Dare not go back, dare not think. "

Seeing that others finally found their loved ones after many years, he was sincerely happy for them and always envied them. However, after so many years of searching for children, he has been firm and full of hope. "After we arrived in Hangzhou, we collected blood samples. Now that technology is so developed and there are so many good people helping us, I believe we will be reunited. "

Luo Siqing said that as long as we can find the ordinary, as long as the family can recognize each other and reunite, even if the ordinary can't be with us for various reasons, it doesn't matter. "When the child is older, I respect his life."

If you could say something to extraordinary people, what would you say? Luo Siqing thought for a moment and looked up.

"Son, if you can see it, please go to the public security organ to collect blood samples early, apply for DNA comparison and information storage, and see your parents early. We have been looking for you! "

Luo Siqing has a simple smile on his face and firm eyes. He firmly believes that a family of four will have a happy reunion and a happy reunion dinner.