From Han Jingqing 1 974+February1the first letter to Liang Shiqiu (she wrote it as165438+1October 3 1) to1975+/kloc-. In just 40 days, from the first acquaintance to the love of forgetting the year, they met almost every day, but wrote love letters every day. The envelopes of these love letters are not stamped, and there is no address of the recipients. They were all given to each other by hand. 65438+February 1, sent the first letter, asking Professor Liang to "know me as soon as possible" to prevent Liang Shiqiu from having the idea of "miraculous". As we all know, a stone stirs up a thousand waves, and Professor Liang's love letters are endless. Han Jingqing deeply felt that "the sea is difficult for water". After intense thinking, she advised Liang Shiqiu to "pull back from the cliff as early as possible" and wrote the words "there is no love in the world" on the glass mirror of the dresser, encouraging herself to close the door of love as soon as possible. However, Liang Shiqiu's heart has burned a pot of love. The root of love is like a giant tree, hugging a volcanic soul. The roots collided with each other and found the same place, so it was a paradise for love. Love doesn't complain, just like the root of a big tree. No matter whether it is rooted in the mountain top or wasteland, as long as the root of love is full of vitality, it will surely become a world with vigorous roots. They climb up to each other, competing to suck the milk of spirit, process the brilliance of life, shake off the green of life, and the green shade of love will cover the road of life in the future. 65438+At 2 noon on February 2, I woke up and opened the curtain, and found Professor Liang waiting downstairs. Liang Shiqiu couldn't wait to run upstairs as soon as he saw the curtains open. He told Miss Han that he found a letter downstairs and gave it to her. When she saw "Miss Jingjing" written on the envelope, she quickly opened the stationery and began to read. This is Liang Shiqiu's first love letter to Han Jingqing.
Afterwards, due to age and other reasons, Han Jingqing hesitated about this marriage, so she told Liang Shiqiu all her past life experiences. On February 6, 65438, Liang Shiqiu wrote to Han Jingqing: "Don't say it's a cliff, it's a crater, we have to jump." Under the burning of Liang Shiqiu's love, she was conquered On February 7, 65438, Han Jingqing wrote to Liang Shiqiu: "Every day we are together, I don't know where there are so many words. Once the motor is started, we can't brake! " In this way, a great and sincere relationship between people began.
Liang Shiqiu's love affair with Han Jingqing, such as "white hair for black hair", "gifted scholar and beautiful woman" and "writer and singer", caused a news storm in Taiwan Province. Due to1974165438+1October 27th. When talking about this issue, Ms. Han Jingqing said, "Things have to start from the day before. That day, my uncle Xie wanted to write an English letter to a friend of a US Congressman. Uncle is a professor of international relations law. I don't know how to write some nouns in English when writing letters. I happened to buy a Far East English-Chinese Dictionary edited by Liang Shiqiu. My uncle borrowed my dictionary. When eating, he put the dictionary on the dining table and leafed through it while eating. I said,' Uncle Xie, we'll see after dinner. There is oil on the table, which will dirty the dictionary. This is the book I bought at a cost of 1000 yuan. "What's the big deal about dictionaries?" My uncle continued disapprovingly. "I sent the boss of Far East Book Company to study. He gave me as many dictionaries as I wanted to go to the Far East. Tomorrow, I'll take you to the Far East and ask the boss to send you a new one!' After reading it, my uncle was still turning over the dictionary at the dining table. "Uncle xie really means what you say. The next day, he took Han Jingqing to the Far East Book Company. Boss Pu Jialin immediately took out a brand-new Far East English-Chinese dictionary and told Mr. Xie a good news: "Mr. Liang is in Huamei Building. Do you want to meet him? " He came to Taipei this time because we "Far East" invited him. ""well, I'll go and see him. " Sheila walked to the Huamei Building.
After meeting, Xie chatted with Liang Shiqiu for a while, and asked Liang to take his car to the Linsen Road Unity Hotel for coffee. Han Jingqing was right beside his uncle, holding the brand-new dictionary in his hand and saying nothing.
When I arrived at Uni-President Hotel, I happened to meet David Rao, an American professor. Because Professor David also studies politics, he and Professor Xie have the same topic. The more they talk, the more speculative they become. They put Liang Shiqiu and Han Jingqing aside and created opportunities for them to talk.
Liang Shiqiu saw Han Jingqing holding his dictionary, so he chatted with her.
"Oh, you are Miss Han Jingqing. I have heard your songs. " Professor Liang went on to say, "I was very uncomfortable when I saw your name on the TV program in Taiwan Province for the first time!"
"Hey?" Han Jingqing was surprised.
"Do you think about it, reading' Beijing', how awkward this' Jing Qing' is? It is either jingjing or qingqing, so it is easy to read. Who gave this name? " Liang Shiqiu asked, speaking like a book.
"My real name is Han Derong. Han Jingqing is my stage name, which I took myself. " At that time, Han Jingqing regarded Liang Shiqiu as his elder, so he told the truth in detail.
"Like a boy's name, this name is not nice!" Liang Shiqiu laughed.
Chinese and foreign professors are talking about politics and laughing.
Here, the white-haired beauty met her bosom friend and fell in love with her.
"When I was a child in Shanghai, I liked singing. Singing on stage with the same name as the boy Han Derong, of course not. I took the word "Jingjing" as my stage name from the sentence "Its leaves are in Jingjing" in The Book of Songs tang style Youdu. But I soon discovered that several singers used the word Jingjing as their stage names, so I changed it to Jingjing and added my family name to become Han Jingqing. I won't repeat it with others ... "After listening to Han Jingqing's introduction of his name, Liang Shiqiu praised with relish:" You are really not simple. You knew it when you were very young.
Han Jingqing's ancestral home is Huangpi County, Hubei Province. His father, Han Huian (also known as Han Daohui), is known as "Han Siye (ranked fourth)" and has deep pockets. Han Huian is good at doing business. He was in the salt business when he was young. He came to Hankou from Huangpi and from north to south, and gradually made a fortune and became a big salt merchant. He has served as the general manager of Hubei Yarn, Cloth, Silk and Hemp Fourth Bureau. In addition, he served as president of Hankou Chamber of Commerce and speaker of Hubei Senate. "Han Siye" has a hobby, that is, he likes to buy a house if he has money. I bought hundreds of houses in Huangpi and Hankou, and bought Hankou Grand Stage (now People's Theatre) and Oriental Hotel in Hankou French Concession. Lushan Mountain in Jiangxi Province is a summer resort for dignitaries and wealthy businessmen. He built an English villa at Lulin No.5, adjacent to the villa of Lin Sen, chairman of the National Government. Buying a house on Mendeland Road in Shanghai gave him a foothold in Shili Foreign Exchange. It is said that this English three-story building inlaid with blue bricks and red bricks has dozens of rooms and is surrounded by a two-acre garden. The shopkeeper turned out to be the boss of Shanghai Bank. 1August, 937 13 The Japanese army attacked Shanghai. After the Battle of Songhu broke out, the boss suddenly disappeared. Later, it was reported that he was kidnapped by Wu Shibao (Wu Shibao worked as a groom and driver, met Li Shiqun, a spy and gangster, and became arrogant). Wu threatened to ask for 600,000 yuan (silver dollars) because he wanted money and kidnapped, but he had no choice but to sell the garden house on Mendel Road for 600,000 yuan. The news came out that someone went to look at the house and saw a mulberry tree planted in the garden. He was afraid of the homophonic sound of sang (mourning) and bad luck, so he shook his head and left. Only Han Huian didn't believe in evil and bought it for 600,000 yuan. After knowing this history of Han Jingqing, Liang Shiqiu asked, "What ancient texts have you read?" Han Jingqing occasionally recited Mencius. Liang Shiqiu was very surprised. He knew that among the singers and movie stars in Taiwan Province Province, no one seemed to know ancient Chinese like her. He talked to her about Li Qingzhao, Li Shangyin, Li Bai and Du Fu, and Han Jingqing was very good at their experiences and works. Therefore, Liang Shiqiu was overjoyed and sighed: "If only there were a girl like you who likes words in my family!" Recalling the scene at that time, I felt that Professor Liang's tone was exactly the same as his father's. She didn't expect that1the acquaintance and dialogue with Professor Liang at Uni-President Hotel on October 27th, 1974+ 165438, became the beginning of the great love of writers and singers.
Twilight in early winter quietly enveloped the island and landed gently in the room where Han Liang had a long talk for the first time after meeting at the Uni-President Hotel. It is getting late. Han Jingqing suddenly looked at his watch and stood up to say goodbye to Professor Liang: "Professor Liang, I'm going to attend a class at the Taiwan Television Company at seven o'clock in the evening. It's time to go! " "I'll see you off." Liang Shiqiu got up and said.
At the moment, Professor Xie is very close to American guests, and Liang Shiqiu accompanied him out of the Unity Hotel.
"Are you still going to class?" Liang Shiqiu asked.
"I used to be a singer and a movie star, and now I want to study as a director. I am a student of the 12th director research class of Taiwan TV Company. I am still the monitor, so I must arrive early. " Han Jingqing walked and answered. "You work very hard, very hard, this is very good. At that time, in the first phase of this research class, I told the students about Shakespeare. " Liang Shiqiu spoke highly of Han Jingqing's studious spirit. "Unfortunately, I have no chance to be your last disciple!" Han smiled and said, "Who said nothing? It's fate to meet by chance today and talk so speculatively! " At the moment, Liang Shiqiu smiled brightly and didn't mean to turn around. He continued to accompany Han Jingqing to the TV company. Embarrassed, Han Jingqing tried to persuade Professor Liang to go back, but Professor Liang refused to go back and sent Han Jingqing to the TV company. At that time, both of them had empty plans. In order to thank Professor Liang for his concern, Han Jingqing invited Professor Liang to have dinner in the restaurant of the TV company.
"Sorry, you can only eat working meals here." Han Jingqing said.
"Teacher Han treats me, and I am happy to eat anything." Professor Liang still answered with a smile. So, Han Jingqing asked for two working meals, one dish and one soup for each, and NT$ 500 for each. This is the first time that she and Liang Shiqiu have eaten at the same table. After dinner, it's almost seven o'clock. I jotted down the address in a hurry, bid farewell to Professor Liang, and went straight to class. Liang Shiqiu looked at Han Jingqing's distant back, his expression and mood were like a kind father sending his daughter to school, worried and worried. He stood silently in front of the TV company for a long time, always unable to calm down, and finally went home. This day became a turning point in Liang Shiqiu's later life and an epoch-making day in Han Jingqing's life. 1June 993 17, Han Jingqing recalled that period of history in his reply to the author, saying: "We got married naturally through understanding, communication and love. Because of many accusations and criticisms, he races against time and speeds up the wedding March! "
1974165438+1On the morning of October 28th, Liang Shiqiu got up early in the bedroom on the 10th floor of Huamei Building. Because of the long talk with Han Jingqing yesterday, he tossed and turned all night, didn't sleep well, and his eyelids were swollen. As if driven by Cupid, he left Huamei Mansion without even having breakfast, and walked much faster than usual. About half an hour later, I arrived at the address left by Han Jingqing yesterday, where Han Jingqing lived in Lane 27, Section 3 of Xiao Zhong East Road. He looked up, and the curtains of the room on the seventh floor were closed, as if the owner was still in a sweet dream. Liang Shiqiu had to pace back and forth downstairs, and then looked at the window on the seventh floor, anxious. Han Jingqing is a famous night owl. He is busy with his own business at night and sleeps carefree during the day. Liang Shiqiu couldn't wait for the curtain to open and walked back to Huamei step by step. As he walked, he searched the situation yesterday, thinking about every detail of his conversation with Han Jingqing. How did he feel that he would hit it off with this young lady and keep thinking about her in his heart? Liang Shiqiu still seems to have lost his soul, fidgeting and unwilling to do anything else. After lunch, he came to Han Jingqing's downstairs, and the curtain on the seventh floor window was still tightly closed. At the moment, he began to wonder whether Han Jingqing had gone home last night.
In fact, Han Jingqing has gone home and slept soundly. When she met Liang Shiqiu, she just thought he was a respectable and amiable father at first, and she never gave birth to other ideas in her heart. She woke up at two o'clock in the afternoon. Han Jingqing got up and opened the curtain. Liang Shiqiu was filled with joy when he saw the movement on the seventh floor. He rushed to the seventh floor in three steps and knocked on Han Jingqing's boudoir in a hurry.
The sudden arrival of Liang Shiqiu brought many surprises, and he warmly welcomed Professor Liang to his seat. Professor Liang was not very restrained when he first entered Miss Han's boudoir. He found a lot of books in the room, as well as a copybook-Sanxi Hall Shiqu Baodi Fa Tie (hereinafter referred to as Sanxi Hall Fa Tie), which was collected by Wang Xizhi, Wang Xianzhi and Wang Xun in Sanxi Hall. Then he asked, "Do you like calligraphy?" "I haven't practiced calligraphy for more than ten years." Han Jingqing will show Professor Liang his calligraphy. Liang Shiqiu carefully studied Han Jingqing's handwriting and praised it while reading it: "Rare, rare, your handwriting has the courage of a boy!" Liang Shiqiu is not only a master of literature, but also proficient in calligraphy. His handwriting has its own style, and he has become the Mo Bao sought by relatives and friends. In the conversation with, Liang Shiqiu also learned that Miss Han does not smoke, drink or gamble, and expressed great appreciation for her "three noes". They also talked about Shakespeare and prose writing (Han Jingqing published her prose collection "Han Jingqing Prose Collection" at the age of 23, which was published by Southeast Hong Kong Publishing House). The topic is rambling, and the two are like-minded. The more they talk, the closer they get, from getting to know each other to building feelings of mutual respect. This day has played a solid role in their future love life.