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? Sandplay is a kind of psychotherapy, which is a kind of psychotherapy in which the counselor freely chooses the sand table from the sand table through nonverbal means after establishing a good consulting relationship with the visitors. In a special box filled with fine sand, visitors build their inner world and realize self-expression and self-healing through sand table making.
? Sand is a natural tool for human beings. Because sand is formed by weathering of rocks, carrying by wind or water, and scouring by water, it contains the imprint of water energy; Shells, conchs and corals in the sand have all given birth to life, so the sand contains the imprint of the past life process.
? In the long river of life, psychological energy is like water, present life is like sand, and past experiences and injuries are like shells, conchs and corals in the sand. By caressing the sand, consciousness and unconsciousness can communicate. Sand can make people go back to the past and the source of the problem. Touching sand makes people's sense of touch sensitive, makes people experience a sense of freedom and life, and can better relieve stress. (Choose the book One Sand and One World)
? For a defensive student, we can let him touch the sand until he is willing to put sand tools. If he doesn't want to play, he can play with sand in a class, so that students can relax in it. The second time, let him play with the sand first, and then put the sand tools. This is also a sign of full respect for students, who are more willing to express themselves.
? Share with you the sand table put by two classmates.
? "Enough day" "In the evening, I drive home from work. After dinner, go to my small garden to play, then go to the bank to withdraw money, and then go to KFC. After dinner, I went to the Internet cafe to play all night. It's dawn. " This is put by a student who is tired of studying and has internet addiction. Let's look at the key words in it. What is the inner world of children? Children first describe "getting off work" and then deliberately emphasize "withdrawing money from the bank", so to some extent, children are afraid of taking responsibility, have poor hands-on ability, are financially dependent in life and need help from others.
? There is a man in Chaos who can't relax. He was sitting upstairs in the city hall, ready to jump off a building. At this time, a monk happened to pass by, and the monk was merciful and persuaded him. As a result, the man jumped off the building. There's something for treatment downstairs. The man didn't die, but he was injured. On the way to the hospital, he met centipede essence, so the monk began to cheer up with centipede and asked passers-by A and B to take him to the hospital. The courier sent a courier to the doctor, and the courier contained equipment for treating patients. The artist went crazy and climbed to the top of the plane. The pilot (female) found no artists on the plane and took off as usual. When the plane flew into the air, the artist jumped down and crossed into another space. There are two dinosaurs, fighting with mutated cats and dogs (cats and dogs will be trampled to death by dinosaurs if they don't mutate, big enough to compete with dinosaurs), and there are two snakes lurking next to them. When both the dinosaur and the cat lost, the two snakes stood by and ate them all. The two snakes fought again and finally the snake died. The artist looked at all this and suddenly saw through the world of mortals and became a monk. An Arab came here to travel, singing karaoke on a motorcycle, an old lady walking on a bicycle in the street, and two others went to the library to read books. Opposite karaoke is the library, which is too quiet, and karaoke is a little too noisy.
? The point of the story is 1. Both people (the jumper and the artist) are successful people. They all wanted to die, but they didn't. 2. One is jumping off a building in the "city government" and the other is on the "high plane". Everyone in the sand table has arranged an identity and has something to do. The fights between cats, dogs and dinosaurs are all dead. Karaoke and library are opposites.
This was put by a child who was tired of learning. Dad always tells his children that "only after suffering can they be masters", and he does the same. Several times, I left my children dozens of kilometers away and let them walk home. Sometimes the child makes a mistake, and sometimes the father checks at random. It was the day when the child left. He didn't dare to resist or ask for help. It's just that the child walks home alone. Dad attaches great importance to children's learning, and he is willing to spend money as long as it is useful for children's learning.
? Children who grow up in such an environment are very entangled. They want to resist but can't, dare not express, and are afraid of making mistakes ... In the sand table, the children show their inner entanglements and relax a little.
Everyone has a tendency to self-heal mental trauma, but this kind of self-healing is sometimes difficult to play its original function for various reasons. Sand table making can give full play to the self-healing ability of visitors, fully express people's spiritual image and promote individual self-integration.
One sand and one world, one leaf and one bodhi.