According to Baidu Encyclopedia:
"Big guest" is a popular saying in southern Shandong (mainly Linyi). Guest, read kē i. It means that when a man and a woman get married, the woman's home is called Fujian, which is generally called a big guest. Requirements are higher than the woman's seniority, such as her uncle, uncle, uncle, aunt, aunt and so on. The big guest represents the woman's face, and it is also a symbol of the woman's family background status, which is a very important role. Similarly, the man also has big guests, only one of whom is a big guest, and the others are accompanying guests. The number is generally six, eight or ten.
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2. Wang Anshi's acceptance translation Wang Anshi is in the photo. When Wang Anshi, a relative of his daughter-in-law, became prime minister, Xiao's daughter-in-law's son went to Beijing and visited Wang Anshi, who invited him to dinner.
The next day, Xiao's son went in gorgeous clothes, thinking that Wang Anshi would prepare rich food (to entertain him). After noon, the younger son felt very hungry, but he was afraid to leave.
It was a long time before Wang Anshi let him sit down. The fruits and vegetables are not prepared, and Xiao's son is already very dissatisfied with Wang Anshi's failure to prepare vegetables.
They drank a few glasses of wine, and then served two Hu cakes and four pieces of meat. Dinner will be served soon, with vegetable soup on one side.
Xiao's son was spoiled. He stopped using chopsticks and only ate a small piece, leaving all the noodles. Wang Anshi took it and ate it himself. The youngest son went back in shame.
3. Basic description of accompanying guests 1, [guests invited to the diner's party to help entertain the main guests] People specially invited by the host to accompany guests; Receive guests.
2. In some areas in the north, this kind of guests don't read ke, but read kei (three tones), which also means to receive guests, use them at weddings or come home on holidays.
For example, there is a visitor (kei) at home, and you should entertain him.
This statement is just a popular one, which can't be found in the dictionary.
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4. The accompanying guests quoted 1. Accompany guests.
The sixth time in A Dream of Red Mansions: "When Pinger came back, Xifeng said,' I am here to accompany the guests and go back and forth at night. If it's important, you can do it now. "The second draft of the sequel to Lao Can's Travels:" Although the same guests have drinking rules, occasionally there are guests who like romance, it is not bad to answer a few words casually. "
2. People specially invited by the host to accompany the guests.
Back to Chapter 39 of Heroes of Children: "The four accompanying guests here didn't care much when they saw that Master An was a flag bearer." Mao Dun's color blindness III: "I just told you that I am the messenger to welcome you. I think my role has always been just to accompany you." Huaguan "Qingfeng Store" II: "In addition to my son Duan Rongxun, I also invited Gao Hetian, who is not farming and lazy, to accompany him."
3. refers to the person or thing that sets off.
Li Qingyu's "Random Love, Song, Song and Structure": "If one or two ancient people are the main generals, but because there are no guests, the false name will not be empty, not real, and the lyricist is ugly, so don't do it!" Lu Xun's letter to Wu Bo: "It is not easy to hold an exhibition now. The first is the address, which must be borrowed from business and considered safe; Secondly, the content. If it is difficult for the Soviet Union to exhibit alone, it is necessary to invite someone to accompany it. This French illustration is to accompany the guests. "
5. What did Lu Xun write with the guests?
Communication is inevitable in life, and enthusiasm should be the most important way to treat guests. Lu Xun knew this. However, friends only have a thousand glasses of wine, and lovers have more than half a sentence, of which the ups and downs are different.
1965438+On June 5, 2003, it rained heavily. In the afternoon, Lu Xun went to the home of Xia Cengyou, director of the Social Education Department, to discuss the opening of a branch library in Shi Jing. In the evening, a guest named Huang Yuansheng came to Lu Xun's residence in Shaoxing Guild Hall. Lu Xun "sat opposite him for a long time and was very bitter". I have nothing to say, but I have to stare blankly because I am in a bad mood. Finally, Huang Yuansheng left, and what he was doing had to be finished overnight.
This Huang Yuansheng is a clerk in the Social Education Department and a subordinate of the section chief Lu Xun. This man wants to get on well with his boss. He has visited Lu Xun before, and this is his second visit.
Helpless accompanying guests is inevitable in Lu Xun's personal communication. Lu Xun once wrote in a letter to Peking University student Li: "I'm afraid I'm famous for not being able to meet guests. But not really. I am afraid of strangers who can't talk, not familiar people, because there is no need to pretend to be guests. " He also said half jokingly, "There are poisonous gas and some suspicious things in my soul ... If you think otherwise, or even so, you are willing to be infected, or you are not afraid of being infected, or you are confident that you will not be infected, you can knock directly without being so careful."
Indeed, it is better to meet friendly friends and talk to each other than good tea and medicine. Lu Xun lived alone in Shaoxing Guild Hall during the first seven years in Beijing, and lived alone during 1926 to 1927 in Xiamen and Guangzhou. If guests come, they can't escape. When Xiamen University receives important people, it always relies on Lu Xun's fame to arrange such and such accompanying tasks for him.
1926 10 Towards the end, Ma Yinchu was invited to visit Xiamen University, and the school was very busy. Zhejiang students of Xiamen University insisted on taking photos with Lu Xun and Ma Yinchu, but Lu Xun resolutely refused. "The headmaster gave me a banquet and accompanied me. They deliberately insisted that I talk to the banker. What a pain! " But Lu Xun only wrote a word "knowledge" on the notice, which means "I don't know".
When he arrived in Guangzhou, Lu Xun could not avoid visitors from all walks of life. After a busy day, he didn't write an article for a long time, and even agreed to the manuscript of Mangyuan magazine. Lu Xun is very worried. He wants to change this situation. "But living on campus is not enough. From ten o'clock in the morning to ten o'clock in the evening, people come to look for it. I want to move out, I won't see guests at night, or I can read some books and compositions. I want to find a house tomorrow. "
1927 10 after he settled in Shanghai, Lu Xun "hid in a small building and became a unified whole", so he had the choice of "seeing or not seeing" visitors. Sometimes, for guests who really need to meet, Lu Xun will choose places like Neishan Bookstore or nearby coffee shops.
"Time is life. Unreasonably wasting other people's time is actually tantamount to killing people for money. " Lu Xun said.
6. Accompany the guests with the topic of high school composition.
"Director Hao, I propose a toast to you."
Director Hao cleared his throat and said to manager Wang, "Xiao Wang, I'm a little sick today, so I'll replace the bar with tea." Don't have any thoughts in your heart! " "As he spoke, he drank a cup of authentic West Lake Longjing. This manager surnamed Wang is going to suffer! Only one glass of wine can be poured, and the capacity of the first-class glass is not large, let alone drinking with the director. It must be genuine Maotai! It stands to reason that this manager Wang is full of delicious food, but this is the third glass of wine.
This manager Wang is now in his stomach, but facing the director, they are not only at different levels, but more importantly, the company now has a project tender in the hands of Director Hao. Asking for help can only humble yourself.
Director Hao's side, he was not idle, drinking Maotai, eating abalone and bird's nest, and commenting on the food from time to time. "This dish is fresh in color ..." Director Hao had just finished, and Manager Wang had a reaction. "The director is not the kui is a director! It's really unique and comprehensive. If it is an ordinary person, it is hard to say. Come on, chief, I'll propose another toast to you! " Similarly, director Hao still used tea instead of wine this time. This manager Wang is bitter and torturing his stomach, but thanks to his previous practice with Director Zhang, Director Li and Director Liu. For that project, drinking two more cups is nothing, and there are still many commissions after the project is obtained!
Director Hao showed a look of joy. It seems that this manager Wang is quite clever. Director Hao just picked up his own cup (not a teacup) and said, "Xiao Wang, you have given me so many cups, so I'm sorry to have another cup of tea." Come and have a drink with you. " The director's speech is just different. He is so arrogant that he doesn't even say "respect" when drinking with people. Although it was difficult for manager Wang to drink any more, he raised his glass and swallowed it in the face of the director. Of course, you have to pretend to be honored. Poor manager Wang! Look at Director Hao again, saying it's drinking, but actually it's just a sip. Hum! Who told me I was an official!
After a full meal, although manager Wang drank a lot, he was not too drunk because of his rich experience, so he suggested, "Director Hao, if you are free at night, stay and play mahjong several times!" With me, Secretary Li and Accountant Sun, we can all accompany you. "While speaking, several people came to a luxury suite. ...
It's already twelve o'clock at night in a blink of an eye, but Director Hao is still active on the mahjong table. With a bang, Director Hao hit a "20,000" on the table, knocked off his own card and shouted "Touch it yourself". "The director is really lucky and touched himself again." Manager Wang spoke first, and he also took out money to Director Hao. In fact, Manager Wang has already won, but the general manager explained that giving money to the director is a bribe, and stabbing him with a knife has no good result, but losing money in mahjong is different and the risk is small. Deliberately losing money is the best way, as long as the director is happy. After several rounds of mahjong, Director Hao won 74,000. (In just a few hours, the money earned is more than the salary of a migrant worker for several years. It is really profitable and the risk is small. )
Director Hao is not stupid, just accept it if it is too good! "Wang! It is getting late. There will be a meeting in the city tomorrow. Let's leave early. " At this time, manager Wang was as happy as winning the lottery: "Director Hao is really a good director! Ruling for the people! Even at rest, I don't forget to work. It is the blessing of the people to have a leader like you! " This manager Wang said so, but what he thought in his heart was: quit early and suffer less. Although the company will reimburse him, it is not good to fatten the fat pig and increase his appetite.
After the break, manager Wang came to the front desk to check out and opened a room to play mahjong for 35,400 yuan. Plus 74 thousand, 109.4 thousand Tell 1 1 10,000, and we'll make a small profit.
Where's director Hao? He is not idle, driving a senior official car equipped by the bureau, and he is flattered. He made a lot of money today. At the same time, another problem came out: the day before yesterday, manager Li of another company gave him100000 yuan and wanted to take over the project. Who should I give this project to?
Hey hey! Hao, director of the strange smile on his face, a coup. Li's manager retired and then let people talk about it. Maybe you can get an "advanced figure in fighting corruption and promoting honesty" when you come out. Mr. Wang, give him this project. Anyway, his bribe was confiscated, and he just lost money playing mahjong.
Since then, no one has dared to send money to Director Hao. Director Hao has a new hobby-playing mahjong!
7. What did Lu Xun's company write? Lu Xun's company is inevitable in life, and hospitality should be based on enthusiasm.
Lu Xun knew this. However, friends only have a thousand glasses of wine, and lovers have more than half a sentence, of which the ups and downs are different.
1965438+On June 5, 2003, it rained heavily. In the afternoon, Lu Xun went to the home of Xia Cengyou, director of the Social Education Department, to discuss the opening of a branch library in Shi Jing.
In the evening, a guest named Huang Yuansheng came to Lu Xun's residence in Shaoxing Guild Hall. Lu Xun "sat opposite him for a long time and was very bitter". I have nothing to say, but I have to stare blankly because I am in a bad mood.
Finally, Huang Yuansheng left, and what he was doing had to be finished overnight. This Huang Yuansheng is a clerk in the Social Education Department and a subordinate of the section chief Lu Xun.
This man wants to get on well with his boss. He has visited Lu Xun before, and this is his second visit. Helpless accompanying guests is inevitable in Lu Xun's personal communication.
Lu Xun once wrote in a letter to Peking University student Li: "I'm afraid I'm famous for not being able to meet guests. But not really. I am afraid of strangers who can't talk, not familiar people, because there is no need to pretend to be guests. "
He also said half jokingly, "There are poisonous gas and some suspicious things in my soul ... If you think otherwise, or even so, you are willing to be infected, or you are not afraid of being infected, or you are confident that you will not be infected, you can knock directly without being so careful." Indeed, it is better to meet friendly friends and talk to each other than good tea and medicine.
Lu Xun lived alone in Shaoxing Guild Hall during the first seven years in Beijing, and lived alone during 1926 to 1927 in Xiamen and Guangzhou. If guests come, they can't escape. When Xiamen University receives important people, it always relies on Lu Xun's fame to arrange such and such accompanying tasks for him.
1926 10 Towards the end, Ma Yinchu was invited to visit Xiamen University, and the school was very busy. Zhejiang students of Xiamen University insisted on taking photos with Lu Xun and Ma Yinchu, but Lu Xun resolutely refused.
"The headmaster gave me a banquet and accompanied me. They deliberately insisted that I talk to the banker. What a pain! " But Lu Xun only wrote a word "knowledge" on the notice, which means "I don't know". When he arrived in Guangzhou, Lu Xun could not avoid visitors from all walks of life.
After a busy day, he didn't write an article for a long time, and even agreed to the manuscript of Mangyuan magazine. Lu Xun is very worried. He wants to change this situation. "But living on campus is not enough. From ten o'clock in the morning to ten o'clock in the evening, people come to look for it.
I want to move out, I won't see guests at night, or I can read some books and compositions. I want to find a house tomorrow. "
1927 10 after he settled in Shanghai, Lu Xun "hid in a small building and became a unified whole", so he had the choice of "seeing or not seeing" visitors. Sometimes, for guests who really need to meet, Lu Xun will choose places like Neishan Bookstore or nearby coffee shops.
"Time is life. Unreasonably wasting other people's time is actually tantamount to killing people for money. "
Lu Xun said.