They don't agree that you are from their circle. First of all, this is what you are thinking. After a long time, it may really become like this. You try to tell others, communicate more, communicate more, there will always be something to say. As for whether you are in a circle or not, it depends on your connections to a certain extent. Everyone knows each other well. Of course, sometimes, when you meet a person, you can make a little judgment based on the first impression.

I am a junior this year. I think if you just want to expand interpersonal relationships, then you can ignore so much, as long as everyone basically gets along well. But the so-called friends are really not so good. And if you want to make bosom friends, be careful. Either way, more people should consider it.

There is a good saying, be a low-key person and do high-profile things. A high reputation does not necessarily mean a high reputation. The idiom infamous can explain all this. Besides, those two people are looking for friends, which has nothing to do with us. It would be nice if you could make friends with them. If you can't make friends, it doesn't matter. Not for you. As for someone coming to the dormitory to look for it, it seems that this is not a very decent thing. Perhaps you can understand that the person you are looking for has a good interpersonal relationship, but what makes you feel uncomfortable is your own psychological reasons.

In college, making friends is on the one hand (sometimes fate), on the other hand, your study focus is very important. If a person has strength (by no means superficial), he will naturally attract many excellent people. And you don't have to worry at all. So think about your career.