1, cultivate parent-child relationship

If parents work long hours and only have time to get along with their baby during holidays, the distance with their children may be even farther! As time goes on, the parent-child relationship will become more and more unfamiliar.

It is safer for parents to take care of their children by themselves.

2, safe and reliable

If the baby is entrusted to a nanny or a foreign agent, parents may just inquire about the quality of care and the environment carefully to avoid the possibility of abuse. If mommy does it herself, of course, she can save this trouble.

3. Implement the educational concept.

When children are entrusted to their elders, nannies or foreign agents for care, the risk for mommy is that the children's life schedule may not meet your expectations because of different educational concepts, so they may have to be painstakingly revised in the future.

4. Can dogs be fully conditioned?

If you sit for the second month, taking care of your baby at home can give your body and mind a full rest, which is also a kind of welfare for mommy. Mommy needs to breastfeed herself, which is much more convenient at home! There is no need to worry about the reduction of milk quantity due to work pressure, and there is no problem of preserving breast milk and feeding, which is full of convenience.

5. The other half has no worries.

When both parents are office workers, they may face a dilemma, that is, who should take time off to take care of the baby when the baby is ill? If both parties are busy with their work and it is not easy to take time off, they may be unable to concentrate on their work because they are worried about their children's illness, and friction between husband and wife is easy to occur.

Extended reading: safety precautions and suggestions for taking your baby out to play.

Extended reading: children are not noisy, and they are not embarrassed to walk into the library.

Second, the disadvantages of bringing children by yourself

1, with great economic pressure.

From a double-income family to a single-income family, one more family member will greatly increase the family's economic pressure! When the family economy is insufficient but the expenses increase, it will often increase the psychological pressure of mommy.

2. Out of touch with society.

After leaving the workplace for too long, mommy may face the problem of disconnection and even social elimination. And if mommy doesn't seize the opportunity to enrich herself, she may feel bored and flustered like a yellow-faced woman after a long time.

3. Lack of parenting experience

Due to the influence of declining birthrate, most people have little experience in taking care of their brothers and sisters, so they are not fully sure about quitting their jobs and taking care of their children at home, and they are worried that their children will not be able to take care of their daily lives normally and make non-staple food.

Further reading: children are timid: be wary of parents' education

Extended reading: making children's summer vacation safe and meaningful.

Third, matters needing attention with children

1, don't buy things to please.

Don't buy things to please children, otherwise it is easy for children to form the bad habit of bargaining and rolling with adults.

Don't wear too many clothes

Don't always wear too many clothes for your child, which will affect your child's sports ability and resistance.

3. Let him get close to nature

Don't always hold the child, let the child get in touch with nature, and do more outdoor activities, at least 1 hour every day.

Step 4 eat lightly

Children's tastes should be light, avoid cooking with their own tastes, and let children eat too salty.