From "The Golden Star Show" to "The Story of Qipa", she never shy away from talking about her transsexual experience, talking about her dance, marriage, love and the whole open life.

Her words are sharp and full of wisdom; She has experienced a lot of ups and downs, and it is impossible to see everything in the past just by looking at a face; She is so handsome that nothing seems to hurt her.

But I didn't know the whole picture of her until I saw this beating the floor she wrote. Therefore, the shock of this book is not only a kind of "true energy of life", but also a part of strength, blood and even soul.

Great men often write autobiographies: when I was XX years old, I set my ideals and pursuits in life. This kind of writing is widely criticized by the world, because as we all know, everyone grows up in exploration, advances in twists and turns, and experiences several self-overthrows and corrections.

However, when I read in the preface that Venus wrote that "when she was nine years old, the army went home for advice and said that it was possible to send this child to learn dance, and fate chose dance for me", I believed that it was not only the choice of fate, but also her own choice.

Because people may have that dream, from the penis, from a dish, a meal.

I still remember in the movie "Dance Out of My World", the little boy who loves dancing said that when I dance, I feel my soul is as light as a feather.

It must have been the lightest moment for the soul, which made Venus make a choice for its own destiny and persisted on a very difficult road.

It must also be the lightest moment of her soul, supporting her courage to change sex, her fragile body in the dark and bitter confrontation with the world, her courage to travel bravely from the United States to Europe, her joy in starting a dance company after returning home, and her beautiful and rich life.

There are too many people in this world, and it is not unreasonable for philosophers to say that "others are hell", because values vary widely, and eyes often stab everyone's ubiquitous choices like a sharp knife. work

Venus, as a person who has made a shocking move, faces much more criticism and criticism than ordinary people. However, I appreciate her courage and her wisdom and tolerance of ignoring the prejudice of the world.

In the section "Standing on the top of the mountain, thanking those who were kind and malicious", she said:

"You can waste time because you don't understand and respect a person, but I won't waste time with you. I will go my way. When they were still looking for various reasons to scold me at the foot of the mountain, I was already at the top of the mountain, but I was clean.

So the best way to deal with these rumors is to move on.

How sinister the surrounding environment is, and how unkind people are sometimes. I can't resist, and I'm too lazy to resist. I'm just going up

It's your choice whether you want to be the exhausted person at the foot of the mountain, or whether you can stand at other mountains and look like a dwarf in the sky. On the top of the mountain. "

With my shallow growth experience and humble knowledge experience, I only feel that this is the great wisdom of life, a topic that we will try our best to answer all our lives, and even a threshold that this society with information explosion and conflicting values must pass.

Because in the face of gossip, misunderstanding and harsh criticism from others, only by "going forward" and "letting go" can you make your soul light, be yourself freely and enjoy a truly interesting and fulfilling life decided by yourself.

I admire Venus because she always has hope. Because she said that in the past, so many seemingly impossible dreams, such as becoming a woman, getting married and having children, and starting a dance company, have all come true. She persisted in moving forward and firmly believed that she could live a broader life and live more new ideas.

I hope that one day in the future, I have reached the prime of life, middle age and even old age, but I still have the courage to say "yes, I haven't started yet" like Venus.

The future is so far away, the road ahead is so long, and such a vast world awaits us to review and explore. I want to live a bright life like her, to match what she wants to write on the epitaph: a living person.

Thank you, Venus, for your shining soul, and for illuminating me in the middle of the night. You said that your strength comes from the temper of fate, and part of my strength comes from you.

I recommend her book to everyone. Oh, I hope we all have the power of Venus-"being ourselves".