First, make yourself stronger.
The reason why many boys find it difficult to attract the attention of the opposite sex is because they are weak, so even in the crowd, it is still difficult to attract the interest of the opposite sex. Therefore, even if this kind of person brushes the sense of existence everywhere, it is still difficult to successfully take off the order, because there is no other reason than weak strength. So I personally think that the most effective shortcut for male compatriots to get rid of orders quickly is to make themselves strong. As long as they have a successful career and strong comprehensive strength in all aspects, they will automatically attract the attention of the public.
Second, you can go to places with many opposite sexes.
If the male compatriots build up self-confidence and have a certain strength, they can start to walk around and brush their sense of existence at this time. For example, male compatriots can go to the library to read books, so most of the girls they meet must be fond of learning and of the opposite sex. Don't give up the initiative when you meet someone who sleeps well. In addition, you can also consider playing in the arena, and girls who love sports are also very attractive. If you meet such like-minded friends, hurry back to be your girlfriend.
Third, get along with the opposite sex to have a certain demeanor.
A graceful man is actually very attractive, and it is easier to win the favor of women. Therefore, when looking for a suitable lover, male compatriots should keep their manners no matter who they get along with. When they find someone who is interested, they should take the initiative to chat with each other and leave a good impression on each other, so that they may have a chance to develop each other into your lover. Remember, you must be more active on the way to find your lover, but you must also grasp the degree of initiative and never lose proper limit.