First, analyze the sages and villains. What is the fundamental difference between them?
By the water near the balcony, there are no obstacles, so naturally find the moon in the water first. Trees that lean against the sun can naturally get more light, so they can sprout ahead of other trees and grow taller and stronger. For newcomers, there is not much contact with big leaders, and their achievements are not easy to find. After a long time, it will naturally be ignored, so you need the help of sages.
1, the understanding of the sages
Saints used to refer to virtuous people who helped the emperor manage state affairs, but now they refer to people who have knowledge, can undertake great things and have virtue. The ability of ancient sages, knowing astronomy above, geography below and human feelings in the middle. The style of doing things completely conforms to the objective laws of heaven, Taoism and human beings. Being able to treat both the symptoms and root causes and fundamentally solve the problem is sanctification. Many sages can be regarded as the human code of conduct and have a strong influence. They are ambitious and ambitious, hoping to benefit the people when they are in high positions.
2, the behavior of the villain
"Little people" refer to people with bad morals, not children in our eyes. The idiom "treat the belly of a gentleman with the heart of a villain" is widely known. Refers to the despicable ideas of "villains" to guess the minds of decent people. Generally speaking, villains do things to raise themselves, belittle others, do things that don't help, and worry that others will surpass them. There should be many such examples. In reality, the villain is not everyone's favorite, but an unacceptable existence. Newcomers in the workplace stay away from villains and don't be too honest, because honest people are often used by villains.
3. What is the specific difference between talents and villains?
In reality, talent is respected by everyone. We often say that people who are close to sages are far from villains. It is to be close to the wise and stay away from the golden mean.
When you need help, a talented person will be your powerful pusher. A villain is someone who speaks sweet words in front of you and stabbed you in the back. Villains can sometimes push people into the abyss, but often in front of leaders, flatterers and people who can't be intimate. Talented people handle things in a low-key and complete way. The villain is more ostentatious, lest everyone don't know and magnify things infinitely.
Second, the skills of distinguishing sages from villains in the workplace.
We always deal with many people in the workplace. Some people are kind-hearted and like to help others. If you meet such a person, it is your luck. Some people are narrow-minded and often cheat others behind their backs. If you encounter such a situation, you should be careful, or you will be calculated.
1, there is a literal difference.
Talented people will share their opinions when they encounter something. Adopt and accept other people's opinions. Get everyone's recognition and support, arouse everyone's goodwill with a smile, and be considerate. When a villain encounters something and is depressed, he often complains and spreads his bad mood to others, which affects the overall working atmosphere. The tongue of a villain is like a lotus flower. If colleagues often praise you, it will make you feel conceited and thus ignore the existence of efforts. I don't know the person who becomes dizzy all day. The person who fills you with ecstasy soup is also the most common villain in the workplace.
The difference between them is:
People with work attitude. Encourage you to move forward and help you learn and progress. The villain likes to compare with you, and he is always afraid that you will surpass him. Sages have a strong sense of responsibility, and villains always put the blame on others. Talented people tend to ignore the existence of villains. Little people are busy with your work, and often brush their sense of existence in front of you to understand your every move. 2, the difference from the action
Talented people help others, listen carefully and help others improve their abilities. In the workplace, we have competitors everywhere, and many people are doubly wary of them, while sages try to surpass them. Keep forging ahead, be tolerant and generous. Two-faced people are generally villains. After listening to this, they use their own mouths to stir up trouble and like to gossip. People who spread rumors generally have their own purposes, throwing sewage on others to set off their own Excellence and get their opponents into trouble.
3, from the style differences.
A talented person. Excellent, rich experience and the way of dealing with people are all worth learning and learning from. Villains generally don't know how to be grateful. They always turn against each other. Newcomers in the workplace basically want to meet Bole who appreciates and supports themselves, but they are also worried about meeting villains who hinder their growth. If you try your best to help him succeed in his career, he won't appreciate it, and even discredit your kindness.
Third, how do novices get the help of sages when they take a good career path?
Lack of new business experience and practical skills, a long way to go. How to take this new road well, you must find your own Bole, the one who reaches out and gives you a hand.
1, get help with sincere influence.
On the way forward, you who work hard and you who are diligent are the objects that others will see. When you first enter the workplace, you should look with your eyes and feel with your heart. This is your bole. After finding the goal, always talk about your own views, your own views. Different opinions, let the other side help you analyze and ask for advice. Use your sincerity to influence each other, gain the goodwill of the sages and get help.
2. Your ability is recognized and you get help.
Take your own ability as an example. Jin Gangzuan patients can stand the test. Take the initiative to do things at work, do more things, and finish the work efficiently and with high quality. Let your abilities be recognized. Attract the attention of sages to get help.
Xiao Wang is the top student in the school. He has just arrived at the company and is not familiar with the business. I am anxious to see everyone working so skillfully every day. I am studying hard. After others get off work, I work overtime to learn professional skills. Li Lin, the vice president of the company, saw that Xiao Wang was still working overtime after work, so he went to his side and was very happy to see Xiao Wang's works, so he helped him put forward many suggestions.
For a time, I could see the shadows of Xiao Wang and General Li at night. With the help of general manager Li, Xiao Wang's business ability has improved rapidly. At the end of the year, Xiao Wang ranked in the top five in the company and was rewarded.
You diligent and earnest people, if you are more earnest and practical, you will certainly receive the fruits of Lei Lei, and you will go even further in your later life.
3. Give actively and get good feedback.
In life, we can't just take from others, sometimes we have to pay for others. When you pay for others, others will repay you, just like giving up and giving up.
Li Hua works in an Internet company in Shanghai. He usually works privately in his spare time to earn some extra money.
When a friend asked her to change the picture, she got a picture 1200 yuan, *** 150. For her, retouching is not that difficult. She asked her colleague Xiaoyue to do it together, and the score was 50-50.
Two months ago, two people met. Li Hua doesn't talk about overtime when he meets anything in the company, and there are some thorny problems.
Li Hua, who has just joined the company, is a little anxious. It happened that abortion came to ask for advice.
Only the above retouching partner made this statement.
Give and you will get back. If you put in time, effort and sweat, you will reap money, achievements, fruits and fame. If you are sincere, you will get friendship and help.
Noble people are a tower in the life of newcomers in the workplace, leading them to a high point.
To sum up, novices need to make more efforts and spend more time learning professional skills than others. The help of professional skills is the help of Bole. Let the sages recognize you and get their help. At the same time, stay away from the villain in the workplace, and don't let the villain ruin his own interests and become a stumbling block in his workplace.