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How do you know the people in the library?
You must take the initiative in front of the person you like. Nowadays, people are too reserved, which leads to missing many good opportunities for love. Today, I will share with you how to chat up people you like. It is necessary to take off the order and learn quickly! Arrange!

First, sincere dialogue. The essence of this kind of strike up a conversation is sincerity and nature, not "obvious strike up a conversation". It may be a bit circuitous to say, but most girls or boys are actually very confused and disgusted when faced with too straightforward praise, and natural praise always gives people a kind feeling. For example, in front of the person you like, you can take the initiative to talk to him, starting with "hello", and then you can chat, or talk about the current environment. For example, if you are waiting in line to buy milk tea, you can say that there are many people today. This way of hitting on people will not give people too much pressure, which is more natural.

Second, more direct dialogue. This is straightforward. If you have a good impression on someone and want to know him, take the initiative. For example, in the study room of the library, you can hand her a note that says, "I feel good about you and want to know you." Or if you see a handsome guy on the subway, you can just walk up to him and say, "I think you look good in a mask." Can you add a contact information? " This kind of direct dialogue is also very effective, so try it.

Third, don't chat up topics that you think are humorous. Many people don't know what they feel good about. When they get up, they will tell a super cold joke. Not only will the other party not listen to you, but their impression of you will also become bad, especially some frivolous praises will trample on the thunder. They should look for opportunities for themselves on the premise of respecting each other, instead of showing off their charm and self-confidence.

In a word, it takes courage to strike up a conversation. A good conversation is probably the beginning of a sweet love, so come on!