During my pregnancy and raising a baby, I also read a lot of parenting books. For example, the famous Montessori education, calvert education, nature education, a good mother is better than a good teacher, reading manuals and so on. What I am watching now is the sensitive period of Sun Ruixue's capture of children, complete growth, love and freedom. Every book has its own characteristics.
Of course, there will be many detours in the process of parenting. I hope my recommendation can make novice mothers take fewer detours in the process of parenting and be able to do it with ease.
For novice mothers, I strongly recommend Cui Yutao's illustrated family parenting in Cui Yutao series *** 10. This set of books covers almost all possible problems such as neonatal care, feeding, supplementary food addition, vaccination, growth and development, common diseases and so on. It can definitely be said that it is a novice manual for novice mothers. At that time, when the child was born, my husband's family wanted to cry because they didn't know anything after discharge. I bought it directly from JD.COM and delivered it the next day. Really solved a lot of problems.
Novice mothers can finish reading this set of books before pregnancy, so that their children will not be in a hurry after birth and will not be too anxious in the face of some common physiological phenomena of their children. To read that set of books, you can read the book "Breast Milk and Formula Powder Addition" first. No matter whether you plan to breastfeed or milk powder feed in the future, you should read this book carefully. You will know how important breastfeeding is to children and how important the first sip of milk is!
As for the other books, there is no order, you can read them as you like, and know what you want. After the child is born, you can directly look up the catalogue in the book when you encounter related problems.
Of course, although Cui Yutao's books are very practical and easy to understand, they are not omnipotent medical books after all. Children still have to go to the hospital when they encounter some difficult problems.
In addition, I think every parent should read the reading manual before becoming a parent, especially in China, where parents don't pay enough attention to their children's reading. Coincidentally, I read this set of books, which shocked me a lot. It turns out that children's reading ability is not cultivated after school, and the earlier the better. Thanks to a book that met me, my son has been influenced by various stories since he was born. Although I don't know what far-reaching impact this will have on his future growth and study, I will continue to read it to him.
I also hope that more parents will read this set of books, and we will know that reading stories to children is not reading the stories themselves.
As for other books, I think parents should keep them in a way if they want to keep them according to the book. If they read more books, they will find that a hundred schools of thought contend, which will make people a little confused. Now there is a "two-way parenting", which I think is not bad. This trend of thinking coincides with the views of some experts, that is, they should improve themselves in the process of raising children.
But no matter how to raise children, their children only know best when they are parents. Every child is independent and different, so we should teach students in accordance with their aptitude, not from the book.