I chatted with my friend the other day and talked about the recent situation. He looked extremely depressed. Ask the reason

Dissatisfied with his major, he has been studying hard since his freshman year. He doesn't skip class or leave early, and he actively reviews even the most boring sketches. In order to get a satisfactory score at the end of the term, I can get the right to change my major.

Although I didn't get the first place in the final grade, I entered the level of changing majors as required. He applied according to all the normal procedures with great expectation, but he learned that it is difficult for you to change your major!

Before he recovered from the shock, the leader whispered, "As you know, the number of places in the college is limited, and interested students have quietly acted and got along well with the other dean." If you get the first place in the exam, you have nothing to say, but this ...

Needless to say, this matter has passed. I know my friend's helplessness and understand his efforts. I objected when he proposed to repeat the reading. I hope he will carefully consider the unknown possibilities. After a thorough talk, he decided to give up re-reading and focus on changing his major.

Others are still in a trance in the dormitory, and he has become a frequent visitor to the library.

After several months of hard work, the final result is satisfactory, but the result is somewhat unsatisfactory. I comforted him and said, "It's no big deal. Maybe you just lack some luck, or you need to improve your study methods on a difficult road. When you are the first, others have nothing to say. "

I know that people don't listen to advice when they are extremely depressed, but I hope he understands that this kind of depression only sees their own shortcomings, and getting along well with others is also an ability.

I believe that 90% of people have seen Happy Camp, and they have also heard that He Jiong is very popular in the entertainment circle, and there are few scandals, which can be described as a male god with zero bad reviews. Daxun Wei made a mistake when everyone sat down to chat about the desire of life. He Laoshi came out to save the scene and said, "When you say something, you simply express your affirmation of it. There is no need to bring anything else, otherwise you will be unintentional and the listener will be interested.

In fact, He Jiong's high EQ in dealing with others is only the result of putting himself in others' shoes. He doesn't embarrass others, not only because of his dedication, but also because of his inner kindness.

Being with people who understand human feelings will really be treated gently.

When I went home with my boyfriend, I was lucky enough to book a return ticket. When I got on the bus, I found a lady sitting in our seat. My boyfriend motioned me to sit next to her first, and I didn't let the lady give up. I took a closer look and found that her right foot was a little inconvenient, then I realized why her boyfriend didn't ask her to give up her seat. In this way, he stood at the finish line and never told the lady that the seat was his. After getting off the bus, I said to my boyfriend, "It's good to give up your seat, but you can ask her to give it back to you and sit for you in the middle of a few hours' journey." "My boyfriend said," People are inconvenient all their lives, so these three hours are inconvenient for me. 」

The man knows how to think from the perspective of others, which is not only kindness, but also education. I think this girl must be very touched. With such a kind and understanding boyfriend, she will be more gentle with girls.

Mr. Lu Xun said: "The world is really a difficult place. It is not a good word to say that a person is "unsophisticated", nor is it a good word to say that he is "sophisticated". "

You know the way of the world, not worldly, it is extremely rare, why bother asking for it. It's like knowing how to get along with others, and speaking appropriately and generously is not embarrassing, but elegant. Get along well, turn the world into a story and keep it in each other's hearts. The next meeting will be as friendly as ever.

In 2004, Lin Chi-ling went to Kangxi. Finally, Cai Kangyong and Xiao S keep asking her what to do if the man she likes is poor.

Lin Chi-ling said, as long as his heart is not bad.

Cai Kangyong was surprised to say that she was super honest, and she admired Lin Chi-ling for saying such a thing. No matter what questions she asks, she will give a positive answer.

In fact, Lin Chi-ling always smiles and responds politely when facing any embarrassing questions on any occasion. No matter what sharp questions people tried to provoke her, they failed.

The so-called worldly wisdom is explained in the dictionary as follows: it refers to being familiar with secular customs and being considerate in dealing with people. Lin Chi-ling is such a clever way to resolve the embarrassment, respect others and not wronged himself.

It is said that the world is secular, but philosophy is actually just a realistic form. There is no fish in clear water, and there is no disciple when people look at it. They are too sophisticated to see pleasure.

In Ode to Joy, Fan is the textbook of the world. Talking about the hidden rules of the workplace, the way of doing things, and the criteria for judging men, she can always be very happy and talk endlessly, scaring the wet behind the ears.

It stands to reason that such a woman who seems to see through life should lead a successful life, but the reality has betrayed her mercilessly: in her early thirties, her career is mediocre and her feelings are blank.

Andy hit the nail on the head: Fan is so proficient in the world, but he just wanders around. He turned out to be an office liar.

There is no shortcut to life, sophistication can only bring petty profits, and strength can determine the pattern of life. A man who lives only by the world is like a headless fly, staring at a small piece of cake in front of him, but he can't see the banquet next to him.

Tired, you might as well stop and live as truly as Zhang Wei. As he said at the Tucao Conference: "Don't always think that taking up arms is brave, and laying down arms is cowardly, because you can work hard when you pick up, and laying down is real kung fu."

Not long ago, bubble net founder Li wanted to mourn.

He is not only having a dialogue with Kan Kan in time and space, nor is he saying that being a normal person is a compromise to himself, but that he knows how to be kind to others after he has gone through the changes in human feelings. Don't worry about the world, don't do it for human feelings. It is my duty to protect my one acre and three points.

Life is nothing more than practicing in the world.

When you understand that no one's efforts are worth it, you will understand the value of knowing the world and not knowing the world.

If you can't get the gentleness of this world, it's better to be kind to this world and to yourself. Even if it is not perfect, you will wait until you touch it.

Life is a long road. May you and I be sincere and brave.

To be a man who understands human feelings and is not worldly,

Don't betray yourself and don't let others down.