"The desert looks beautiful because there is a well hidden somewhere."

I think that well is the inexhaustible source of love hidden in our hearts, and the source is precisely the childhood that we will always take with us.

The things contained and hidden in childhood are distributed at every step and every stone step, and a suitable book can just make childhood full of love and light, and those reading hours will also nourish and clear up the whole childhood!

In the consulting room, caring mothers often ask some questions about children's reading-how to make children fall in love with reading? How to choose a book suitable for children?

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● First, let children love reading.

In the face of mothers' questions, I want to ask weakly, do you like reading? Is there a cabinet or bookshelf for books at home? How many books are there? What kind of books are they? How many books have you read with him? How many books have you talked about? Do you often buy books? Will you take your children to the bookstore? How often do you go? Do you still allow children to read extracurricular books when they are nervous about their studies? How long can I give my children reading time every day?

When we can detect these problems, I think our children have begun to love reading. ...

Actually, I didn't like reading very much at first. I wanted to read books when I was a child, because I couldn't afford them at home. When I can afford it, I have no time to read them. But I clearly know what impact reading will have on a person's life.

If a child's childhood is not accompanied and nourished by a large number of books, his inner soil must be barren and barren.

Therefore, when the child is young, in addition to often taking her to the library of the book building and the personalized reading cabin to read and buy books, she should also accompany her to read, listen to books and chat at home every day.

In addition, I will let every corner of the house have a book to hold and make her feel that books are an indispensable part of our lives.

In my spare time, I will hold a book to read. Even if I am too tired to read, I will pretend to read seriously, just to let her know that reading is a natural thing to do every day in life.

So until now, even if I go out with my children, the only thing in our bag is a book we like now.

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● So, how do you choose the right book for your child?

In fact, reading is also an encounter. At the right time, you happened to meet. It just approached you, and you need it, too. It was hard to understand in the early days, and then you missed the flowering period.

At every stage of children's growth, there will be a suitable book waiting for you at the corner of life and entering you. As long as there is a person who likes reading in your heart, you will meet, and you will pass this love and meeting on to your children.

I remember that when I was at school, I bought a set of Lu Yao's Ordinary World, which had a great influence on me.

When my daughter was in middle school, I strongly recommended her to read this set of books, but it never aroused her interest. This set of books has been lying quietly in the bookcase. Maybe it has been waiting for her to open naturally.

Just as the senior high school entrance examination has entered the countdown preparation, a hit TV series "Ordinary World" fascinated her with the original work. In those days, she secretly finished reading three novels.

At that time, I put aside all anxiety about the senior high school entrance examination, and I was secretly glad at that natural time. Those ordinary and unwilling people in the ordinary world written by Lu Yao are lighting up their daughter's world bit by bit … ..

Sometimes the world is just wonderful. You don't know where you will be touched, ignited, enlightened and sublimated by a force in life.

That book, which has been in the bookcase for more than twenty years, has turned yellow and is covered with dust. At that moment, it lit up her brilliant place and will certainly light up her life. If you don't reach that temperature earlier, it may have a different meaning later, or dim or go out. Presumably that "sneaking around" also has a more positive significance.

I am grateful for my daughter's childhood. I can meet so many books in the many "embryonic stages" when I was growing up at the beginning of my life. Every time I accompany the growth of books, I grow inch by inch. Every encounter also generates a new green, with dew jumping on it, sunshine lyrical on it and my heart floating on it. ...

Therefore, there is really no need to be too deliberate and anxious about which book to read, otherwise the book will only be shelved or left in the corner, and children will gradually lose interest in reading. Let everything take its course, let it take its course.

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Children's holidays are coming, so let a book light up and nourish their childhood.

In childhood, let children meet more. Every book is like a gurgling stream, a rushing river. Just like a silent spring rain, an awakening. It follows and carries the swaying figure, watering and helping children's childhood to grow sturdily.

Take you and your children into every book, into the beautiful inner context of childhood, and listen to the rustle of growth in life. When you meet this, you will find that the world is bright, the sunshine is brighter, and your heart seems wider and softer.

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