Children don't accept toys, which is a problem of habit formation, that is to say, the formation of a habit requires some repeated practice, and children are not born with it. So how to cultivate children to develop the habit of packing toys? Here are a few tips to help you.

First,? The way to play picture books has cultivated the habit of cleaning up since childhood.

When children were young, they had no concept of packaging. At this time, picture books and games can be used to cultivate children's awareness of packing toys. For example, after playing, tell the children, "Let's take the little toys home together." "Your little doll is going to fly, so that you can travel to various countries." "This thing has become an interesting thing, turning boring command tasks into interesting games and increasing children's awareness of cooperation.

Second,? Put it in a fixed position, which reduces the difficulty for children to clean up.

Before letting the children pack their toys, parents need to work with their children to sort out the special place for putting toys, and also help them to tidy up their toys. The container for storing toys can be a big box, a big basket, or a toy cabinet that children can completely reach. It is better to have a big opening in the container for toys, so that children can easily take them away every time they look for toys, so as not to pour them out.

The container for storing toys should also be placed in a fixed place. If you change places frequently, it is difficult for children to closely associate toys with things that store toys. If necessary, the play area can also be fixed, so that children can understand where to play and where to collect toys, forming the concept of area and boundary.

Third, separate the appropriate toys.

Some children's homes are like opening a toy store. There are too many toys, not only filled with drawers in children's bedrooms, but also several large plastic baskets on the floor. Sometimes, children cherish too many toys to play with, and they don't know that one is missing. At this time, the child will have no time to care about it, because it has been lost anyway, and there are too many choices of toys.

In this case, parents should properly control the number of toys given to their children and encourage them to exchange their tired toys when necessary, so as to reduce the number of toys and keep a certain freshness.

(Lu Hong, parent-child lecturer in child psychology, disc consultant, lecturer; Wechat: gogomeg；; Wechat official account: qzjslh, looking forward to communicating with you. )