Let me talk about the origin of this picture book first. Last Sunday, I took my son to an art class. Because the class hasn't started yet, the eldest son chooses to read in the Youbei Parent-child Library, and the second son chooses to play puzzles in the class. They are not in the same room. After a while, he always shouted, "Mom, tell me this story." After a while, the second child shouted, "Mom, look at the warship I assembled." I was busy running at both ends, and then I looked at my father, sitting on one side and concentrating on pounding the mobile phone (the word "pounding" is used by adults and children in my family to describe playing mobile phones, which is obviously derogatory). I can't help complaining to my father. The summer curator of Youbei Library is very considerate and recommended this picture book to me. Is targeted! (Thanks again to curator Xia) Specially treat fathers who don't accompany their children. The reason why I chose this picture book to share is to let more fathers see this picture book, because it is a common problem in many families. Many fathers use work as a shield and pass on all the responsibilities of education and companionship of their children to their mothers. Of course, traveling on business is impeccable, but it has become a habit over time and exists like the air at home. Or the child is used to being close to his mother, telling stories or something, even if his father is right in front of him.

Quote an article I read in a circle of friends the other day: The value of men in the family is not only to make money, to find a good primary school for their children, but more importantly, to care for and accompany the whole family. And this is done bit by bit. Such as raising and caring for children. Yes, children can grow up if you leave them alone. However, children without their fathers will have imperfect personalities, which education experts have said countless times. Without the company of getting along day and night, the feelings between children and you will naturally be indifferent.

Yes, men should have a career and strive to realize their social values. However, you may not realize that when you hold high the shield of work, you also block out the love and expectation of your family and the happiness of your family and life in the distance.

It seems a bit far-fetched, so I went back to find this picture book, took it home and gave it to the father. After reading it, he smiled a little embarrassed. I looked at him, and at this moment we understood, needless to say. However, from last Monday, he decided to go home as early as possible every day to accompany his children, temporarily put down his work and let me supervise him. He did well on the first day, came back to talk to the children and read the picture books to them. Although not all people have changed after reading this picture book, it will certainly inspire him.

Let me talk about my son's reaction to this picture book first. After listening to this, the boss asked doubtfully: Why did Dad become a teddy bear? I replied: it is to punish those dads who don't play with their children. Any father who doesn't play with his children will become a teddy bear. The boss immediately asked a little worried and confused, what about my father? Will it become a teddy bear? I asked: What do you think? He said: No, because my father sometimes plays with me. Ask the second child the same question in the evening, and the second child says, I think my father is doing well.

I want to say that children are too tolerant. Every child loves his parents unconditionally. Even if parents are lacking in some aspects, in contrast, parents do not love their children unconditionally like children. Our love is conditional. We should admit this to our children.

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