Loneliness in college is normal! Many college students are studying in a foreign land, admitted to schools far from home, and some even admitted to overseas, truly foreign countries. As the saying goes, "when you are alone in a foreign land, you miss your relatives twice every holiday." People who have been away for a long time are all wanderers. It is normal for wanderers to feel lonely, especially when they have just arrived in a strange city and started a strange journey. At first, they were all alone, facing all the strange things around them alone, and this sense of loneliness was even stronger. As a result, many universities sprouted new clubs and spent some time with their family and friends. This is normal, just because at the beginning, everything is strange to us, and people always feel lonely when they feel uncomfortable, but after a while, this feeling will gradually fade away, and we will become familiar with and accept everything around us, and we will gradually feel lonely when we first come.

In addition, some students feel that everyone around them is in love, and they are still single dog. They can't help but sigh that they are lonely in the dead of night, especially on special days. Whenever I feel sad, or happy and want to share, but I can't find the right person around me, that kind of lonely feeling will arise spontaneously, and I will choose to swallow the surging emotions and bear them alone. This is actually quite normal. People always want to have an object to talk to, a harbor for the soul and a companion. Since I am still a human being, it can only show that fate has not arrived, and it is not my fault. In the process of waiting for fate, you might as well try to improve yourself. Flowers have their own butterflies, don't they?

Of course, some people are naturally introverted, inarticulate and even have so-called "social phobia". Well, it depends. If the symptoms are serious, it is best to seek medical advice in time. Don't worry too much. Everything will be fine. It is normal for introverts to feel lonely, but don't worry. You can do what a person can do when you are alone, and you can make many good friends when you travel in books. "There is Yan Ruyu in the book", and you can also find spiritual comfort and the same lonely soul in the book ~