Recommended reason:
First, this book puts forward some refreshing family education principles for the first time, so that parents can have rules to follow when educating their children.
Second, the book gives many simple and practical operation methods, which combine theory with practice perfectly. Parents not only gained a lot of effective experience immediately, but also improved their educational awareness. It is a model of seeking truth from facts about family education and the most practical reference book for parents.
Third: This book not only tells you how to improve your child's grades, but also tells you how to teach your child to be a man and how to cultivate a self-conscious, self-reliant and self-reliant child.
Second, Wang Jinzhan's How Talents Are Made, China Talented Family and How Learning Is So Difficult.
Wang Jinzhan, a leading figure in China education and an expert in practical education, revealed the overall strategy of talent growth. Whether it is a glittering successful person or a hard-working working class; No matter whether your child's academic performance is excellent, average in all aspects, or full of difficulties, he even had a big fight with you last night and slammed the door ... As long as your child is 3- 18 years old and has normal intelligence, you can find a growth plan tailored for him in this book.
He is an able person who walks between exam-oriented education and quality education, and his educational case makes people cry.
Three, Li Yueer's "Who took away the happiness of children"
She explained the child's happiness in the clearest and most vivid language. Through 190 stories in life and teaching, she deduces a series of practical and effective methods, and establishes a humanized and rational happy communication platform for parents, teachers and children, which makes children extremely willing to cooperate with educators. The experience of reading this book will be a process for educators to learn the wisdom of love, which is not only useful for educating children, but also of far-reaching significance for improving educators' self-cultivation.
Need quality products, the more products, the better. Parents of children must read the bibliography.
Fourth, Wang Donghua's "Looking for Mother"
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One of the most influential original instructors in contemporary China. In order to solve the unprecedented "mother crisis" in China, the author painstakingly pondered the monograph on mother education for ten years. From the mother's point of view, the author has seriously and deeply thought about some core issues of human society, and put forward a series of important propositions related to the fate of the whole mankind, such as "the hand that pushes the world is the hand that shakes the cradle". You may not be a genius, but you can be the mother of a genius. Parents must read!
Five, Montessori's The Secret of Childhood
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In this book, Dr. Montessori described the physical and psychological characteristics of children in detail and vividly. As a parent, you must read this book if you want to know the secret of children's growth and enter their hearts!
Montessori is the first female doctor of medicine in Italy. The founder of the first Children's Home. The Montessori school named after her covers 1 10 countries. Her biography is included in 12 biography series "People who Help the World". British educators praised her as "one of the greatest scientists who won worldwide recognition in the 20th century to promote science and human progress". American educators praised: "the contemporary discussion on preschool education is incomplete without Montessori system"; German educator commented: "In the history of education, it is rare to attract worldwide attention like Montessori education law". In China, where more and more attention is paid to quality education, Montessori preschool education classes based on her thoughts are increasingly favored by parents.
Among the three classic family education books recognized in the west, namely, Random Talk on Education (Locke), Emile (Rousseau) and The Secret of Childhood (Montessori), Locke's view is more rational, Rousseau's view is more romantic, and Montessori inherits Rousseau's romantic but more rational, which is called "Montessori".
Further reading: Montessori early teaching method, Montessori children's education manual, finding children, absorbing minds, etc.
Six, [Japan] Kimura's early education and genius.
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Even the most ordinary children will become extraordinary people as long as they are properly educated! Kuichi Kimura, the author, devoted his life to early childhood education and intellectual development research. When the Japanese royal family awarded him the medal, he praised: Mr. Kimura's success has improved the quality of a generation of Japanese nationals. As the originator of early childhood education, Kimura Kuiyi has many works, and his book Early Education and Genius is regarded as the "Bible" of family education by the educational circles. Although it has been published for nearly a hundred years, it is still the first choice for young parents to educate their children. In China, three family education books with sales exceeding one million, karl witte's Education, Finding Mom and Harvard Girl Liu Yiting, are all influenced by the book Early Education and Genius. This book is readable and operable, and is suitable for all parents to read.
Further reading: karl witte's Education (De karl witte), Early Education and Ability Training (Suzuki), Steiner's Nature Education (Maesteiner), Vulgarity and Genius (Mercedes), etc.
Seven, [France] Rousseau's "Emile on Education"
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The important works of Rousseau, an outstanding French enlightenment thinker. Emile is the first novel educational masterpiece and one of the three major educational works in the world (the other two are Plato's Republic and Dewey's Democracy and Education). 1762 was first published in Amsterdam, the Netherlands, which caused a sensation in France and western European countries and had a great influence. The educational theory it discussed caused a great revolution in the history of education and was praised as "the natural gospel of education" by Goethe. In this book, Rousseau opposed the old education system by educating Emile, his supposed educational object, and expounded his thought of "natural education". Rousseau's so-called natural education is to obey the eternal laws of nature and respect the free development of human body and mind, and its means are life and practice. He advocates the use of physical teaching and intuitive teaching methods, so that children can obtain the knowledge they need from personal experience of life and practice through sensory feelings. Closely related to nature education, Rousseau also advocates educating children about labor and freedom, equality and love, so that they can learn the means to make a living, develop the ability to control their own self and physical strength as soon as possible, and maintain natural habits.
Further reading: Education of Love (Italian) and Little Pea by the Window (Tetsuko Kuroyanagi).
Eight, [English] John Locke's "Random Talk on Education"
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This is a philosophical, easy-to-understand, vivid and touching educational classic, which has a far-reaching impact on future generations. They profoundly influenced later scholars and shaped the thoughts of ordinary people from generation to generation. It is still a must-read book for educators and parents in Europe, America and even the world.
Among the three classic family education books recognized in the west, Random Talk on Education, Emily and The Secret of Childhood, Locke's Random Talk on Education was published the earliest and most clearly: he explicitly proposed to train children in physical, moral and intellectual aspects, and put physical training in the first place. Locke wrote at the beginning of this book: "A healthy spirit resides in a healthy body." Similar to "training the body", Locke suggested that parents train their children's virtue in the form of "strict discipline".
Nine, [America] Spock's Spock parenting classics
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This book is recognized as the most credible parenting manual in the 20th century. Since its publication in the 1940s, it has been translated into 39 languages and sold 50 million copies worldwide. In Spock's Classic on Parenting, Dr. Spock, known as the "father of parenting", provided comprehensive, professional and meticulous parenting skills for parents of children aged 0~ 12, emphasizing that parents should cultivate their children's creativity throughout the whole process of parenting. This book, together with Freud's psychoanalysis, was rated as one of the 10 books that changed human thought and life in the 20th century by Time magazine.
X. [America] Heim G. Guinot "Give me your hand, son"
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More than 5 million copies of Godson classics in the United States have sold well all over the world in 365,438+0 languages, completely changing the way parents communicate with their children. In this field, it can really be called revolutionary homeschooling. It has great reference and guiding significance for parents in China. It is not enough for parents to have love and insight. Good parents need skills. How to acquire and use these skills is the main content of this book.
Author Heim G. Guinot, doctor of psychology, clinical psychologist, child psychologist and pediatrician; Adjunct Professor of Psychology at the Graduate School of new york University, postdoctoral fellow at Ajder University of the Philippines. He devoted his short life to the research of children's psychology and the education of parents and teachers. Relying on his professional wisdom, he has done a lot of creative work and made great achievements. His innovative ideas on how to communicate with children in books, speeches and columns have won great repercussions not only in the United States but also around the world.
Extended Reading: Chen Heqin's Family Education, which has influenced several generations of China family education classics.
XI。 Fromm's The Art of Love
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Love is the premise and core of all education, but what is love? Do we really understand love, or even really love it? Is love just a gesture, or is it an ability or art to learn? Fromm's The Art of Love gives the most popular but profound and incisive answers to these questions from the perspective of psychology and ethics. Reading this book not only helps us to understand fraternity, self-love, parents' love, sex, God's love and so on, but also helps us to understand our own life. The Art of Love is a very important book, and many of Fromm's incisive expositions are good tools for understanding education, such as the expositions on fatherly love and maternal love, which reveal the important secrets of children's growth and are one of the basic weapons for us to understand children and solve their problems. Repeated reading of this book can be used not only to truly understand love, but also to understand education, self-understanding and insight into a happy and complete The Secret Behind.
Twelve, [Austria] Adler's "Children's Personality Education"
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Adler introduced the basic motivation of children's personality development and the causes of problem children very accurately and clearly. The basic framework of his children's personality structure can be regarded as a key to understand children's problems. Reading this book repeatedly can help parents to establish the basic structure of understanding their children's personality. Because Adler's book really reveals the most important procedure in the process of children's development, which can explain the root causes of many unruly children.
Extended reading: If parents are interested in Adler's individual psychology, they can also read another famous book, Inferiority and Transcendence.
Thirteen. Whitehead's educational purpose
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When we are immersed in many details of educational technology, few people look up at the starry sky of education and seriously think about where we are going and what the purpose of education is. The greatest value of this book is that Whitehead, as a process philosopher, has keenly grasped the basic rhythm of education, namely "romance-precision-synthesis" and "freedom-discipline". Although Whitehead explained his very important thoughts as easily as possible, there is still a process to truly understand Whitehead's thoughts, but once truly understood and mastered, these thoughts will become a very useful force and become one of the cornerstones of our parents' thinking education.
The thinking training of Dewey's gifted children.
Recommended reason:
This is a wonderful book in the history of education. It has changed the quality of Americans, rewritten American history, set a pragmatic tone for the United States and designed a blueprint for the growth of every child in the United States. Since its publication, the influence of this book has been enduring. All parents who dream of cultivating their children into geniuses have learned practical ideas from this book and cultivated excellent children.
Fifteen. Steiner's Nature Education
Recommended reason:
This paper describes the growth process of her daughter Winnie Brett in detail, trying to clarify the author's educational thoughts and methods. The author uses vivid facts instead of boring theories to illustrate the problem.