My cousin, who recently went to college, cocked her head and asked me curiously, Cousin, you said you wrote so many articles about college life. Can you tell me how to live as a girl in college for four years without regret?
To tell the truth, she really stumped me by asking this question. Because first, although I graduated from college and didn't leave many regrets in college, after all, as a boy, I can't put myself in a girl's world. The second is that I am afraid that my personal understanding will affect the normal life track of others, which is the last thing I want to see.
But in the end, I saw my cousin's eager eyes and had to declare surrender and talk about my thoughts and opinions.
1, know when to study and how to study without supervision.
Don't blame me for blindly teaching others to be "good students" To tell the truth, learning will always be the top priority of your college life. I realized this when I was in college, and now I am more grateful that my decision to study hard after entering the workplace is extremely correct.
The reason why I ask you not to skip class is because I know that after you skip class, you just lie in your bedroom bed and watch Korean dramas, or because you get up late in winter and don't go to class at all. I hope you don't have this inertia. You are a girl, you have to be your own goddess, so you must be responsible for yourself and be exquisite to yourself.
The final exam should also be carefully reviewed. Don't think that you can pass the exam casually, just deal with it, and what you have learned can really be used in the future. For example, a course "Marketing Planning", which I once extremely resisted, was actually used in my present job. When my job required me to write a planning scheme, I was able to build a framework quickly, simply because I attended and reviewed which course seriously at that time.
It is the minimum requirement for a college student to strive for not failing every course and then graduating smoothly. Don't believe that "a university that does not fail is not perfect". When everyone else is having a happy holiday and you are still studying hard to prepare for the make-up exam after school starts, you will realize that failure is very painful.
2. The intimate relationship of roommates is more useful than that of boyfriends.
If life is divided into stages, college is the most important stage. And the people you meet in college may be your best friends for life, because the friendship at this time is rarely polluted by the secular, so there can be no other colors.
The first thing you come into contact with is your roommate in college. They will be your best friends for four years, and they will be your roommates for four years, so you should get on well with them. Because in the most precious four years of a person's life, you spend the most time with them, eating together, having classes together and gossiping about handsome guys together. Recently, you went to see that Korean drama and went shopping together. When you quarrel with your boyfriend, she gives you a warm shoulder and helps you criticize your boyfriend's ignorance, but in the end, she advises you to make up with him as soon as possible. So, sometimes your roommate or girlfriend is more reliable than your boyfriend.
So get along well with them, share interesting things together, spit out the girlfriend of the latest star is not good-looking, and spend the best four years together.
3. Learn to wear makeup and high heels.
This is a little requirement for your future work.
There is no denying that universities are the best cosmetic hospitals. She turned many girls who couldn't stand it before into goddesses, just because she learned to be responsible for herself and how to make herself more exquisite. There is a saying that "a woman likes herself." In my opinion, your exquisite makeup is not only for making others look comfortable, but also for yourself. This is the portrayal that no matter what others think, I can be what live high wants most. A person's inner self is often expressed through your outer self, especially girls, so you must know to clean yourself up, and at worst, clean yourself up, which will not only make you feel happy, but also make you more popular.
When you enter the workplace, you are a white-collar worker. As a woman, you need to wear high heels, so you can try it now, and your temperament will naturally flash over time.
4. Exercise more and lose weight healthily.
There was once a saying that convinced me that losing weight is a lifelong career for girls. This sentence more or less reveals the aesthetic concept of this world. People are thin and beautiful.
Therefore, you should remember not to get lazy in the hotbed of college, and remember to exercise. There are many ways to exercise. You can:
(1) Get up early and run in the morning. This is the most economical way. It doesn't need much investment. You just need to get rid of laziness and start running in the school playground early. See those energetic figures in the stadium? Join them.
(2) Get a fitness card. Generally, you can get a fitness card at a preferential price with a student card. To be honest, the atmosphere in the gym is different from that in other places. You can practice yoga with your instructor or follow the treadmill to 10 km. My favorite is spinning bike. Following the coach's rhythm and listening to the awesome music, all my passion and sweat are revealed.
Besides, if you don't stay up late, live a regular life. This is your responsibility for your future health.
5. Learn something.
In college, don't relax just because you are a girl. Because in the future, life will not be tolerant of you because you are a girl. So you have to leave something for your future.
For example, master office software such as Word, Excel and Xmind to be used in the future. At least you should learn fast typing and some simple Excel skills, which will be used in your future work.
For example, learn to write something yourself. You should not only learn to express your ideas with your mouth so that others can understand you, but also learn to write them in written language. For example, you should learn to write some simple copywriting plans.
Learn a driver's license I really don't have time to learn these things at work. So take this thing when you have time. If you have a car in the future, you can drive there if you want.
6, don't feel inferior because of your own external.
I'm not trying to comfort you. There are really only lazy women in this world, and there are no ugly women. As long as you are willing to tidy yourself up, you are the most beautiful.
To say the least, as long as your appearance is not particularly ugly, it should not be a problem that bothers you. Accept these unchangeable facts (I personally disapprove of plastic surgery) and turn myself into a person with rich heart by other means. Your college life is perfect. Actually, it's all because you care too much. Ask yourself: Do you remember the face of the man you met in the street today? You can't answer this question. Yes, others have the same impression of you, so others will not pay special attention to you. Remember you, everyone's focus is on themselves. So the next time you walk bravely with your head held high, girl, you'd better look up.
7. Go to the library often
Read more, the connotation will be better, learn more, and broaden your horizons.
The library is a good way to cure all puzzles. If you have leisure time, don't spend energy and life in the variety show of Korean drama bubble drama. You should put it in the library, read more books, and calm down and read more books.
I think reading has two advantages. One is that when you read, you will get inner peace. When you are reading, your heart is calm because you are talking to the author.
The second is that reading can give you confidence. This kind of self-confidence is given to you by readers and taught by reading itself, because in the process of reading, you will gradually become enriched and have a feeling of self-affirmation in your heart.
Girls who often go to the library have aura and confident direction. So, remember to go to the library often, that's where we should always stay.
How to face the love in college?
At the same time, I want to insert a blessing for love here: don't fall in love because of loneliness, after all, you will attract him who is equally excellent. I don't hesitate when love comes. I try to cultivate myself before love comes.
You should live a poetic life.
Finally, I wish you all the best May you live like this every day and live the most exquisite self:
Wash your face carefully every day, read more books, go to bed on time, eat less and eat more meals. Become gentle and generous, continue to be kind and maintain love. Don't be melodramatic in front of people, talk about it everywhere for comfort, but learn to face it calmly and think it out for yourself. You are too single. You are so pious to be a better self, you will meet the best, and that person will be worth all your waiting for.