This film tells the story of a soul going home. Three families were in trouble because their children dropped out of school. Parents had no choice but to send their children to a special school to "reform", but unexpectedly let themselves receive an enlightenment education that touched their souls. Parents' full love for their children can sometimes cause full harm. Why? There is often a problem behind "problem children": the existence of family education model.
Children are a mirror of family, and family is a mirror of society. As the first real film in China that deeply discusses family emotional education, Mirror presents sociological samples of three families through objective and calm records, which makes people re-examine the emotional problems such as parent-child relationship faced by families in China today, and provides sufficient space for the audience to think.
Previously, the creative team of Mirror walked into the campuses of high school affiliated to renmin university of china, Capital Normal University and No.2 Middle School in Shijiazhuang, Hebei, respectively, which triggered a heated discussion among teachers, students and parents.
Zhang Tongdao, a judge of the recording unit of Beijing International Film Festival and a professor at Beijing Normal University, said after the movie, "Mirror is a blind Chinese medicine, which provides reflection for the society, strength for life and makes the society more harmonious. This is the responsibility of the documentary itself. "
Lin Dehua, deputy dean of the School of Psychology of Beijing Normal University, said, "Family has the deepest influence on children. Parents must reflect on their own problems. Only when you grow up with your children can you have your own world. "
CCTV Mirror Documentary 2 2065438+On the morning of April/KLOC-0, 2007, some classes in junior and senior high schools in high school affiliated to renmin university of china were suspended for half a day. At 9 o'clock, led by the teacher, more than 300 students lined up to enter the school auditorium. At the same time, 100 students' parents were also seated. They will watch a documentary that has not yet been released.
This documentary "Mirror" was planned by the social and legal channel "Skynet" of CCTV for ten years, and it was finally completed after two years of shooting and production. This film takes intergenerational emotional problems as the breakthrough point, presents sociological samples of three families through objective and calm real records, and re-examines the emotional problems such as parent-child relationship and intimate relationship faced by contemporary China families from a new perspective of lack of emotional education. This is the first real film in China that deeply discusses family emotional education. In order to let the public know more about the importance of family emotional education, the documentary "Mirror" opened the first stop of campus activities in high school affiliated to renmin university of china.
"I am a mirror, and my face can reflect how loyal I am to my parents, and how similar I am to them both in appearance and in heart." "I tell you, you'd better not arrest me. You can't control me if you arrest me." "Do you think he dares to jump? Every time he says this, I feel that I will be a grandson when I go home again. " Three families were in trouble because their children dropped out of school. Parents had no choice but to send their children to a special school to "reform", but unexpectedly let themselves receive an enlightenment education that touched their souls. During the whole 90-minute screening, every frame and every conversation touched the emotions of students, parents and teachers.
With the lighting in the audience, Liu Pengzhi, a librarian from central research institute of culture and history, a member of the National Education Advisory Committee, the president of the Innovative Talents Research Association and the president of the United High School Attached to the National People's Congress, first shared her feelings about watching the movie: "After watching it, it was really shocking and exciting, and there was a buzz with me. It is too important to release this film just before the 19th National People's Congress, which should attract the attention of the whole society. I am also very grateful to CCTV for launching this film at this time. " There is another important reason why this film can arouse the strong * * * of President Liu Pengzhi. The reflection on family education in the film coincides with Liu Pengzhi's initiative in recent years. On June 9th, 20 15, president Liu Pengzhi published a signed article "Family Education, Starting with Educating Parents-Respecting Children and Emancipating Children" in Guangming Daily. After the movie, Liu Pengzhi once again stressed that "family education should first educate parents, not just children. Children are a mirror of family, and family is a mirror of society. A child with "problems" has a "problem" family. And many of our parents don't know much about education. Especially for the parents of the only child, some parents are not qualified to be parents. He is qualified to have children, but he is not qualified to educate children. " Under the auspices of A Guo, the famous host of Psychological Interview, Lu, deputy director of Social and Law Channel of CCTV, producer of Skynet, director of Mirror of Social and Law Channel, and Fan Yongdong, director of Mirror, had in-depth exchanges and discussions with teachers, students and parents present.
A senior one girl first asked, "I am particularly touched by a sentence in the film,' Life is not just about learning this way', but I wonder, can we really choose another way?"
A parent is optimistic about the path that children can choose now: "I think the more open society is, the more choices there are." Unlike when we were growing up, we had few choices. "
Tong Ning, deputy director of the Social and Legal Channel, shared his understanding of grasping the stages of life: "It is the best time to learn to put your hobbies at different stages reasonably." President Liu Pengzhi linked choice with the foundation of freedom: "Children all over the world have to study, so they have more books and wider knowledge, and they will have more choices when they enter the society in the future. A person's interests will continue to improve and change, so you will have freedom, but freedom is also to better contribute to our society and our country, and your life value will be better reflected. " After watching the movie, the teachers and students present couldn't restrain their excitement and actively asked questions about the content of the movie. In the Q&A, the creative team also answered the creative background and creative initial intention one by one. Fan Yongdong, director of Magic Mirror, revealed the key to getting family support in the film: "There are also many conflicts of understanding during the filming, but everyone in our team has won the trust of parents with the belief of sincerely helping these families."
Lu, the general director of Mirror, also confided: "As a media, we hope that through this film, more people will pay attention to family emotional education and start thinking about it. If more people are willing to think and do something, I think the original intention of our film will be achieved. We said in the film, including the' problem' children mentioned by parents, all subtitles with' problems' are quoted, because in the eyes of our creators, these children are not problem children. " Why do parents' full love for their children sometimes cause full harm? Through this film, the creative team hopes that the whole society can pay more attention to the phenomenon of "problem" children. And can face up to and care about the "problem family education model" reflected behind the "problem" children. President Liu Pengzhi also strongly hopes that through the broadcast of this film, more parents can face up to their family education problems, and the state should also speed up the pace of relevant legislation to protect the educational rights and other rights of children and parents. The real movie "The Mirror" tells the story of a heart going home. On the basis of fully presenting the complexity of social ecology, it provides the audience with sufficient thinking space and lets the soul go home! Let love no longer turn into harm.