It is a normal phenomenon that many students have not adapted to college life or even got rid of their dependence on their parents when they first enter college. A person in a foreign country, without parents, relatives and friends, should not only learn to take care of themselves, but also pay attention to interpersonal communication. In this "small society" of university, you will meet many different people and learn to communicate with different people. Keep good relations with roommates, teachers and classmates, because they will accompany you through these four years of college life. Many things can't be solved by yourself. When you are in trouble, they will help you through it.

2 Develop good self-discipline habits

Make a feasible plan for yourself and carry it out strictly according to your own plan. For example, if you want to get a scholarship this semester, you must first go to the student handbook to see what the scholarship requirements of the school are. Some colleges and universities require that you can't fail, with an average score of more than 80, which requires you to "work hard" in every subject. Make a study and review plan for each subject and complete it to the letter. It's easy to say, but in fact, how much the plan is implemented depends on self-discipline. In addition, you need to have a strong sense of time planning. How to spend four years in college determines your future living habits to some extent. What needs to be done every day was written the night before yesterday, and the next day there was a clear goal. Early to bed and early to rise, never stay up late.

3 strive to improve their ability.

In high school, you may be particularly outstanding, or you may be the first in the school. But when I arrived at the university, I found that everyone around me was excellent. At this time, there is a gap in your heart. Adjust your mentality, you know there are many people who are better than you. Try to improve your ability in all aspects and keep catching up with people who are better than you. Don't blindly compare with others, try to be yourself. Do what you are best at, strive for perfection in professional courses, and strive to improve your learning ability.

Be good at showing your talents.

Participate in activities organized by departments and schools. For example, if you are good at speaking, you can take part in various speech contests at school to show yourself and increase your confidence. If you are good at playing basketball, you can participate in the selection of the school team and participate in the basketball game in your department. For example, if you like to play with some robots, you can take part in the school science and technology competition. Participating in college activities not only shows one's talent, but also enhances one's value, and can also obtain a junior college or school-level certificate, laying a foundation for future development.

5 overcome shortcomings and enhance self-confidence.

If you are not good at expression and introverted, you can participate in the class cadre election. There are many opportunities to speak in class meetings and group day activities, which can fully exercise your courage. Slowly, you will find that your self-introduction becomes natural and graceful, your speech becomes energetic, and you are more confident in communicating with people in various occasions.

6 Avoid indulging in online games.

Addicted to online games is the "cancer" of contemporary college students. Not only playing in class, but also sacrificing sleep time, delaying study, rest time and health. In the end, I hurt myself. When I really graduated from college and faced with job hunting, I found that I could do nothing, couldn't find a job, and my health was getting worse every day, wasting precious four years of college.

7 Take part in physical exercise

Don't forget to take part in physical exercise (morning running, fitness, sports meeting) while studying, which can not only make your body better, but also greatly improve your learning state. Some students don't exercise, except for class, they stay in the dormitory all day and have little contact with the outside world. In the long run, various diseases will "find the door." People who often don't exercise always have a bad complexion, can't see a trace of blood on their faces, and are depressed, which gives people a very bad impression.

8 seriously talk about a love.

Love in college is the simplest. Being good at expressing yourself, attending classmates and friends' parties and some school activities are all good opportunities to meet excited girls (boys). Perhaps a morning run and a reading in the library will become a wonderful encounter and find your true love by accident. Cherish the love you meet on campus! Key point: it is ok to fall in love, but it is best to grow up together! Besides, if you stay in the dormitory all the time, you won't meet a girl (boy) who has a crush on you!

Plan for your future.

First, choose the direction and goal that suits you. Make long-term analysis and selection around your major, hobbies, advantages and specialties, and make long-term goals and directions according to your personal habits and characteristics. Once the goal is determined, we should conscientiously implement every link, accumulate work experience and sense of responsibility, and make the best preparations for future breakthroughs. Secondly, we need to make choices around personal career development and career goals. We should start from our own major, understand the society, understand the profession and know ourselves, so as to determine the development direction and goals. In particular, we should make full use of this period of time at school, improve our own quality in a targeted manner, consciously cultivate interest, tap potential, and actively adapt to professional needs. Finally, in order to achieve their career goals, college students must be fully prepared during their college years. As the saying goes, don't fight unprepared! Planning the future in advance for yourself, these contents are essential, everyone should be prepared!

Enjoy a wonderful college life.

In fact, college life passes quickly. Don't wait until you graduate, only to find that you have wasted your best years! At the very least, we should leave some good memories in the university, such as friendship, participation in various activities, various certificates, and a wonderful encounter with a person! So, enjoy college life, not ignore it. You can do something meaningful and leave your own youthful memories, instead of just spending four years in the dormitory!