I. Perseverance
? In fact, a person's learning and IQ are gradually developed. There are very few people who are reincarnated directly into geniuses, at least I have never seen them in Tsinghua. Many people will say that many students who learn to bully and learn God are born, genetically determined, and so on. Most people around me feel that they are gifted at best, and the most important thing is unremitting efforts. There are also many people who say that I have persisted in my efforts and still failed the exam.
? Let me give you a small example. Most people around me are admitted to the Tsinghua Academy of Fine Arts as undergraduate or graduate students, and they are basically painting in their spare time. Whether drawing with Ipad or drawing in your notebook, this habit will persist for many years. I have been learning to draw since I was 3 years old, and I have never stopped. Until now, I have the habit of painting every day, and it has become a part of my life unconsciously. This persistence can also be mapped to all aspects of study and life, because I love it, so I will not give up easily.
I drew it in my spare time after work
I have nothing to draw at school.
Second, confidence.
? Believe in yourself, believe in your choices, believe in your actions, and believe in your thoughts. A lot of things are going on with your inner thoughts. In fact, many people in Beiqing are extremely confident and even conceited. They have just learned humility at school and are always ready to learn from others. Therefore, when making important choices, such as choosing a job, you will not be crazy to compare and refer to other people's practices to make a decision, because there is no the most correct decision, only how to make your own decision correct. Generally, after making a decision, I don't spend a lot of time struggling with comparison. Because of the self-confidence cultivated from childhood, I believe that every choice I make is correct, and I take it seriously and enjoy it.
? So when many people find out that the graduates of Qingbei actually choose to go to the countryside, teach in primary and secondary schools and so on. They expressed great incomprehension and even criticism. I just want to say that some people may really choose a job just to find a living job, while others really enjoy it for their motherland. These people have a "belief" in their bones and will not be too entangled in the unknown. They unconditionally believe that what they are doing is meaningful, so they go all out. Starlight does not ask passers-by, and time pays off.
? Apart from Tsinghua's motto of "striving for self-improvement, respecting morality and carrying things", what impressed me most was what the headmaster said at the opening ceremony: "Strive for the health of the motherland for 50 years". Recently, I read a sentence from a doctoral student studying philosophy and shared it with you: "How should a person spend his life?" If you don't think clearly about this question, you will roll with others all your life. "How steel was tempered" once replied: "A man's life should be spent like this: when he looks back on the past, he should not regret wasting his time, nor should he be ashamed of being mediocre. "There will be everyone * * * to encourage.
Take a snapshot downstairs in the dormitory.
Third, you can play.
? If you really think that all the students in Beijing are bookworms who can only learn, you can only say that your cognition only stays in the past. Usually, when chatting around me, everyone talks about "playing" in addition to learning. There are also many game gods around me, both learning and playing games. Walking in the Bauhinia playground at night, many people play guitar and sing on the playground. The school also strongly supports us to do all-round summer practice and winter vacation practice. At that time, there was a joke that Yang Qian didn't use summer training to win two Olympic gold medals. In fact, it's not entirely a joke. Haha!
? I went to Pakistan as an international volunteer for two months in my freshman year, and the local government also sent "private bodyguards" to protect me, so my portrait has not changed in recent 10 years. Sophomore went to Sri Lanka to teach, and junior relied on scholarships and work-study programs to see all the seas that Southeast Asia wanted to see. After graduation, I went to work in a design company. My boss is pomegranate, one year younger than me. I said I wanted to go outside, and she agreed. I went to Europe alone for 2 months, went to Florence, Italy to see the cathedral of Notre Dame and flowers, and saw the city where the Renaissance began. Suddenly I feel it's time to change my life. He returned to China for postgraduate study, and landed at that time with the first place in the professional national preliminary examination. And I am just a little transparent in this school, so if you think we are just a group of people who can only learn but not play, we will be unhappy haha! "Work hard and have a better time!"
WeChat avatar, two bodyguards sent to me by the local government.
Fourth, focus
? After work, I slowly discovered that the efficiency of doing things by myself is really ok. Recalling my roommates again, I found that everyone has the same trait "concentration". I remember grabbing seats in the library every day. Sometimes I get too involved and often miss meals. Now after work, my colleagues often remind me that "it's time to eat!" ""it's time to get off work! "I didn't deliberately participate, but I was too focused and wanted to finish it quickly.
? Therefore, those friends who have low learning efficiency and low work efficiency all have the same confusion: Why do you think all the troubles in the world are temptations when it comes to doing things? There is a saying in the book: in fact, diligence can only determine the lower limit. What really determines the upper limit of the gap between people is whether you can concentrate on what you are doing for a long time.
? Finally, I want to say that those so-called "learning gods" are actually ordinary people in the real world. They just found the direction of life earlier. They should study hard when they should study hard and play quickly when they should play. It's never just talented, smart and hardworking young people who can go to the North. Talented people can, talented stupid people can, and so can you.