First, create a reading environment, parents and children study together.
If children don't like reading, parents should first review themselves. If you never study, how can children like it? Imagine that after dinner every night, parents watch TV and play mobile phones, but they never read books, but let their children read books. Is this possible? If parents are scholars, they should like to buy books and read books. Teaching by example is better than words, and children will naturally fall in love with reading. Parents should spare some time to read and share famous books with their children every day. This is a kind of silent education, which is conducive to the nourishment and purification of junior high school children in the process of reading, and is more conducive to the cultural cultivation of both parents and children. Parents and children read all kinds of books together, which enhances communication and deepens feelings. It is a pleasure for parents, children and families.
Today's children have a wide range of knowledge, but it is difficult to distinguish the quality of language expression at a young age. They remembered many strange words and dirty words at once. Many roles are difficult for them to distinguish between good and bad. They guess unfamiliar words and don't know much about the stories in the book. Therefore, at this age when children are full of curiosity, excitement and thirst for knowledge, and lack the necessary understanding and judgment of things, it is necessary for parents to read with their children.
Second, it is beneficial to insist on opening books and stimulate children's interest in reading.
Children's hobbies are different, and each child's development characteristics are different. You can show him your favorite books according to your own preferences. Parents and friends should adhere to the principle of reading, as long as children are willing to read. However, with the development of modern material civilization, the temptation of TV and Internet to children, and children's books driven by economic interests, although children like reading, I think many books are not very good or even harmful to their physical and mental development; Children don't like books that are instructive to children.
Only by respecting children's feelings and making reading a happy experience can children fall in love with reading. The process of selecting books is a process of cultivating interest and shaping taste. What kind of books you choose to read will make you who you are. The most suitable books for children must be books that children are willing to read. The book that has the greatest influence on children must be the book that children love to read. Parents can take their children to the bookstore to choose books, and the choice of books is up to the children themselves, which greatly mobilizes their enthusiasm and buys their favorite books. Parents can take their children to the library to read more books and participate in reading activities on weekends, so that their children can get more good influence. Parents can create an exclusive "reading space" for their children, arrange it according to their favorite way, or put some books everywhere on the coffee table, bedside, balcony and other places, so that children can grow up in the "book pile".
Third, create communication opportunities and encourage children to express themselves.
Parents should be interlocutors and questioners. After reading it, parents should chat with their children and ask them, "What do you think of this story?" Connect the indirect experience in reading with life. Reading is not simply reading, but the process of using books. Dialogue and questioning between parents and children is an output process, and children will have logical and emotional input. This kind of thinking and expression after reading is actually the most useful for children's growth. After children finish reading books, parents can encourage their children to express their feelings and ideas, so as to enhance their thinking, communication and expression skills. If children just read blindly, then the books they read may just be information accumulated in their minds. If parents can encourage him to express his feelings after reading, in fact, he has experienced a profound thinking before expressing.
Children are immature, curious about new things, easy to wander off when reading, and unable to finish reading. At this time, parents should pay attention to the way of education, understand their children's behavior and guide their children to read books that meet their psychological level. Communicate with children when reading, understand their inner world, and create conditions for children to read. Through relaxed and pleasant interaction and high-quality companionship, the distance between parents and children has been narrowed, and reading has become the bond of family soul. In this way, children will associate reading with warm and beautiful family ties, thus falling in love with reading.
Reading is a lifelong practice. It can't make children thoroughly remould themselves in a short time, but accumulated reading can develop children's intelligence, broaden their horizons, increase their knowledge, cultivate good moral quality and improve their interest in learning. The cultivation of good reading habits is an immortal lamp for children to explore independently in their future lives, which will always light up the road under their feet during their growth.