Psychological counselor's article
(National Vocational Qualification Level II)
Article type: personal analysis report
Title: May all encounters be beautiful.
? Through a comprehensive review and analysis of the self-growth experience, this paper expounds the process of self-development from youth to maturity, deeply examines and analyzes the personality characteristics of self, thus revealing the internal pursuit and desire of self-becoming a psychological counselor, and analyzes the conditions and shortcomings of self-employment as a psychological counselor, thus pointing out the direction of self-efforts.
Keywords: growth experience, self-analysis, career analysis
I am 43 years old. I work in a hospital and am in charge of a nurse. 1994 graduated from Qingdao second health school majoring in nursing, graduated from Binzhou medical college by correspondence in 2008, and graduated from online education of Jilin university on 20 17. At present, due to hobbies and work needs, I began to study part-time psychological counselors after work.
? It is my long-cherished wish to become a qualified and noble psychological counselor. The formation of this wish is deeply influenced by my personal growth experience, family education and working environment.
First, self-growth analysis
? Childhood, healthy and happy growth
I was born in a simple rural family, and my parents are both authentic rural people. At that time, family life was very tight. My father is a good-tempered but a bit stubborn person, and my mother has a strong personality. Their hard work, integrity and good outlook on life are always worth learning, and their influence on me is also subtle.
Growing up, I seldom worried my parents. Primary school students live a simple and plain life, and their academic performance is among the top in the class. Although not the best, it is also very popular with teachers. Every day after school, I will take my friends to do homework at home, check and cook at the same time. I remember once burning all the pots. At home, even in the village, I have always been a so-called "good girl". Reading has cultivated my strong, independent and diligent qualities, and my parents have influenced me with their love for life and positive attitude towards life. Childhood experience is a great wealth of my life, which laid the foundation for the formation of my outlook on life, world outlook and values. Kindness, honesty, enthusiasm, positivity and diligence are all necessary qualities for psychological counselors. Thank my parents, thank my childhood!
(2) junior high school, open a new window.
When I was in primary school in the village, I was very happy every day. Later, I went to junior high school, met new teachers and classmates, and got along well. During this period, I met my classmates who are still good friends until now. We are deskmates, studying and playing together. Finally, we were admitted to the technical secondary school with excellent results. I think the most important thing to get along with friends is to treat each other sincerely, respect each other and think what each other thinks, which is also the basic quality that psychological counselors should have.
? (C) Health schools, changes in green fruits
With sincere admiration for nursing work, I started my health school life with great expectation. The collective life at school has taught me how to communicate with people better and live in harmony. I learned more professional knowledge and laid a solid theoretical foundation for my work. I was deeply impressed by nursing psychology when I was studying at school. I actively encourage myself to participate in various activities, and let myself try to overcome my timidity, regardless of success or failure. During my stay in the Health School, I took an active part in the table tennis competition held by the school and made use of the winter and summer vacations to promote sales on Saturday and Sunday. These experiences have enriched my life experience and truly realized the difficulty of life. I often go to the school library to read various books in my spare time to enrich my knowledge. "Studying in thousands of books and Traveling in Wan Li Road", with rich experience and wide knowledge, makes me full of hope for my future and confidence in being a psychological counselor!
(d) Work, temper and mature.
After graduation, she was assigned to a work unit, and worked hard to learn new knowledge and new business. She was awarded the honorary title of "Excellent Nurse" for many times. Because obstetrics and gynecology faces pregnant women, I treat every patient with my love, patience and responsibility and make friends with them. I gradually matured in my busy work and life, and formed a tough, independent, dedicated, warm and sincere, self-disciplined, tolerant, confident and self-reliant, and good at introspection. There will certainly be many challenges and opportunities on the road of learning psychology. I will face them with a calm and mature attitude, seize the opportunity and meet the challenge. I hope to become a qualified psychological counselor through my own efforts and go further on the road of growth! ?
(2) Personal personality type
? My personality is generally both internal and external, enthusiastic, competitive, independent, friendly, considerate, tolerant, hardworking, frugal, able to objectively analyze problems, like thinking, persistent and patient. Strong sense of responsibility, serious and responsible for the work, warm and sincere to others. I think all the above qualities are necessary for an excellent medical worker. I will pay more attention to the cultivation of these aspects in the future. At the same time, pay attention to overcoming your own shortcomings: sometimes you are too perfect, sensitive and too concerned about what others think of you. I have five excellent qualities: sincerity, kindness, tolerance, initiative and firmness. In general, I look at others, pay more attention to their bright spots, and don't seek perfection. Making a mistake is making a mistake. Medical workers are similar to psychological counselors, making good use of sympathy and giving patients sincerity, understanding and guidance. I like making friends very much and attach great importance to feelings. So I have a lot of friends, and their comments on me are: sincere, kind, positive, and a person suitable for making friends.
My shortcomings are: indecision and being too cautious.
? (3) My outlook on life
? My basic outlook on life is: as long as you pay, you will get a reward, face everything with a grateful heart and a smile, and enjoy a simple and fulfilling life. I have been in a good mood most of the time recently, and sometimes I feel anxious because of the busy work tasks, but more often I feel full and satisfied. I have no clear religious belief, but I believe that good and evil are rewarded. And I learned to be indifferent, to cherish, to be grateful, and to be kind to everyone around me.
Second, the analysis of professional behavior
? (1) Why did you become a psychological counselor?
I really believe this sentence: psychological counseling is the process of self-help and helping others. This is also my understanding of the profession of psychological counselor. Psychological counseling is a lofty profession, and psychological counselors are engineers of the mind. They help, inspire and educate clients through scientific technology and methods, so that they can change their cognition, emotion and attitude, produce positive ideas and actions, alleviate psychological problems, better adapt to the environment and promote personality development and potential development. This is a very meaningful job. In the process of helping others, psychological counselors have also honed themselves, forged their own character, improved themselves and achieved sustained growth. When a helper came to the counselor with a sad face and showed pain and helplessness, the counselor finally helped him out of the predicament with his personality charm and professional skills and walked out of the counseling room happily. I think this is the greatest happiness of a psychological counselor.
1994 since graduation from clinical nursing, I have come into contact with many patients with physical and mental diseases, accumulated experience in getting along with others, and gained the joy of relieving pain for others. At the same time, I also realize that the troubles caused by psychological problems will eventually be fully reflected in their health. As a clinical medical staff, we should learn psychological counseling skills and give psychological counseling to patients while treating physical diseases, hoping to use more knowledge to relieve patients' pain, make our greatest contribution to human psychological and physical health, and make them physically and mentally healthy. In order to become a better medical staff and make patients get comprehensive physical and mental treatment, I am eager to become an excellent psychological counselor. To this end, I think we should focus on five aspects that need to be strengthened: perfecting personality, perseverance, cultivating mind, constantly learning and helping others.
? (2) My advantages
1, I have a medical foundation in psychological counseling. I have the intermediate title of internal medicine nursing specialty and many years of clinical practice experience.
I think I have the personality quality to be a qualified psychological counselor. I am rational, easy-going, warm and friendly. I respect others and have a strong sense of responsibility and love. My modest and peaceful personality is also a favorable condition for being a good psychological counselor. 3. Be able to analyze yourself, accept yourself and enjoy life.
4. I love the profession of psychological counselor, and I also deeply like psychological knowledge. I hope this profession will be carried forward in my future work and life.
5. The affirmation, support and encouragement of leaders and colleagues have strengthened my confidence in learning psychological counselors and making a career in this industry.
6. Learning to be a psychological counselor will improve my personality, get along better with my family and friends in life, have more and more reasonable solutions to problems, and handle interpersonal relationships more perfectly.
7. I joined a psychological growth group with like-minded partners and experienced tutors.
(c) I look forward to my career direction.
1, I look forward to becoming a qualified psychological counselor, helping patients with physical diseases to ease their fear of diseases and surgery, relieve their anxiety about postoperative pain and complications, and let the help seekers I have helped live a healthier and happier life.
2. I hope that through my efforts and communication psychology's knowledge, more people will know and understand psychological counseling and seek help in time when they need help.
(D) My direction of efforts
On the road of psychological counseling, I realized that I still have a long way to go. To be a qualified psychological counselor, it is not enough just to attend training. I also need to actively create more opportunities, accept the supervision of psychologists and learn from other better psychological counselors.
? In the process of learning, I deeply realized that my professional theoretical knowledge is not enough, and I have little practical experience in psychological counseling, so my counseling skills need to be further studied and improved. There is no shortcut to really learn psychological counseling, especially to master the skills of psychological counseling, work creatively and help visitors solve problems effectively. You can only learn and understand in practice, and gradually improve and improve. The health and integrity of the counselor's personality determines and limits the degree to which psychological counseling can achieve curative effect. Therefore, the counselor's understanding and analysis of himself and the counselor's self-growth are the most critical factors in psychological counseling.
Psychological counseling is a profession of "giving a rose, leaving a fragrance in one's hand", and it is a process in which psychological counselors help visitors get rid of psychological shackles and regain spiritual freedom with their own personality charm and professional skills. Psychological counseling is not only a science, but also an art, and the scientific truth is not difficult to understand, but it is not a simple thing to apply the counseling technology to every helper. I clearly realize that there is still a big gap between myself and the requirements of qualified psychological counselors. I look forward to getting sincere advice from teachers around me. Today, when I step into the door of psychological counseling, I believe my future will be wonderful.
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