Demonstration skill
1. What is a speech that makes good use of space?
The so-called space refers to the scope of the venue, the position of the speaker and the distance from the audience. It is best for the speaker to be in a place where the audience's attention is easy to gather. For example, in a meeting, the chairman is mostly at the top of the conference table, because this is the place where participants' attention is most likely to gather.
On the other hand, if the chairman is in the center of the conference table, what will happen to the meeting? I'm afraid it will distract the participants and make the meeting feel endless? Therefore, putting yourself in a place where the audience's attention is easy to gather can not only enhance the audience's attention to the speech, but also enhance the speaker's trust and authority.
2. What is the posture in the speech?
The posture in the speech will also give the audience an impression, such as an honest impression or a timid impression. Although personal personality and daily habits have a great influence on this, generally speaking, there are still some postures that are convenient for talking, which are called "relaxed postures". On the other hand, relax and don't be too nervous. Excessive tension will not only show awkward and stiff posture, but also have a bad influence on the movement of the tongue.
One of the techniques is to keep your feet shoulder-width apart to stabilize your whole body. Another trick is to find ways to disperse and reduce the tension exerted on the body. For example, put a hand gently into your pocket, or touch the table, or hold a microphone.
3. The line of sight during the speech
Speaking in public means that you have to put up with public attention. Of course, not every listener will give you a kind look. Again, you can't ignore the eyes of the audience and avoid them. Especially when you walk to the microphone and stand in front of the public, the sight from the audience sometimes even stings you.
The secret to overcome this line of sight pressure is to speak at the same time; At the same time, look for people from the audience who cast a kind and gentle look at themselves. Ignore those cold eyes. In addition, it is also effective to pay attention to those who strongly "nod" to show their approval and consolidate their confidence in making speeches.
4. Facial expressions when speaking
The facial expressions in the speech, whether good or bad, will leave a deep impression on the audience. Tension, fatigue, joy, anxiety and other emotions are clearly displayed on my face, which is beyond my control. No matter how wonderful the speech is, if the expression is always insecure and hesitant, the speech will easily become unconvincing.
The first way to control your face is "don't bow your head." Once a person "hangs his head", he will feel "depressed" and his eyes can't contact the audience, so it is difficult to attract the attention of the audience. Another way is to "speak slowly". Once you speak slowly, your mood will be stable, your facial expression will relax, and your whole body will stand still for it.
5. About clothes and hairstyles
Clothing will also bring various impressions to the audience. In particular, oriental men always like to wear gray or blue clothes, which inevitably gives people an impression of being too rigid and dull. You might as well wear a little fancy clothes to a relaxing occasion. But if it is a formal occasion, generally speaking, dark suits, evening dresses and tuxedos are more appropriate. Secondly, hairstyles can also shape various images. Both long hair and bald head have their own strong images, and the length of sideburns is also considered as a sign of personal preference. When you stand up and give a speech, what impression does your clothes give to the other party? I want you to think it over.
6. Voice and accent
Voice and accent are innate and cannot be achieved overnight. However, it is true that the sound quality and wording have a great influence on the whole speech. A research report shows that men with deep voices are more reliable than men with high voices. Because a deep voice can make people feel dignified and calm. Still, you can't change your voice right away. In a word, it's important to make your voice clear to the audience. Even people with poor sound quality can still attract the enthusiastic attention of the audience if they can stick to their own opinions and beliefs.
Speech speed is also an important factor in speech. In order to create a calm atmosphere, it is important to speak slowly. The standard is about five minutes and three A4 manuscripts. But it should be noted here that if you keep the same speed from beginning to end, the audience will sleep.