Some people say that if you want to have a successful marriage in this life, you need two conditions: one is to find the most suitable person in love, and the other is to be the most suitable person yourself. Many marriages, in fact, are not only the other person's fault, but also their own fault. It is the saddest thing that we met the wrong person at the wrong time. Looking back a few years later, I find that we could have had a good life, but we have come and gone unconsciously.

In the first half of his life, Chen experienced a lot of pain, suffered a lot and divorced Luo Zijun. He thought he had found love, freedom and comfort.

However, it turns out that Zijun is what you want most. Chen Zheng is sitting in his office. Even if it is late at night, even if he has no job, he still won't go home. He said to Luo Zijun: I want to go back, I want to go back. It's just that things have changed and I can't go back after all. Why Luo Zijun around the congratulatory letter is so shiny, all over his body. And Luo Zijun around Chen is a confused woman who is not attentive and unclear.

Luo Zijun around Chen only knows how to buy luxury goods, pester her husband, make an obedient and beautiful vase, and obey Chen in everything, but in the end Chen Ye doesn't like it. Because, it's all each other's fault.

Therefore, in an unfortunate marriage, there is a possibility that you are not the right person and I hate myself when I stand by your side. That's how you leave each other.

02

Lohan and Yiyi met at the age of 18, and they are both vocational high schools. There is little pressure to study, and students play all day. My family doesn't have such high expectations, just thinking that I can work and earn money after graduating from vocational high school. At that time, they were in love. Skipping classes and going out to climb mountains, standing at the top of the mountain and shouting "I love you" around the clearing, I felt that their love could be as tenacious as the surrounding mountains.

Many times, every romantic scene has to be staged. It was an out-of-touch era, with no burden of life and only love.

Later, I found out that it was actually very simple for you to marry me. After graduation, Yiyi's parents urged her to get married because Yiyi acted as if she would never marry anyone else. My parents think that since they have decided, they should get married, so that girls will not suffer. Lohan doesn't really want to get married, but he just can't think of a reason not to get married. He felt that if he refused, it was as if he had always been untrue.

At the age of 22, they got married, while others were still in college.

Without thinking, Yi got pregnant as soon as she got pregnant, and they became parents when they were young. They have been quarrelling since they had children. Yiyi said that how hard she worked, the child always bit her when she was nursing, and it hurt terribly. Lohan said, I am the one who works hard. Your little breast milk is simply not enough. I get up at night to milk the cows, I change diapers, and you never get up in the morning. Yiyi wants to buy beautiful clothes, and Lohan wants to walk around. When children have a cold and fever, they fight like hell. You blame me, and I blame you. Endless.

Yiyi said to let her mother-in-law take the child away and raise it. Everyone else's family is in-laws with children. But that is, Lohan's parents are under 50 years old and still at work, so they can't take them. Lohan said, let her mother-in-law take care of the children. Yiyi's younger brother is in high school, and her mother is busy accompanying her. She is overwhelmed by her younger brother's report card all day, and she really can't take care of the little doll.

03

When the child was 2 years old, he finally couldn't hold on. Lohan said, divorce. Yiyi said, if you leave, who will you be afraid of? It seems that the two men got into a fight and went directly to divorce with their certificates. When they went, they found that Yi Yi had forgotten her ID card. Lohan said: Did you do it on purpose? If you don't want to leave you, just say so. Yiyi is also very angry. Wait, I'll go back and get it. Yiyi took a taxi, went straight home, came back an hour later and stood in line again. It was a rough day, and they were angry all the time, but finally they divorced.

Children are easy because Lohan doesn't want them. In order to get rid of the children, Lohan gave the house to Yi. Lohan's mother flew into a rage when she found out. Children are the blood of the Luo family, and the house is the hard money of parents all their lives. Why did you give it to someone else?

My mother-in-law came to Yi Yi's house to discuss, and after a few words, she quarreled with Yi Yi. On second thought, you want it, right? I won't give it to you. See what you can do. At that time, everyone seemed very creative. In this way, when others were unmarried, they quickly divorced, and there was a baby, Tao Tao, who became a single-parent child before he was sensible.

In those years, Yiyi had an idea that she hated Lohan very much. She always felt that she had betrayed their original promise and met someone who was not suitable for her. I always want to make Lohan suffer as much as possible and make myself feel better.

In a blink of an eye, more than ten years have passed, and Tao Tao has grown up and is extremely rebellious. Every word is like a knife, poking Yi Yi's heart every day. Yi Yi, who is in her thirties, also knows that children are the most important. However, the child was abandoned by his parents since childhood, and he had a Qian Qian knot in his heart, but he couldn't get rid of it. For many years, Lohan was not allowed to look after children, but they were forced to contact again because of Tao Tao's rebellion.

Lohan is married again and has a little daughter, only 1 year old. Yiyi talked about several loves, but in the end, when it comes to marriage, she was afraid and said that good love can only go away. Lohan took Tao Tao to live in the past, and the two brothers and sisters got along very well. Lohan goes to the kitchen to cook Tao Tao's favorite meal every day, takes Tao Tao to swim and play badminton, plays around, and takes Tao Tao to the library most of the time.

Yi changed her job, stayed with her every day, and prevented Tao Tao from living on campus. She loves her children wholeheartedly.

04

After years of hard work, Tao Tao is back on track. On one occasion, Lohan and Yiyi talked a few words. Both of them felt that they had gone through such difficulties in recent years, but when they were young, they were all trivial things. At that time, they felt very depressed and could not do without divorce.

If we had a little sense of responsibility and tolerance from the beginning, maybe we wouldn't have ended up in such a bad situation and Tao Tao wouldn't have been left out in the cold for so many years. Lohan and Yiyi were in tears before they knew it.

However, it was impossible to go back before. After so many years of divorce, there is finally no resentment. It turns out that we were not good enough in those years.

Rousseau said: The real source of happiness lies in ourselves. As long as a person is good at pursuing happiness, others can't let him fall into real misery. I hope we can all meet at the right time, there will be love at first sight like crackle, and there will be long-lasting affection. May we all be happy.