1, global dominant
We're not talking about where you're going. The younger brother around you will follow you. After all, what you are pursuing now is love, not loyalty, but using the body language and preparation we just said to show that you are different from others-you can control the situation. Whether it is windy, rainy or sunny, you can naturally show your charm. Whether a person or a group of people go out for a carnival, they can naturally blend into different occasions.
Step 2 make good use of body language
Sometimes it's not that girls don't like you, it's your voice that sounds almost pleading, your flashing eyes, your shoulders that you can't stand up all the time, which makes people feel that you have no confidence in yourself and are just chasing a girl! What about the confidence I asked you to cultivate in front of me? Hold your head up and chest out. Don't write all your gains and losses on your face. Even if she is naive and will collapse without you, you should show that you have the ability to carry it hard!
3, straightforward
As I said before, sometimes a simple conversation can make the other side relax their vigilance. Similarly, if you want to ask someone out and ask them when they are free, it will make you look embarrassed. Tell them your next plan directly, and then ask them if they want to join. This simple method is sometimes a shortcut to success.
4. Sweet talk
We certainly don't want you to fill each other's soup easily, but when the other person tentatively complains that the sun has burnt all the makeup on his face, don't answer the other person like an idiot, "Yes! Your cosmetics don't seem waterproof! " , like "it's okay! You are more charming without makeup! " This basic scene must be included in the automatic reply system in your head!
5. Leave gracefully after getting the phone number.
Remember, this is an elegant departure, not a desperate exit. When you get the other person's email or phone number, leaving gracefully can keep the other person's appetite and make the other person look forward to your next move, which is another good way to win by surprise.
Step 6 prepare in advance
In addition to no brain and no gain, no plan is no gain! Especially when chatting, don't think too much and too complicated, sometimes simply "Where do you live?" Or "What's your favorite movie or music?" On the contrary, opening each other's chatterboxes is the most undefended and smooth.
7. Avoid awkward silence
Especially when we just met and were not very familiar with each other, it is inevitable that we will fall into some awkward silence when we speak. If you can take the initiative to jump out and find some relaxing and interesting topics to fill this gap, you will certainly be able to live up to the mission of "the atmosphere is a man's responsibility" and leave a good impression on girls' hearts. If you feel that you have a bad reaction on the spot, prepare some topics in advance! No pain, no gain, no brain, no gain!
8. Cultivate self-confidence
What is confidence? Self-confidence means calmly coping with advance and retreat, handling everything in your hands gracefully and freely, without anxiety, anxiety and uneasiness, smiling when showing elegance and sticking to principles when being tough. When you can show your confidence in your gestures, you will definitely attract the attention of girls.
9. Practice online first.
Excessive addiction to the virtual world of the Internet will indeed make people fall into the world of otaku, which will never return, but it is no exaggeration to use the Internet to practice the secret skills of chasing women! At least leave a message on the internet, so as not to be bored, not to be silent, and not to make people unable to pick up the words. In the real world, there is a way to face a girl face to face, without blushing or shrinking, without making the scene ugly, and then win the hearts of beautiful people!
10, striving for self-improvement
Good birds choose wood to live, good sisters choose men to live! So the most basic way to attract girls' attention is to strengthen their own conditions first! Read more books to cultivate humanistic taste, watch more movies to cultivate artistic taste, or learn more languages or talents or financial tools, otherwise why should people give up other men with better conditions and choose you?