Cultivate friendship between school-age children

The friendship between children is gradually established and deepened through * * * activities and exchanges. Adults can help cultivate friendship between children from the following aspects.

1, create a friendly environment and let children and partners have friendship.

Most children are happy to get along with their peers. Parents should encourage their children to make more friends, lead them to visit relatives and friends, neighbors and colleagues, and let them play with their peers. You can also invite your friends to your home. Parents can provide playgrounds at home, buy some books and toys, and organize their children to play games and activities together. If conditions permit, children should be allowed to enter kindergarten as soon as possible and get to know more companions. When children have friends and play games together, they will be happy, attached to each other and close, which will build a bridge of friendship.

2. Standardize children's behaviors, make their partners like to associate with them, get along well with them and maintain friendship.

Children tend to be "self-centered", do whatever they want, put themselves in other people's shoes, and often "hit a wall" when interacting with their peers. If you go to your neighbor's house to play, talk impolitely, don't listen to your neighbor's adults, and rummage through drawers, your partner will feel disgusted and unwilling to associate with them. It is necessary to standardize children's behavior, urge children to correct bad habits, tell children what to do and what not to do in making friends, and cultivate and guide children to form good behavior habits and lively and cheerful personality. In this way, he will be welcomed by his partners.

3. Guide and educate children to cherish and develop friendship.

The friendship between children is gradually established and deepened in * * * activities and exchanges. Adults can help cultivate friendship between children in the following ways. 1, create a friendly environment and let children and partners have friendship. Most children are happy to get along with their peers. Parents should ...

It is inevitable that children will bicker and quarrel together, even if they are good friends. When there is a quarrel between children, adults should keep a calm attitude, don't put an end to the communication between children on this ground, take persuasion to ease it, and never protect one side; Help children find reasons from themselves. If the child is wrong, take the initiative to apologize and encourage the child to make up with his partner. It is also necessary to educate children to care more about helping their partners and remind them to take the initiative to care about visiting their partners when they are sick. Let children share their favorite things with their peers. Teach children to respect and understand their partners, don't be afraid of losing money in communication, and don't get the upper hand everywhere; You can also encourage children to carry out some meaningful gift-giving activities, such as drawing a beautiful picture, making a small toy for a good friend, and constantly developing friendship between children.

4. Pay attention to the friendship between children and encourage children's good friends to come home as guests.

Parents should sincerely welcome their little guests and usually ask their children, "How did you play with your good friends today?" When you find that your child has made progress, you should encourage and praise him in time. If a child shares food with friends and gives books to his peers, he will say, "It's a good boy that you care so much about children!" " "Parents' attention, praise and encouragement will greatly stimulate children's desire to live in harmony with their peers for a long time, and urge children to cherish and consolidate friendship.