Because when children first started kindergarten, they began to cry and splash water. Some children even said to their mothers before going to kindergarten, "Mom, buy a kindergarten on Taobao!" " Place an order now! "
For this reason, many treasure mothers are very upset, and they will feel that it is good to go to kindergarten, play every day, and worry about nothing. How can such a simple and logical thing be so difficult for children!
In fact, for children, staying at home for eight months or even longer has already produced a certain dependence on their parents. Even if they return to the familiar environment, they will still have some discomfort, especially for the baby who just entered kindergarten. When they face strange teachers and children alone, they will inevitably have some anxiety.
This kind of emotion is also called "separation anxiety", so children entering the park is also equivalent to the period of psychological weaning. As parents, they should not only help their children to make material preparations before going to kindergarten, but also pay attention to their emotional and psychological preparations.
So how do we guide children? In fact, this is a difficult problem for many parents and children. If parents only guide by preaching, then most children don't understand and hate kindergarten more and more, but if they use picture books, then children will understand it easily.
Because children are the most sensitive to stories and pictures when they are young, there are many things that parents preach in picture books, but children don't understand them, and these contents are more understandable in pictures, and what I recommend to treasure moms today is the picture books that our family Lele saw, which can alleviate the anxiety of entering the park.
This set of books was written by Mijika, a writer of children's literature. This set of books mainly describes what problems children will encounter in kindergarten and how to solve them. Stories can not only make children adapt to kindergarten life quickly, but also cultivate children's good habits and emotional intelligence, thus making children fall in love with kindergarten.
This book has 8 educational themes and 36 audio stories:
"I Love Kindergarten" tells how to eliminate the baby's fear of kindergarten, establish feelings with kindergarten, fall in love with your own kindergarten, make kindergarten attract baby and attract the worry of crying baby.
"I have a good personality" can help children learn to control their emotions, learn to make friends, not intentionally hurt others, and vent their emotions reasonably.
"I can do it well" can help parents learn to affirm their baby, help their children in time, have confidence in themselves and never wet their pants again.
"Develop good habits" can help babies learn not to be picky about food, cherish food, like to eat vegetables, learn to brush their teeth every day and arrange their own nutritious meals reasonably.
"I will express it well" can help the baby to correctly handle interpersonal relationships in kindergarten, cultivate the baby's collective consciousness, be polite to friends, not be overbearing, and laugh is more lovely than cry.
"Teacher I Love You" tells the story that children cultivate feelings for teachers and build trust in them. Teachers are not terrible. If you have difficulties, you can ask teachers for help and learn to talk to them.
In "I won't do these things", let the baby not fight with children, don't eat indiscriminately, don't destroy public goods, don't play with dangerous goods, and don't cry for his own purposes.
"Good boy loves everyone" can make children understand the usefulness of being sorry, be polite to friends, and don't joke about other people's shortcomings or lie.
This set of books is the first set of picture books about kindergartens founded by our family Lele. I still remember when I just told Lele that I was going to kindergarten, Lele was very sad. Even if she didn't go to kindergarten, she would cry every morning. Every time she was kind, Kororo just wouldn't listen.
Later, I found various picture books and finally chose this one. The whole set of books consists of 8 volumes, including 36 audio stories, which can help parents solve the problem of children entering the park and eliminate their fear of entering the park. At the same time, children can quickly adapt to kindergarten life and fall in love with kindergarten.
Why can this set of books eliminate children's fear of entering the park? It is because this book covers all kinds of problems that the baby may encounter after entering the park, helping the baby rehearse in advance and do a good job in psychological construction.
Why can the baby adapt to the life in kindergarten quickly? Because this picture book has many stories close to kindergarten life, it can make children adapt quickly.
Why can we cultivate children's good habits? Because it includes emotional intelligence training and behavior management education, it can cultivate children's good habits.
This is also a picture book I carefully selected for Lele, because the content of this book is very professional, true and comprehensive.
Specialties: This set of books is carefully compiled by preschool experts according to the psychological characteristics and developmental characteristics of babies aged 2-3. Stories, children's songs and games are more suitable for babies to read.
Reality: The stories are all real scenes close to the kindergarten, which truly presents a series of situations that appeared at the beginning of the baby's kindergarten, eliminates the baby's strangeness to the kindergarten, and helps parents and babies prepare for the kindergarten.
Comprehensive: This set of books includes safety awareness, self-care, good habits, social interaction, psychological preparation, etc., which can comprehensively improve the baby's ability and reduce parents' worries.
In fact, before the baby enters the park, many parents' anxiety will be passed on to their children, so parents should not be anxious in front of their children, let alone aggravate their anxiety. Before entering the park, parents should relax, read picture books and go out to play with their children, and cherish the short and beautiful time before the baby enters the park.