Understand children's needs
Know what children want to do outside school. What do you want? Give what you can, and let him do what you can. Tell him why he can't do what he can't give or let him do. If not, let him hit the wall himself, and he will know what to do when he hits the wall.
Please tutor
If the same child agrees with reading, but doesn't understand the knowledge in the book, on the one hand, enhance the child's self-confidence to reduce his subconscious resistance; On the other hand, please have a tutor.
Equal communication
You should argue with him on an equal footing and avoid the theory that "you have something to say and I have something to say". Of course, if you can't compare with him and others in theory, you might as well find another way to learn. After all, with this kind of mood, you can't read well. If you mess with him, you may make him hate you for life. Might as well just stock up.