In today's increasingly close interpersonal communication, have you seriously considered: Is this the best way to communicate? Is this what I want to achieve? Is this really what I want to say? In this rapidly changing era, the communication Bible will take you to meet all communication challenges.
The author Nicky Stanton is an outstanding consultant, who has been engaged in communication skills training, and has rich practical experience and a solid theoretical foundation. The communication bible is easy to read and the skills are practical and effective, which helps you solve all the problems in communication easily.
In the book, questions and exercises are carefully designed and introspective, which are used to test readers' understanding of what they have read and make you really apply what you have learned.
2. The art of communication: The author of this book has invested many years of professional experience, making this book the best reader of interpersonal relationship theory and practice. This book is in-depth, extensive and complete, especially the views on gender and culture run through the book.
This book is divided into three parts: looking at people in, looking at people out, and looking at people. Looking at People focuses on the communication factors related to oneself, briefly introduces the essence of interpersonal relationship, emphasizes the role of self in communication, and analyzes the importance of perception and emotion in communication. "Looking at the outside world" focuses on the factors related to the communication object, analyzes the characteristics of language and non-language, and emphasizes the importance of listening; Looking at People focuses on the relationship dynamics, emphasizing the importance of the relationship, the intimacy and distance in the relationship, how to improve the communication atmosphere, and the forms and handling methods of interpersonal conflicts.
3. Psychology and Life: As a mature textbook with rich educational ideas and unique teaching methods, all the elements in the original, such as more than 600 words of vocabulary and explanations, more than 2,000 references, and nearly 1 0,000 titles and subject indexes, are very valuable for teaching, research and learning. This Chinese translation is finished.
Psychology and Life is a textbook used by Stanford University for many years, and it is also a classic textbook popularized by many universities in the United States. It is recommended by ETS as the main reference book for GRE psychology special examination, and it is also the teaching material selected for "General Psychology" courses in many universities across the country. This textbook is fluent, easy to understand and goes deep into life. It links psychological theory and knowledge with people's daily life and work, making it an excellent reading for the general public to understand psychology and themselves.
Please stop trying in vain: the scientific and practical tools and methods provided in the book. They are all displayed through vivid mind maps. Practice well with the follow-up exercises of each article. Eventually, it will completely subvert a person's past thinking cognition. So that great changes have taken place in work and life.
Without talent, success comes from continuous and effective efforts.
Stop trying in vain and let your efforts achieve something.
Help those who have worked hard for a long time and still have no success, find the right direction of efforts, and make life less detours.
Many times, we are not trying, but we haven't found the right way to try. This book expounds in detail the correct mode of efforts from the aspects of discovering talents, improving ability, choosing platforms and returning to self. The methods and ideas about hard work mentioned in the book can be used to analyze most problems we encounter in life, study and work.
5. Learn to ask questions: The book is rigorous, easy to understand, close to reality and highly instructive. It is well received by readers and regarded as one of the "most successful" books in the United States to guide critical thinking. The seventh edition has been published so far.
The author of this book applies the latest research results in the field of critical thinking and lists a large number of examples in scientific research and daily life to teach people how to raise, think, judge and solve problems rationally, logically and critically.
6. Non-violent communication: As a good person who abides by the law, perhaps we never thought about being involved in "violence". However, if we pay a little attention to the way of talking in real life and carefully experience the different feelings that various ways of talking give us, we will certainly find that some words are really hurtful! Verbal duty, ridicule, denial, preaching, random interruption, refusal to respond, and random output of evaluations and conclusions bring us emotional and spiritual trauma, even more painful than physical injury. These unintentional or intentional language violence make people become indifferent, alienated and hostile. . .
7. Key Dialogue: This book analyzes the common blind spots in communication in detail, and provides many skills of instant dialogue, listening and action, supplemented by richness. ...
You must have met the following situations:
Put forward your carefully designed plan to the boss, but it was splashed with cold water.
Ask subordinates to work overtime, and subordinates are silent.
Talking about "increasing revenue and reducing expenditure" with family members just goes in one ear and out the other.
Ask neighbors to abide by public morality, but the other side still goes its own way.
Ask your partner to be romantic, but the other half is still like a log.
Ask friends to pay back the money, and friends always find various excuses to shirk it. When you encounter these situations, are you silent, sharp criticism or angry? Don't feel discouraged, because most people, like you, are either tongue-tied and don't know how to deal with the "critical moment" that is difficult to solve but will have a great impact on their lives, or they have solved it in a tough way, but left an unpleasant shadow in their hearts.
Now you don't have to worry! Key conversations will help you use all kinds of communication skills, solve all kinds of problems in life, achieve invincible career and have a happier life.
8. The most popular book teaching conversation skills in the world. Most people think that some people are born with the gift of speaking, while others are not. In fact, there is no such thing as a gift for speaking. A good talker only knows some simple skills that anyone can learn. Using the skills taught in this book, your success will be beyond your expectation!
9. Difficult dialogue: Douglas Si Tong, an American communication expert who participated in the negotiations on the eve of apartheid in South Africa and the 1980 Iraqi hostage incident, worked hard with members of the world-famous "Harvard Negotiating Team" for 15 years and consulted thousands of times, forging a powerful weapon to solve the top communication problem-crossing the highest peak in communication, that is, "high".
In this classic bestseller of the new york Times list, you will learn step by step through rich and extremely life-like cases:
How to start a difficult conversation without any precautions?
● How to grasp the difficult "implication"?
● How to respond to frontal attacks and accusations?
● Break the invisible structure hidden in every difficult conversation.
When you break through the most difficult communication, what are you afraid of not talking about?
10. Critical thinking: At this stage of thinking development, many problems in our lives are caused by poor thinking ability, but we don't realize it. We believe that our beliefs are true and reliable, and our decision is reasonable. But this is far from the truth. . .