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How should parents guide the first-grade children who are addicted to an extracurricular book?
I am a baby-sitter for two children. My family Dabao liked to watch Ma Xiaotiao when he was in the first grade. Now in the fifth grade, he still wants to read comics more than words. Sometimes he reads detective books. I reminded him occasionally, but I didn't force him to stop him. It is good for children in grade one to have the habit of reading, and more importantly, they have the interest in reading. Don't forbid it, guide it appropriately.

Never forbid children to like it.

It is very important to cultivate children's interest in reading in the first grade. If parents forbid or nag too much, it will bring great influence to children. Can it be simply banned? Children are in the growth stage, with strong curiosity and weak self-control. The more books parents don't read, the more curious their children will be and the more they want from you. If you visit him at his home, he may take it to school to watch it secretly.

The rebound brought by suppression and prohibition is even more terrible. Just like Dayu's flood control, guidance is right. In other words, it is better to improve children's immunity than to be afraid of their illness and try to put them in a sterile environment. Therefore, parents should be a guide, lead their children to swim proudly in the ocean of books, master the curriculum, filter harmful substances, infiltrate the scientific reading concept, and cultivate their children's discriminating ability.

How to guide children to read?

The best way to guide children to learn is for parents to study with their children. Children like rice rolls, parents watch them together, and then we discuss the contents and gains of the book. Then recommend new books to children. Or children like to read books like Journey to the West when they are young.

Parents and children studying together can also increase parent-child affection and common language.

Parents can tell more topics and stories of other books in front of their children to attract them and arouse their curiosity. For example, if children want to watch Romance of the Three Kingdoms, they will deliberately communicate with their families about Zhuge Liang's plan, how to succeed and so on. Or have a story that you don't understand, ask the child to attract his interest.

There is a mother whose children only read one kind of book. She always wanted her children to read in many ways, and then she came up with a good idea. I bought some books, then I went home and wrapped them in front of the children, telling them not to move. She finally bought them for her friends and never touched them. And put it in a so-called secret place. Looking for another chance to leave, I really fell in love with the book my mother bought. But I dare not say that I have read it, so I asked my mother if I could buy two for myself. My mother said I can't for the time being, because it's hard to buy. We'll talk later. After a few days of procrastination, children are of course precious to hard-won books.

The most important thing in reading is to respect children's interest in reading, set aside time for children to read, and visit bookstores or libraries with children. Give children more choices. A friend is interesting. Every time he works overtime, he puts his children in the bookstore and tells them not to run around and pick them up after work. Slowly, children fall in love with reading and have more choices.