Parents always miss the time when they grew up with their children on the grounds of busy work, thinking that earning more material is a sign of loving their children. In fact, the best love is companionship. Even if you just chat with children or play games, you can seize the opportunity to better enter their psychological world. This also paves the way for becoming friends with children and better communication in the future. Of course, if we can take our children out for a walk, it will be more conducive to the cultivation of their emotional intelligence. I believe that most parents have already started to take action.
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First, the library?
It has become a mainstream trend to let children develop the habit of reading. Since kindergarten, there have been parent-child reading courses. Reading can not only increase children's knowledge reserves, but also broaden their horizons, and even the pattern will continue to grow in reading.
If you are worried that your child doesn't like reading, you can take him to the library more, because the atmosphere here is more suitable for reading. Everyone who walks into the library is wandering in the world of books, and children will be infected.
Second, parks.
There are always parents who complain that their children are introverted, do not like to communicate with others, and spend most of their time at home. In the final analysis, it is because parents usually have too little time to take their children out, so it is best to take them to a crowded place like a park. Here, children can meet many peers and start their friendship.
As long as you have the opportunity to meet new friends, your child's personality will gradually change. Parents can teach more communication skills from the side to help their children take the first step bravely.
Third, tourism.
If conditions permit, you can take your children out for a trip. Of course, distance doesn't matter. Traveling is to hope that children can see different customs, let them perceive different cultures and help them broaden their horizons. What is important is that children's minds will become more mature and their life experiences will be richer.
The so-called study of thousands of books is really not as practical as the trip to Wan Li Road. The companionship of parents during the journey will also enrich the children's spiritual world.
As long as a child's emotional intelligence is exercised, he will become the smartest person in the future. Because children with high emotional intelligence will get unanimous praise wherever they go.