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How to be yourself in college and not be affected by the environment?
After entering the university, we will find that there is no teacher behind us to spur us, and the students are scattered in the classroom, so it is difficult to find the cohesion of the class and maintain the desire for knowledge. The university is such a free and relaxed environment. Four years later, some people fell down, some people were admitted to ideal graduate students, and some people found good jobs. Choosing how to spend every day will affect your future direction, so how to avoid losing yourself and being influenced by the environment in a mixed campus?

The most important thing is to find your goal, what kind of person you want to be, and how to achieve it through a series of practices. Our goal can be a semester or a month. Too long-term and unrealistic goals are easy to forget. For example, preparing for CET-4 or CET-6, or taking part-time jobs. In short, don't do nothing all day, and do something meaningless behind others' backs for the sake of so-called gregarious. After a period of persistence, you will find that your progress is very obvious, and the most taboo is to be eager for success, and give up halfway without reaching the predetermined goal. Please remember that all good things are worth waiting for.

After finding your own goal, you must think about why you want to set this goal, whether you like to do it, hope to achieve something, or just want to pass the time or imitate others, and retreat once you encounter difficulties. A strong goal must be supported by a belief, otherwise it is most likely to give up halfway. If you really can't find a reason, then think about how much sense of accomplishment you will bring if you complete it smoothly. People always have to find some reasons for themselves.

To be yourself needs a calm and calm heart, not to be tempted and influenced by the outside world. At first, it's hard for you to imagine the whole process of a person's goal, but when you do, you will find that you can. There is no distinction between good and bad universities. The only thing that can change us is a belief in the urgent pursuit of Excellence.