Do a good job in self-review +0000 words 1
I always like reading inspirational books, which can not only wash away the dust and baggage accumulated in my heart due to the pressure and fast pace of modern life, but also relax and sublimate my mind, so that I can love life more, face the ups and downs of life more firmly and appreciate the true meaning of life more sincerely. There is only one life, shouldn't we be the best ourselves? Only in this way will we have no regrets when we look back on the long road of life.
The wonderful thing about the book "Be the Best Yourself" is that it helps you to better define this goal and this process. This is the charm of a good book: it can heal your wounds, answer your doubts, and give you the courage and determination to get back on the road when you are confused and hesitant.
First of all, we should have a good attitude towards life and philosophy of life. Attitude determines everything, our own thoughts, our own decisions, our own actions, our own feelings, which in turn determine our own lives. The book says, "Have a positive and optimistic attitude and face life optimistically. Have the courage to change what can be changed, have the heart to accept what cannot be changed, and have the wisdom to distinguish the difference between the two. " A few short sentences tell the true meaning of a happy life and are true to yourself. Although simple, it needs wisdom and courage to implement.
Secondly, self-positioning and self-knowledge are very important, which should be said to be the most important first step in life. If we can't even recognize ourselves, how can we know others, know the world and create the world? If you feel confused and miserable, you may lose yourself, or you may not consider your inner needs, but it is still deeply hidden in our hearts, calling us and longing for our attention. With a good self-orientation, you can set goals that suit you. When Zhou Yu was angry with Zhuge Liang, he didn't come into contact with this truth and didn't give himself a good position. Not because he was born in Sri Lanka, but because he was born in Sri Lanka, there is a reason for light. There is no comparability between people, and everyone is unique. Isn't Yu happy to find his own position, interest and direction of efforts?
This book expounds several elements of success: positivity, sympathy, self-confidence, introspection, courage and mind, including what it says: As long as it is useful and beneficial to others, you will feel happy and happy. This is actually the embodiment of a person's noble quality and accomplishment. Virtue can carry life, happiness and success. Only when a person has kindness for others and the society, can he not be confined to the small world of self-narrowness, let go of things and enjoy inner enrichment, peace and harmony. The definition of success is not to get rich overnight, not to get ill-gotten gains, not to take advantage in some way, but to be narrow and temporarily satisfied with psychology rather than success. Success means being the best you can be, being yourself who is beneficial to others, and the joy and happiness you get from it is the most beautiful experience.
The word "best" means that I am better, more confident and more enterprising today and tomorrow than yesterday, that is, I keep climbing the ladder of my own success and getting closer to the success platform of life step by step!
Do your best. After reading 1000 words 2
One year's college life is coming to an end. Looking back on this year, life is still full, but I often feel very tired, and my heart is often inexplicable and even at a loss.
Although you have lived alone all your life, you still can't adapt and handle everything with ease. Every time I go home and leave, I am always reluctant to go. There is always a sense of fear at the thought of embarking on a journey alone. At home. How easy it is to live. I feel like a bolt from the blue at home. Now you can occasionally play a lady's temper, vent your anger like a sister, and even contradict your parents' concern.
You don't have to learn those social skills at home. Everyone can honestly believe that all hardships and unreasonable troubles can be poured into this tree hole, because home is a cooperative and interactive group, and the closest people have a broad mind to tolerate you.
Outside, in the face of all kinds of people, we must pay attention to our words and deeds and be nervous about everything. It seems that there are always invisible eyes watching you. You must learn interpersonal skills, some things are confined to your own mind, and some words are confined to yourself.
Although I met a lot of people and made a few good friends during my one-year college life, my classmates' comments were not bad, but I was so insecure that I slowly walked into a closed circle and made my heart unable to be free.
I often have no ego, dare not have my own thoughts, positions and actions, and always have concerns and worries before doing things. I always have to think first: "If I do this, what will my classmates think of me? Will this reduce my image and even arouse my classmates' resentment? "
I got up early in the morning and wanted to get up early, but my roommates were still sleeping, so I didn't dare to get up at once. I'm afraid they will say, "Why do you get up so early?" This is a university. "I'm afraid to wake them up and make them angry. So I lay in bed with my eyes open and waited impatiently for the time to pass. When I finally couldn't help it, I got up slowly and softly and packed everything as quickly and lightly as possible. Sometimes, just because my roommate turned over, I looked up for a long time and left the dormitory in a hurry without cleaning up.
In class, I obviously wanted to stand up and speak, but when I got up the courage to stand up, I was timidly and firmly fixed in my seat. I'm afraid my classmates will say that I like to show off. I have something on hand, and my classmates drag you shopping. I always dare not refuse, but let precious time slip away in anxiety and helplessness. I feel that my thoughts and opinions are so different and reasonable, so I have been afraid to speak out boldly.
A year of college life, everything is so different from middle school. Here is freedom, where you have to find your own direction again, set your own goals and choose your own life path. And I seem a little overwhelmed, a little overwhelmed. People around us live different lives and take different roads. Some people say that college is no longer for studying, but should have fun and meet a few people. Others say that college is mainly for studying.
Every time I see my brothers and sisters, I want to ask them about their life and attitude towards the university, and I want to find a model. Often, because I am at a crossroads and have no choice, I go online to find some celebrity information and copy their college life.
But how can someone else's path suit you? My feet are still comfortable in my own shoes. Slowly, I was too sensitive and worried about my image in the hearts of my classmates. I'm depressed and overwhelmed. Now I seem to be locked in a dark cage, not made of iron or steel, but of timidity and allergies. The real public opinion of others or the words and deeds of others imagined by myself always haunt my ears, stinging my sensitive and fragile mind, and I have become an indecisive person. I often feel helpless, weak and incompetent. Completed the new consciousness in Ba Jin's works. I think if I was born in that era, maybe I was weaker and more miserable than Chueh-hsin.
On the campus of the university, I lived a relatively free and independent life in some complicated interpersonal communication, but because of my boring face and vanity, because I adhered to a clear goal, full of confidence and full of energy, I left gently.
One day, I saw Mr. Kai-fu Lee's "Be the Best Oneself" with six striking Chinese characters, which made my eyes shine and my heart relaxed again. I have found the devil who has been ruling me and torturing me-am I more frustrated and tired?
"Being the best self" made me reflect, and "actively living for myself" made me understand how to take my university road well. Why should we care about the way people around us walk, why should we care about the words and deeds of people around us, stick to deep-seated goals, make great strides forward, enrich our work and life, and always take the road of our own choice in order to be happy and successful.
There is more than one road to success, and there is more than one standard of success. Everyone has his own unique characteristics and everyone's success is unique. It is not feasible to try to imitate and copy other people's unique success model. Why not find your own characteristics and choose your own lifestyle?
Today, I really realized that I live for myself. Why let others lead you by the nose? Because I am a contemporary youth, I have many qualities, because I am eager to get a wonderful, happy life and success. Have your own ideas, not afraid of criticism, and do things according to your own choices. When things were successful, other people's arguments naturally subsided. Even if they don't succeed, you do what you want, and you practice your own opinions. Then, you can only choose to go your own way and let others talk! Only in this way can we have no regrets and be happy.
Stick to your faith and keep yourself. Only in this way can you not lose your way in life and paint your life with bright colors.
Do your best. After reading 1000 words 3
Recently, the bureau carried out reading exchange activities, and I also participated after work. The value of a good book lies not only in the instant pleasure of reading, but also in opening the door to a new world for people. Do your best to explain the secret of success with meticulous logic and real cases, guide and convince readers with encouraging tone and many interesting and valuable things that happened to the author, and slowly let readers "have the courage to change things that can be changed, have the mind to accept things that cannot be changed, and have the wisdom to distinguish the difference between the two", and guide young people from values, attitudes, behaviors, habits and personalities, so that you can benefit for life.
In reading this book, I can't help comparing myself with it. Inadvertently, I realized a spiritual baptism and a good introspection.
First of all, we should know ourselves more clearly, find out our own shortcomings, constantly examine ourselves and plan ourselves, so as to do ourselves well and leave no regrets.
To be the best you can be, you should be optimistic about life, have the values of honesty, face your work with a positive attitude, strive to keep your word, live up to the expectations and trust of others, and enhance your sense of self-discipline.
To be the best of yourself is to be better than yourself. Proceed from reality, proceed from yourself, "tailor-made" according to different personal situations, and do the best you can, instead of doing unrealistic things beyond your ability.
Do your best, don't be eager for quick success, cheat each other, and harm others by hook or by crook; It is to have a clear and noble ideal and show your unique and connotative self.
To be your best self is not to set your goals too high and force yourself to achieve unattainable achievements; It is to have an ideal that conforms to your own reality, strive for perfection in what you can, start from scratch, step by step, and take every step of life.
To be the best of yourself, you don't have to make great achievements and become the object of admiration; We should base ourselves on our jobs, love our jobs and make unremitting efforts.
Everyone has his own place. We don't have to pursue those distant dreams, just be ourselves and be our best.
I am very grateful to Dr. Kai-fu Lee for this book, and I also thank him for summing up his life experience and life course to share with us. It is said that reading is beneficial, and I have read his works carefully, from which I have found confidence in life, positive and optimistic attitude and courage to try. Actively trying, although not necessarily successful, but giving up is equal to failure. In the process of continuous efforts and constant attempts, there will always be some unexpected opportunities, and maybe hope will appear at this time. In work and life, it is also very important to always be prepared and keep an enterprising attitude. If you give up your efforts before you start, you will lose all opportunities; Losing an opportunity means losing the hope of success, which runs counter to our original goal. This is extremely undesirable.
People can be ordinary, but not mediocre! Li Bai said, "Since God has given talents, let them be employed!" Do your best, constantly exert your advantages and potential, surpass yourself and make yourself do better.