Go out and be young.
1, brothers are friends, brothers respect each other, brothers are in harmony, and filial piety is the center.
Explain that brothers should love brothers and sisters, and brothers and sisters should respect brothers; Brothers and sisters can live in harmony, parents are naturally happy, and filial piety is also among them.
2, property is light, resentment is born, words are patient, and anger is furious.
You explain that money is light and righteousness is heavy, and resentment will not arise; Verbally tolerant, anger will naturally disappear.
3, or eat, or sit, old people first, young people later.
Explain whether you eat or drink, sit or walk; Old people should be given priority, and young people should be behind.
4, long call people, that is, on behalf of the call, people are not here, have arrived.
Explain that elders should call and inform others immediately; If that person is not here, or can't find that person, you should inform your elders in time.
5, say elders, don't swear, for elders, don't look.
Explain that you should not call your elders by their first names; In front of respected elders, you should be modest and polite. Seeing the respected elders can help them, but don't deliberately show off your talents and deliberately show that you are better than the respected elders.
6, Lu Yulong, sick, silent for a long time, step down.
Explain that when you meet your elders on the road, you should greet and salute respectfully; If the elders don't talk, stand back respectfully and wait for the elders to leave.
7. Get on the horse, get off the bus, stay still and walk more than 100 steps.
Explain that if you meet your elders, you should dismount or get off the bus to greet them. Wait until the old man leaves a hundred paces before continuing.
8. Old people stand, young people don't sit, old people sit, and life is sitting.
Explain that when the elders are standing, the younger generation should not sit. Specifically, the younger generation should not sit down before the elders sit down; When everyone is sitting, the elders will stand up and the younger generation will stand up; When everyone is sitting, another elder comes in, and the younger generation should immediately stand up and show respect. After the elders sit down, the younger generation can't sit down until the elders signal themselves to sit down.
9. Don't humble yourself before respecting your elders.
Explain that when talking to elders, or talking to others in front of elders, be quiet, not loud; But the voice is too low, whispering, and it is not appropriate for the elders to hear clearly.
10, progress is inevitable, retreat is inevitable, ask why, and do not move.
Explain to your elders that you have to move forward quickly; When returning, it's only polite to slow down; When the elders ask questions, they should stand up and answer, and pay attention. They shouldn't look around.
1 1. If you work for your father, like father, like brother.
Explain parents and grandparents, such as adoptive father, uncle, uncle, father-in-law, grandfather, grandfather, great-grandfather, great-grandfather, etc. You should be as filial as your own father; Treat brothers, such as cousins, cousins and brothers, with the same love and respect as your own brothers.
Extended data:
1, introduction of the work
The book is divided into five parts, which specifically lists the rules and regulations that disciples should abide by in terms of staying at home, going out, treating others and studying. Disciple Rules, originally named Xun, is a three-character poem written by a famous scholar and educator in Qing Dynasty, and later renamed Disciple Rules.
Its content adopts the sixth article of "writing while learning" in The Analects of Confucius: "Disciples are filial when they enter, and brothers when they leave (t \, the same as Xun), sincerely believe, love and care for others. Have spare capacity to study literature, three words and one sentence, two sentences and one rhyme. Full text ***360 sentences, 1080 words.
Disciples Rules is natural and smooth, unpretentious and far-reaching, and occupies an important position in Qing culture.
2. Introduction by the author
Li Yuxiu (1647- 1729), Zi Qian,No. Hua San. A native of Zhouzhuang Village, Longxing Town, Xinjiang County, Shanxi Province, was born in Shunzhi period of Qing Dynasty and died in Yongzheng period at the age of 83. Famous scholar and educator in the early Qing Dynasty.
I have only been a scholar in my life, and my main activity is teaching. He wrote Xun according to the traditional requirements and his own teaching practice.
His other works include The True and False of Four Books, The Interpretation of Four Books, The Invention of Learning Yong, Accidental Notes of Studying in University, Song Rufu's Articles and Poems of Narcissus, which are stored in Shanxi Library and Peking University Library respectively.
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