First, cultivate children's polite language.
Modern parents attach great importance to their children's intellectual development, but in the process of their children's growth, there is also an extremely important content, which is to cultivate their children to have good living habits from an early age. Gorky said: "Language is the clothes of all things and thoughts." In the process of raising their children, modern parents should pay attention to educating their children to learn polite expressions from the stage of babbling. In the process of parenting, parents should let their children learn to speak kindly, behave gracefully, be lively and generous, and develop good habits of sincerity and generosity. Children's earliest education is to imitate the people who have the most contact in their living environment. Imitation is the earliest way for children to learn. For children, parents' behaviors such as how to treat people, how to do things and how to learn are vivid teaching materials without words. Therefore, parents' good habits are an important prerequisite for cultivating children's good habits, and parents' daily behavior habits are the best model for educating children.
Parents should be cautious in their daily behavior and influence and infect their children with their own role models. Respecting elders is a traditional virtue. To educate children to respect their elders, parents should first respect the elderly, edify their young minds and learn to respect others from an early age. Teach children to say "hello" or "hello" when they meet teachers or classmates at school, and at the same time smile back; Smile and thank others for their help; When others accidentally offend you, smile to show understanding; Respect, love and care for the elderly, respect foreigners, people in difficulty or disabled people, be polite to them, and give them help and convenience as much as possible.
Second, cultivate children to live in harmony with others.
Children's future growth and life are inseparable from the collective living environment. Parents should educate and guide their children to communicate and get along with their partners. Let children have a sense of collective honor, encourage children to help others, do things for others or for the collective, and encourage and praise them in time. At the same time, children and classmates are required to unite and help each other, educate children not to ask teachers or classmates for advice in their studies, not to discriminate against students with poor grades, to help them in their studies, and to support children to lend their toys and books to other children, so that children can have a collective consciousness in a subtle way, learn to consider other people's feelings when things happen, and not be self-centered everywhere.
Third, cultivate children's work habits and let them start from small things.
Modern parents often overprotect their children's upbringing, or do things for their children everywhere in their lives. In this way, children may lose the opportunity to do things by themselves, and then lose the consciousness of doing things by themselves. Work habits are also behavioral habits that should be cultivated. Because of curiosity, children like to do things by themselves, such as eating, dressing and wearing shoes, helping to fold clothes and collecting toys.
Some parents like to live in this place and do everything neatly. Over time, "parents have the ability, and their children are naive." If children lose the opportunity to learn and participate, they will naturally think that these should be done by their parents, and gradually become dependent, resulting in poor self-care ability of some children. Without their parents, they can't eat well and wear well. This is the result of not forming good habits in the early days. Self-reliance in life is an important part of cultivating children's behavior habits. Let him brush his teeth, wash his hands, wash his face and take a bath from an early age, and form his own habit of self-reliance. We should educate our children to do their own thing well and not to cause trouble to others; Cherish the fruits of other people's labor, and don't do anything that destroys them.
Fourth, cultivate children's hygiene habits.
In modern families, children are very educated and often buy whatever they like, regardless of others, which is not good for their growth and development. Pay attention to let children develop good eating habits, eat on time, don't overeat, eat less snacks, and don't be partial to food. In particular, we should pay attention to cultivating children's healthy eating concept from an early age, so that children can develop good habits of eating well and balancing nutrition from an early age. It is also necessary to educate children to pay attention to hygiene, not spitting, not littering, keeping clothes clean and tidy, not doodling, washing hands and feet frequently, and taking a bath frequently.
Fifth, cultivate children's good study habits.
According to the observation of American education experts, if children's learning ability is not fully developed in the pre-school stage, then children are likely to have low learning ability and can't keep up with the progress of school learning in the future. Parents should not only attach importance to their children's early education, but also stimulate their children's interest in learning and reading, which is very beneficial to cultivate their good study habits. The first and second grades of primary school are the formative stage, so children should gradually develop habits such as resting on time, getting up on time and studying on time to meet the tense learning needs in the future. The role of parents as role models should not be underestimated. Parents are children's first teachers and the first role models for children to imitate.
Parents' words and deeds, ideas and cultural qualities always affect their children. It can be said that we can always find the shadow of parents from our children. Parents should like learning, be good at learning, read books and newspapers, set an example, set practical learning goals based on their own behavior habits, and then according to their children's age characteristics. Through bit by bit training, children can develop good habits of loving reading and learning, which will have an impact on their lives.
Children's good behavior habits are consciously cultivated by adults, and once they are cultivated, they are not easy to change. Therefore, parents should fully realize that good behavior habits are an important part of children's education. To cultivate children's good habits, we might as well start with the simplest and most basic behaviors in life. "World affairs, will be fine; When the world is in trouble, it will become easy. " Let children start from childhood and become independent, confident, responsible, willing to learn and good at getting along with others.