In fact, the sisters in the same dormitory all know that we have never slept in the same bed, but we are too close on weekdays. We mainly hit it off in character, and girls have a lot of inconvenience in life, so they just make friends with each other. Some people may be wrong.
As for not wanting to fall in love, it may be influenced by those loveaholics in the same dormitory. They change objects like clothes. They are diligent, take their feelings seriously and are always hurt. Anyway, they cried a lot, either dumping others or being dumped.
Xiaohui and I seem to be very rational, and we always feel that falling in love in college is unreliable and uncertain. When I graduated, it was impossible to get together because of regional differences. So we decided to give the boys a red light. It's not that nobody chased us, but that we didn't give them a chance.
Xiaohui usually listens to me, and I am like her leader. To tell the truth, I didn't talk about friends at that time, but I finally gave up the idea for various reasons. The most important thing was that my parents disagreed and said that it was useless for girls to read so many books. In this way, in the third year of high school, I relaxed myself and naturally had friends of the opposite sex.
My boyfriend and I are fellow villagers in the same district, and our majors are different. At that time, he was a gifted scholar in the school, quite famous, and often produced some tofu blocks. He is honest, at least he has never heard of an affair at school.
Later, I got to know him and found him more and more trustworthy. I may think that everyone wants to go back to their hometown and have the same interests and ideals in the future, so we will soon get closer and have a substantive relationship between men and women, which is inseparable from each other.
Obviously, since I have a boyfriend, my relationship with Xiaohui can't be together all the time. During that time, she was really depressed. Anyway, we talked frankly about everything. She also complained that I didn't have enough friends and deliberately snubbed her. At that time, I also suggested that she find a boyfriend, and she also had one, but it was not suitable. We broke up within two months, and I was very worried about her. Women's private words (//Sifang dialect)
The conditions in her family are not very good. I understand her prudence and living habits, but boys generally don't appreciate her restraint and meanness. Later, I gradually cultivated her lively. She has really changed a lot.
After graduation, we will be separated, and we will cry all over our arms. After all, it will be unbearable for four years of good sisters to suddenly separate. My boyfriend and I are going back. On the one hand, we still have some relations at home. My uncle promised to arrange work for me. On the other hand, boyfriends have better family conditions. His family lives in the city, and his parents are still working leaders.
Before graduation, we talked about the future development, and he said that he had mentioned me to his family. I also hope to get my consent, the work arrangement is smooth, and his parents intend to let us get married. I say we take it step by step. Anyway, after a year of emotional foundation, we both have feelings for each other.
Do temporary work when you go back. Not long after, he informed me that his parents promised to arrange for us to work together in state-owned enterprises. That will be the good thing I dream of, and my parents will be very happy, so I don't have to worry about my work anymore.
I am happier every day with him. In a few days, we all went to work smoothly and the salary was quite good. Another year passed and we got married.
Xiaohui stayed in that city and she didn't want to go home. She knows that there is no way out when she goes back. Her parents are country people and can't help her. She must work hard on her own. She has done a lot of work, worked as a waiter and cashier, and now she is doing sales promotion.
Anyway, it's nothing serious. It has nothing to do with our major. She said that she only got a diploma in college, which is very difficult in reality and can't keep up with school.
We kept in touch for more than a year, and I promised to introduce her when she got a good job and let her come to our place for development. From graduation to before I got married, she came to see me twice, and I was glad to see her change. She is not as introverted as before. Maybe she has received business training and feels very mature and generous. I'm happy for her.