There are so many famous books in our country, and now there are so many good children's literature. I'm not in a hurry to read a lot to my children. Her current reading is entirely based on interest, and interest is the last teacher. Go to the bookstore. She thinks she wants to read it. I'll check it again and buy it back if I can. Generally choose classic, healthy and age-appropriate reading materials. In the past, imaginative reading was usually used. It is after I read some stories or contents with my children that I let them use their imagination and continue to tell how the characters in the stories might develop. There is no fixed pattern, the sky is vast, and now it is mainly thinking reading, that is, after reading it, we discuss the characters inside, and I talk to my children about my feelings.
During this time, my daughter volunteered to read this book [if I still have three days to see], and she finished reading it. Most parents know that this book was written by Helen Keller. From the perspective of a weak woman who is physically disabled and determined, warn people who are physically sound to cherish life, cherish the light, grasp life and care for others. Some people say that this book conquered the whole world with its lonely beauty. Before my daughter goes to bed, she and I will read for a while. Sometimes she reads with me, sometimes I read to her, and then we lie in bed and talk about our feelings for a while. Helen Keller's bravery, tenacity, research, kindness and justice greatly influenced her daughter, and what moved her was the selfless kindness and persistence of Sullivan. Recently, I took the initiative to watch the Adventures of Onions I bought before, and we also used the dialogue among the characters in our lives, which was very interesting.
I found that through parent-child reading, children's usual speaking ability and understanding ability have been significantly improved. Sometimes, she will make some things clear, and her imagination is rich, and parents and children have had good communication and exchanges.
Parent-child reading 2 book reviews are sweet and deeply loved, and the time spent reading with my daughter every day is always pleasant and satisfying.
Before going to bed every night, my daughter Ru Ru always chooses a book that she likes, and designates two stories to wait for her mother's arrival quietly, so that she can tell her story. Under the orange light, sometimes she snuggles up to me, and sometimes they sit side by side like classmates; I told her the stories in the book with deep affection, and she always listened with relish, interrupting from time to time. She knows most of the stories in the book by heart. Although each story is repeated many times, she never gets tired of listening. Sometimes I feel bored and think: Why not let her tell me? So I encouraged her to tell me the familiar story in turn. I praise and affirm them from time to time, and she is becoming more and more energetic. She will learn to speak in my tone, sometimes insert a lot of her own imagination, and finally become a picture. In this way, the stories she tells are closer to her own life and always create something that seems to be her own experience (in fact, most of them are her own imagination). This is really a great progress, and I am praising it. This situation lasted for almost two years, books were changed frequently, stories were changed frequently, children's habit of entering bookstores was gradually developed, and their interest in reading was gradually cultivated in the time before going to bed.
My daughter loves to buy books since childhood, which may be related to the family atmosphere. There are not many books at home, but in the eyes of children, there are many books. Because of work, my father and I sometimes exchange some things about teaching and reading in our spare time. She is always curious, always involved and always asks why. His father brings back a newspaper every day. The child can't read, he can only read pictures. She even looked at the pictures with interest. I prepare lessons and write lesson plans at home, and she also brings a book with her; She also helped me with a red pen when I corrected my homework; Sometimes I will pick up my textbook and look through the illustrations of the text, or find out a few simple Chinese characters she knows and read them to me. She felt great, and I praised her at the right time. Her sense of accomplishment arises spontaneously, and she is closer to books.
Every weekend, I often take her to supermarkets and bookstores, and always bring back one or two books she likes. When she got home, she couldn't wait to read for a while and forgot other things. Often when she is playing, she comes across a familiar story book that she has read, and she will calm down and watch it for a while, showing a rare concentration.
The trickle gathers into a vast expanse, guiding children to love books and study all the time in their lives. Parents' words and deeds can not be ignored. China has an old saying: subtle and natural. The same is true of reading. If parents love reading, so will their children. It's beautiful to read with children and have fun together.
Witness of parent-child reading 3 Reading is an entertainment activity that can bring infinite fun to children. At the same time, it is also a learning method for them to acquire knowledge and broaden their horizons. The earlier the better; So when my daughter was very young, I deliberately made time to study with her, and in an atmosphere full of affection between father and daughter, mother and daughter, I was intoxicated with the world of books with my children. Enjoy the happiness and happiness brought by reading together. The following is my experience and encouragement about parent-child reading:
First, what impressed me most about parent-child reading was persistence.
Our parents have to work hard every day, go home from work to do housework and so on. Even if they can accompany him to study when they are in a good mood, it is impossible to stick to it all the time! But no matter how busy you are, you still have to spare 15 to 30 minutes every day. Children won't deprive us of too much time. Reading with him every day 15 to 30 minutes is enough!
Second, create a good reading environment for children.
Let children contact books as much as possible and create a family atmosphere for reading. Family members often read books at home, regard reading as a pleasure and infect their children with their enthusiasm. At the same time, you can often exchange reading methods and experiences with your children and encourage them to repeat stories or specific contents in the book; In this way, children's interest in reading may become stronger and their reading level will gradually improve.
Third, read more stories to children and stimulate their desire to read.
Children like listening to stories. Parents can read stories to their children before going to bed at night and tell them that the stories are all in the books. If you can read a book by yourself, you can know many stories, and you will say this every time you read a story, which will arouse your child's desire to read a book. In a certain period of time, most babies never tire of hearing the same story or book and repeatedly ask to tell it again. Mom and dad must be very satisfied with this. At this time, it is the process for her to remember stories, deepen the impression of characters and understand the meaning of words. That's how my daughter likes reading. After coming home from kindergarten at night, I often read a story book by myself and ask my parents if I don't know any words.
Fourth, we should provide children with more reading opportunities and forms.
Children's reading time can't be confined to home and school, and it's not just reading. Visiting bookstores is also an important part of cultivating children's reading. There are all kinds of books in the bookstore, and children can find books they like and have never read at will. This will unconsciously increase children's knowledge.
Parent-child reading gave me a big surprise: I found that my daughter's language improved rapidly. When I was in kindergarten, teachers said that she had strong language skills and knew many words. We are glad for this, but it is slowly accumulated in daily reading, and then naturally used in life.
In short, reading can bring pleasure to children, and reading is very beneficial to children's language development, ability to understand words and ability to use language. In addition, good reading materials can enrich children's minds and broaden their horizons. I hope that through our efforts, children will have a good reading habit, thus shaping their own good personality.
Witness of parent-child reading 4. He is interested in reading. When he comes home from school or finishes his homework, he likes to read with a book in his hand, sometimes fascinated. He doesn't want to invite him to dinner or do anything else. I remember when Juanjuan was still in his mother's belly, I insisted on telling him a story every night. His family Juan likes reading now, which may have something to do with it.
Reading has been with us all our lives since the teacher taught us to read and interpret words. Whether it is to dispel doubts and seek knowledge, broaden horizons and improve quality, it starts from reading and is sublimated by reading. It can be said that reading affects people's life. Parent-child reading is the beginning of cultivating healthy and happy reading. Parent-child reading can not only enhance the emotional communication between parents and children, but also make progress in reading. In the process of reading, children will certainly have many questions, including many new words and doubts. If we can accompany them, we can answer them immediately, and the children's understanding will be deeper. We can discuss and think about some problems together, which is a kind of progress for children and parents. When children reach grade one or two, especially when they start writing, I think reading is more important. Reading can not only gain more knowledge, but also acquire and master more methods, including writing methods, which is very important for children who have just started writing. I have a deep understanding from my previous study. Therefore, developing good reading habits is very beneficial to the accumulation of knowledge, writing and language expression. Parent-child reading is the beginning of cultivating this good reading habit since childhood.
Parent-child reading, I think there are several points:
One is to accumulate a certain number of books. Especially children's favorite books, when children want to read them, they have books in their hands and don't have to look everywhere. I think it is a better way to borrow books from the library regularly. Besides ordering books for Juanjuan online, we now take Juanjuan to the Foshan Library every weekend to borrow books that he likes to read. Juanjuan will read it whenever he has time, and borrow it after reading it. Due to the restriction of the borrowing period, he was also urged to read quickly, which was really "no borrowing, no reading".
The second is to take time to accompany children to study. No matter how busy you are at work or how tired you are at home, you should spare some time to read with your child and solve the problems or puzzles encountered in the reading process for your child. When Juanjuan is studying, there are always many questions to ask or many questions to test us. For example, do you know that time can stand still? Do you know the name of the kindest alien? Did you know that light emitted by aliens can also treat diseases? Does the universe have an edge? Do you know how many planets there are in the universe? How far does light travel per second? I was really stumped by many questions. When I asked him the answer, he proudly told me that he was like a teacher. Juanjuan has been taking part in classic reading since the middle class in kindergarten. The teacher teaches some classic poems and essays every Friday night, and the next week, he asks to repeat what he has learned seven times a day. We insist on reading with him every day.
The third is to guide children to read actively. There are some messy books or vulgar books that may attract children's attention (such as Laughing at Campus). If children are fascinated by these books, I believe it is not a good thing. Therefore, it is necessary to guide children to actively read and read useful books. At the same time, the proposal also provides some classic poems, which will play a subtle role in children's understanding of classic Chinese studies and improving their cultural literacy. It is through reading the classics that Juanjuan learned a lot of new words and deepened his understanding of Chinese studies, which I believe will be helpful for his future growth and comprehensive quality improvement.
The fourth is to encourage children to write down or say what they feel after reading. Reading is like duck's back, with little gain. Once a book is settled down and read with your heart, you will gain a lot. After reading it, it is the sublimation of the harvest. It is best to write your own thoughts after reading it. If you don't have time, you can let your children speak their thoughts after reading, or repeat the main contents of the book, which will also help to consolidate the reading results. Many stories or contents that Juanjuan is telling us now come from books he read. He feels that anything new or novel will leave a deep impression on him and will be very vivid when he repeats it to us.
As a parent of a student, I am deeply touched by the parent-child reading conducted by the school, benefiting a lot, and apologizing to my daughter.
To tell the truth, my daughter has always liked reading, and many extracurricular books will deeply attract her and make her read with relish again and again. She often imitates the little hero in the text to communicate with our parents. She hopes that our parents can also walk into fairy tales and realize the stories described in the book with her. However, my mother and I always say to her in a posture and tone that is not boring: "Why do you always read these books?" Why not spend more time reading your Chinese and math books? " Alas, it pains me to think of my daughter's lost expression at that time. In fact, we ask ourselves, on the one hand, we refuse our daughter like that because we want her to spend more time reading teaching books; On the other hand, isn't it true that our parents use their work and life as an excuse to destroy their children's innocence?
In retrospect, there are many such incidents. For example, children often ask her about some characters in books, but I can't answer many questions, such as Ma Xiaotiao, Haier brothers and Xiao Doudou. Speaking of these little people, I feel at a loss.
Since last year, I have taken time to read some children's favorite books with my children, such as Saint Amethyst, Disciple's Rules, Ma Xiaotiao and Grimm's Fairy Tales. Gradually, I seem to have entered the role. The childlike scenes and words described in the book can't help reminding me of my childhood. Compared with my daughter's childhood now, I know a truth. When I was a child, I was so curious and explored about the world. How wonderful my childhood was! Why don't you read more books with your daughter now? Why not let her daughter get more childlike interest, learn more knowledge and understand more truth?
Reading with my daughter, I found that some catchy poems are now blurred, and sometimes the implied meaning between the lines can't be said casually. For example, I read Disciples Rules with my daughter, but I can't express the meaning of each sentence clearly in my mind, so I will think and analyze with my daughter and guide her to understand the meaning and truth of the poem. Every time my daughter and I know a poem, my daughter really smiles and says, haha! I see. This makes me very happy.
At the same time, I feel that my face seems to be burning secretly: what a word it is to educate and cultivate one's morality. Although we do or try to do it unconsciously in life, we should spend our whole life practicing it! At this time, I will earnestly say to my daughter, "Rui Rui, it will take us a lifetime to understand these truths." My daughter answered me with big eyes, sweet and half-understood, crisp, "well, I will, and the teacher told us so." Dad, you are great. You are just like our teacher! " Looking at my daughter's innocent expression and listening to the child's childish words, my heart is drunk!
Yes, as Miss Li said, parents and teachers are the left and right wings of children. Whether a child can fly higher and more smoothly depends on whether a pair of wings cooperate well. Isn't parent-child reading actually a platform for cooperation between teachers and parents?
Parent-child reading makes me a father who has never read thousands of books and is easily distracted by writing. This time, I am finished sighing! I trust all of them. My parents and I have our own feelings about this. The same feeling is just indescribable!
Parents read, read something!
Parent-child reading, reading is fun!
Parent-child Reading Testimonies 6 My daughter likes to read the book "Let the children make a little progress every day" since she was a child, especially "Counting Money", "Being Yourself Seriously", "Soul mate" and "Butterfly Effect of Life".
My whole family likes reading very much, so my daughter has developed a good habit of reading. Reading for half an hour after dinner every day has become the happiest time for our family.
I remember one day, my daughter went to the study after eating early. I went to see her after I finished my housework. I gently pushed open the door and saw her reading a book carefully. I stepped forward and looked down. The daughter suddenly shook and looked back in confusion. I looked at it, sighed and said, "You scared me to death!" " I asked her shyly, "What are you looking at? So serious! " She said impatiently, "Just watch Be Yourself carefully and knock on the door to let me know." I hugged her: "Mom is wrong ... Please knock at the door next time, ok?" My daughter looked at me, blinked and said, "Well, I read. Do you want to see it? " I patted her on the shoulder and said, "Look, mom has something to do later."
Reading is what my daughter likes to do, so I also support her. There are many excellent people around me. Daughters sometimes feel embarrassed and always feel that they are not as good as them. But I think my daughter is excellent. She will do what she likes and argue with me about my influence on her study, so she is already very good. As long as she doesn't give up her hobby and keep working hard, I will support her.
As a parent, all I can do is support her to do what she loves. As long as she is happy, I am happy. I used to care about grades, too, but do you think good grades must have a good future? What is more important than achievement is a person's quality and ideal, and being a good person is also a science.
Nowadays schools pay little attention to cultivating children's quality. Maybe sometimes good grades will bring a lot of aura, but when you see a person, you know which school he graduated from. What I want to see is a person's mental outlook.
Treat children as friends and have a heart-to-heart talk with them, and you will find that we can actually get along well.
Witness of parent-child reading 7 I remember a writer once said, "A family without books is like a house without windows. When I was a child, we didn't have exquisite books, but the vivid images of the ugly duckling and the little match girl in the text were deeply imprinted in my heart. From then on, reading became my greatest hobby.
I'm so busy all day after work that it's really hard to find time to study. I must put all kinds of books and magazines on the bed. Now work and family life are very stable, and the children are in the fourth grade. Reading with her in my spare time really benefited me a lot. My daughter also learned a lot in the process of reading and learned the truth, goodness and beauty in the world.
In the process of parent-child reading, I deeply realized that as a parent, to illuminate children, you must first illuminate yourself. First, you must have a fire in your heart. As a mother, the education of children is subtle, far-reaching and even beneficial for life. We are role models for children, and many times books are our teachers! When reading together, we share the joys and sorrows brought by books. The same mood brings us closer. We can be as close as friends, and I can feel her inner changes from a distance, so as to adjust her lifestyle and learning methods in time and create a good living and learning environment. In the process of accompanying my daughter to study, I will patiently answer all kinds of questions raised by her, and sometimes I will ask her to come back and let her think and express her thoughts. When our answers are different, we will discuss together and convince each other with our own views. More often, we look up the information together and find the best answer by combining the contents in the book! In this way, not only did the children accept new knowledge, but I also added questions that I was not interested in before. My children and I grew up together in the process of reading and accumulated knowledge! Give children an environment of "love and freedom, rules and equality".
"Books are the ladder of human progress", reading is a kind of enjoyment and fun, and Zhou He will continue to love reading!
Witness of parent-child reading 8 Many people say that parents are children's first teachers. But our first teacher was incompetent for many reasons. It is somewhat regrettable to think that our parents have no leisure to take care of our study and growth because of their busy lives. In order not to regret in the future, we try to spare some time to study with our children. I have had many feelings and experiences for some time. The following is a little experience I have summarized and written. I hope you are free:
First, do whatever you want.
I think, from small to large, children probably have one thing in common. That is to love reading picture books and comics; Or listen to short stories and children's songs. My baby is no exception. There are many books at home. Every time he goes out, I usually buy him a book he likes to read. Because he chose it himself, he never needs you to call at home or supervise him. Although he couldn't understand the text, he still read it with relish.
Second, according to hobbies, books in life are combined with each other.
Even before I could walk and talk, I found that children had a special interest in cars, and they were particularly excited to see cars in books or newspapers. Now I am in kindergarten, and there are really many books about vehicles at home. Usually when he sees a car on the street or on the highway, his father will tell him which car it is one by one and how to distinguish the signs on it, so that I often feel ashamed to go out with me and test my mother who knows nothing about cars. He is complacent and confident.
Third, parent-child reading and timely explanation are also used for timely education.
My children, like other children, love stories, especially before going to bed. No two or three stories can keep him awake. He and I often read a story book and occasionally teach him some new words. Because every story must have its meaning. For example, "Piggy is Clean" teaches children to love cleanliness and hygiene from an early age. Chickens and ducks teach children that peers should help and care for each other. Every time I finish, I tell him who he should learn from in the story. Similar things happen sometimes in life. If he refuses to take a bath, I will move the story of "the pig is clean", and the effect is often good.
Generally speaking, there are many ways to educate children, but it also requires our parents to spend some time and energy. Because of their limited culture, they may not be as good as most quality parents in educating their children. I hope I can increase my knowledge in this field through communication. Please make up for this deficiency.
Witness of parent-child reading 9 I like reading books every day since I was a child. Many times, I can sit quietly for more than an hour while reading. Therefore, when the teacher assigned the parent-child reading task in the next semester, he was very happy because he was exposed to many excellent books. But parent-child reading is really a new experience for me. I have been letting my children read books by themselves since the middle class in kindergarten, and I seldom read books with him. Through parent-child reading activities, I spent a lot of wonderful reading time with my children. Reading can not only help children acquire extensive knowledge and cultivate their sentiment, but also help them relax, relieve anxiety, adjust their mood and study with their children, which can not only set aside some time to accompany them, but also ask them to develop the habit of reading, killing two birds with one stone. Moreover, reading activities enable children to learn to summarize and record after reading, which lays a very good foundation for future writing.
When I first entered school, I took a library card with me every day. Every week, I will spare two hours for him to read quietly in the library. At the same time, he borrowed a book he liked and took it home to read after school. After the start of this semester, this activity will continue, and it is necessary to add new records and extract good words. Guide children to start reading China's classical literature, reading Saint Amethyst and other classics of Chinese studies.
The ultimate goal of reading is of course to improve the understanding of human nature, exercise the mind, gradually train the ability to feel happy, cultivate self-confidence and form practical ability. There is a saying that "you are full of poems and books", and developing reading habits will benefit you for life. I will continue to read more good books with my children in the future, so that my children and I can develop good reading habits and make progress with them.
Parent-child reading witness 10 With the strong promotion of kindergarten teachers, children have started to carry out various reading activities since this semester. Whether in kindergarten or at home, children obviously show a strong interest in reading, and their reading ability and cognitive ability have made great progress. As parents, in the process of reading and playing games with their children, they have deepened their understanding and have a deeper understanding of the importance of reading activities in the healthy growth of children:
Good early reading education not only plays an important role in the development of children's lifelong reading interest, reading habits and reading ability, but also has a positive impact on the development of children's cognitive ability, sociality and emotion. Children's minds are full of all kinds of novel and interesting things, but they can't digest and absorb them effectively. Learning from parents is the most direct in life, but this kind of learning is also lacking. It is impossible for parents to give all their knowledge and feelings to their children, and suitable reading materials can effectively supplement these deficiencies. By exposing children to some life books and other books, they can subtly accept some knowledge and values, which really plays a guiding role.
When reading with children, it is very important to choose appropriate reading materials and reading methods. The child's mind is pure. What kind of materials you give him, he will draw what kind of pictures. Therefore, it is very important to pay attention to the reasonable selection of reading materials and guide children to read correctly. We found that when Hao Hao was interested in natural phenomena, we specially bought relevant popular science books, discussed them with him and did experiments together. When watching TV together, they will also play a "guessing" game with him in combination with the books they read. When reading, we generally don't have fixed goals or requirements. We should guide them according to children's interests and energy, so that children can have sufficient thinking space. Let the children lead us to read, not we lead the children's thinking to the predetermined goal.
Reading is a common activity in family life. In order to meet children's reading needs, we design a book corner at home with our children and arrange some simple small tables and stools so that he can sit down and talk to the characters in the book at any time. Parents can also role-play at any time to attract their interest in reading. Reading is also a process for children to feel and enjoy love. Parents and children do not read the same book for the purpose of learning, but in a relaxed and pleasant intimate atmosphere, which not only allows children to enjoy the fun of reading, but also allows them to enjoy the love of their parents and make them feel a sense of accomplishment in reading.
In the process of reading with children, we try to encourage children to read aloud. When we meet unfamiliar words, we will play a guessing game with him, or our parents can read them to him, and then deliberately mispronounce some words in his familiar parts to let him find out. In this way, the child is very interested, and it is easier to concentrate, which is very helpful for him to read.