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The undisputed winner is often the final winner.
Weakness in time is the strongest survival.
Aim high and start low;
Modesty and courtesy win respect.
A wise man dares to laugh at himself.
Approachable, make friends.
Don't take losses too seriously.
Play dumb when you should.
Keep a low profile and be good at self-protection
[Classic case] It is also a great event to think about the king of Yue, judge the sword, do your best and work hard. Bear with it.
Nonsense, divorced from reality
Be good at tolerating others' mistakes.
Let's make three points if it's reasonable.
Don't punish yourself with hatred
Save more face for others.
Convenient for others is convenient for yourself.
Good for evil reflects a broad mind.
Save the soul with tolerance
[Classic case] Lin Xiangru and Lian Po have become awkward friends, and those who can reflect have made rapid progress.
The trouble with people is to be a good teacher.
Cows can't drink water without lowering their heads.
Self-discipline and self-cultivation are indispensable.
Credit is your passport.
You can't abandon a poor friend.
Don't pull yourself too high.
Don't get carried away when you are in power.
Respect everyone around you.
[Classic Case] Li Ka-shing firmly believes that "frank" and purposeful people are the foundation of success.
It is very important to have a sense of responsibility in doing things.
Busy with ideas.
Don't delay, act immediately.
Success belongs to the persevering.
Dare to break the rules
Face failure bravely
self-trust is the first secret of success
The power of enterprises is enormous.
[Classic case] Zeng Guofan's pragmatic management of the army requires patience at a critical moment.
Lack of tolerance in small matters will destroy the whole.
Sima Yi endured Zhuge Liang's death.
Endure is to fight back better.
Defeat an opponent with tolerance
Be good at accumulating strength and strengthening yourself.
See the current situation clearly and wait for the favorable opportunity.
The forbearing people are the best at creating opportunities.
Only by learning to be patient can we fight against fate.
[Classic case] Liu Bei saved his strength and figured it out, and the world laughed at it and laughed at it.
Humiliation can also be humorous.
Leave more room for yourself when you speak.
Resolving contradictions with "water wisdom"
Always take others to heart.
Let your opponent come to your side.
See the good in others.
Tear down the misunderstood wall in time.
Look at gains and losses with a normal heart
[Classic case] Ma gathers the power of popularity, puts down his airs and takes his colleagues as his teachers.
Be excellent and be good at cooperation.
You don't need too many smart people in the workplace
Winning trust is the way to survive in the workplace.
Be good at mixing with employees.
Don't steal the boss's thunder
Don't hinder the development of others.
Give customers a little more affection.
Helping your opponent is also helping yourself.
[Classic case] Tang Jun, a working emperor, is valued everywhere. Steady is often the foundation of starting a business.
It is better to practice step by step than to talk on paper.
Don't put eggs in one basket.
Being a second child is also good.
Seize the first chance to win.
Networking is the potential wealth of entrepreneurship.
Be good at using the strength of the team.
Do everything at once.
Keep trying until you succeed.
[Classic case] Yu chose his most sure career and turned failure into a turning point in success.
Reflection on summing up failure
See failure as a new opportunity.
Give others "half a glass of water"
Don't give up every opportunity.
Find a breakthrough in a difficult situation
Learn to constantly adjust yourself.
Turn external stimuli into a driving force for success.
Failure is a pause in the process of success.
..... Obviously, learned:
1. Learn to show weakness and save strength.
We should know that the objective strength gap between people will always exist, and this gap will often hurt others, even ourselves. Because of this, sometimes, those "fools" have more advantages than "smart people", just like Forrest Gump, who knows how to hide his "sharp edge". Giving each other more "face", some respect and some opportunities to show in interpersonal communication can make each other get affirmation of self-worth, which is more rewarding than boasting and self-affirmation at will!
If you don't hide your own strength and expose your own strength too much, your work will not be easy to succeed. Learn to show weakness and leave opportunities for your own development, which is exactly what the sentence says: "If you stay in the green hills, you are not afraid of running out of firewood." Smart people will use some unexpected tricks for their future development. As the saying goes, "A little tolerance leads to great mischief." Those who achieve great things should bear the immediate humiliation, adopt the strategy of keeping a low profile, and dare to fight against fate. Only when we can bear the burden of humiliation can we sharpen our minds and enhance our self-confidence and be worthy of the heavy responsibility. And those who only want to be quick for a while and fight against their own weakness are tantamount to touching the stone with eggs and sacrificing in vain.
In real life, many young people are often arrogant and spontaneous, and will not compromise. As a result, they may hit a wall everywhere.
On the battlefield, facing the enemy's bullets, the wisest choice is to lie down or even lie down, which can avoid danger to the maximum extent, which shows that sometimes "low" is more suitable for survival than "high".
A person's cleverness does not need to be shown off in front of others all the time; A person's glib tongue is not shown in sarcasm. You know, the one who laughs last is the most beautiful, because power erupts at the end. Rising Star and Coming from Behind are the best examples. The so-called "Kang Long has regrets" means exposing too many of his own strengths and weaknesses. The point is not to wait until the final outbreak, but to assess the situation and wait for the opportunity to move. This is also common in some sports competitions, especially some middle and long distance running events.
2. Keep a low profile, weak is better than strong.
Lao Tzu said that the hard teeth fell out and the soft tongue was still there. Weak is better than hard, inaction is better than promising. We learn to keep a proper low profile at the right time, which is by no means cowardice and retreat, but a smart way to live, and also a great wisdom and great realm of life.
In the workplace, if you want to keep a comfortable job and get on well with your boss, you should pay more attention to your words and deeds. Bosses prefer to use people with low-key attitude and practical work. If you are lucky, you may be entrusted with an important task by your boss unexpectedly.
Keeping a gloomy life is not only the best way to protect yourself, but also the principle of being a man. Whether in life, in the workplace, or in social interaction, if you can be generous with other people's small mistakes, it is actually a wise move, which will make others unforgettable and grateful for life.
From the point of view of dealing with people, it is a virtue and a grace to lower your posture. Be harmonious and approachable, not putting on airs; After becoming famous, you should keep a low profile and consciously be a spectator of Vanity Fair to avoid unnecessary harm. As the saying goes, "Man struggles upwards, water flows downwards", which means that the water of wisdom will always flow downwards, and only those who are full of water of wisdom can reach the great realm!
Like Zhu Yuanzhang, the founding emperor of the Ming Dynasty, he was able to ascend to the throne in plain clothes, which did have many advantages, but on the whole, he was able to understand his own strength and practice, and when he was relatively weak, he was able to hide his strength, not be king, not to make a difference, and to steadily and steadily expand his territory; On the other hand, actively recruit and constantly expand the team; Encourage the people in the rear, open up food outlets, continuously strengthen reserves and consolidate strength. Finally, everything is ready. Zhu Yuanzhang seized the historical opportunity, overthrew the rule of the Yuan Dynasty with great strength, established the Ming Dynasty, made great achievements and realized his long-cherished wish.
Step 3 exercise active restraint
The wisdom of keeping a low profile and keeping a low profile, the most important thing is to learn to forbear, seize the opportunity, think rationally, do things, and gradually accumulate strength, so as to finally make a difference and succeed.
Forbearance can adjust the mentality, so as to seize the opportunity and create good results. Silkworm can become a beautiful butterfly because it endured three seemingly short but long months of loneliness, darkness and hunger, and finally ushered in a colorful life. Isn't this the result of forbearance?
In life, some people have both ability and luck, and their careers are smooth. What should we do if we fail to be such a lucky dog and happen to encounter a career trough or bottleneck and occasionally feel that "heroes are useless"?
The answer is not complaining, but honing in doing and accumulating strength in forbearance. First of all, we should not complain about reality, let alone give up on ourselves. Complaining can't help any problems and can't change the reality except increasing your troubles. Therefore, even if you are not satisfied with the status quo for the time being, you should maintain a confident attitude and the courage to wait. I believe this is only temporary, and the wonderful life is still ahead. Secondly, we should use this buffer period to accumulate strength. Since we are eager to grow and look forward to development, then ask ourselves a question, face our development goals and face the severe challenges we may encounter. Are we really ready?
So, don't give yourself an excuse to waste time on depression, make full use of this rare buffer period, think clearly about your goals, and then practice your internal strength. When the opportunity comes, don't let yourself regret not being ready for the battle.
Keeping a low profile and keeping a low profile is a kind of self-cultivation wisdom and philosophy of being a man and doing things from ancient times to today. It is the secret of many people's success, especially those in weak and unfavorable environment, and it is regarded as the first key to survival and development.
Low-key not only has low-key connotation, but also has positive orientation. It not only emphasizes that people can make great progress only by accumulating strength, but also tells people the road to success by avoiding arrogance and recklessness and maintaining modesty.