Recently, a treasure mother asked if there were any books recommended for parenting, and wanted to study parenting knowledge seriously. Although I have been exposed to relevant parenting knowledge, I found that it is far from enough to be used in practice, so I want to recharge it.

It seems that this mother has deeply understood the meaning of this sentence.

Then I must not live up to this mother's trust and enthusiasm for learning. Next, I will share some parenting books that I personally think are practical, covering children's growth and development, children's psychology, family education, parent-child relationship and parent-child games. If you find it useful, you can also collect it as your own parenting book ~

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Raising girls

If your family is a girl, then this book must be read. It is a book based on the psychological and physiological characteristics of girls, which is well worth reading.

This book covers almost all the problems that girls may encounter in the process of growing up: campus violence, weight loss, depression, puppy love, alcohol, precocity, the influence of internet and society on girls, and gives some solutions to avoid them with cases.

This book divides the growth of girls into five stages: security (birth -2 years old), exploration (2 years old to -5 years old), communication with people (5 years old to 10 years old), understanding the inner heart (10 to 14 years old) and entering the adult world (/kloc) There is also a version of "Raising Boys", if there is a baby boy at home, you can watch it!

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Two-way parenting

I quite agree with a parenting concept in this book: parenting has never been a one-way giving and gift from parents to children, but a life journey for parents and children to grow together.

Most of our parents often wander between laissez-faire upbringing and authoritarian upbringing. When they can't stand the children's indulgence, they will adopt an authoritarian way, but the guilt and authoritarian parenting style will return to the laissez-faire parenting style.

Therefore, I think the concept of two-way parenting put forward in the book is worth learning, that is, the responsibility for solving problems is shared by parents and children, and children are not allowed to evade their responsibilities, nor are all the details of their behavior restricted in detail.

This book uses a large number of graphic tools to help readers learn, aiming at cultivating parents' parenting ability, not just increasing knowledge.

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Become the best English learning planner for children.

On English enlightenment, the famous works on the market include Liao Caixing, Wu Minlan, Wang Peiting, Anne flowers and Gai Zhaoquan.

Why do you recommend this book? Because it is the clearest and most practical book on route planning in English enlightenment, and it is very enlightening.

If you have any questions about children's English enlightenment route, you will have a clear answer after reading this book. This book has detailed guidance from what materials are effective for English acquisition to what direction to focus on training at all ages, which is very practical.

Most of China's children grew up in China, so Gai Zhaoquan's book is far-sighted and enlightening.

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Practical parenting method

This is a book about children's regular work and rest and sleep problems. The advantage is that there are not many theories. It is a practical guide, which has a strong guiding significance for novice mothers. However, its advantages are also its disadvantages. For those who bully their mothers, they will feel that there is no theoretical basis, and their writing style is jumping. A question may need to skip two chapters to be read systematically.

In fact, it is very important to consciously establish a regular schedule from the birth of a child. Many children show many "bad habits" of sleeping (cuddling, breastfeeding, waking up for a few hours, etc.). ), many of them are formed because of the randomness of our previous parenting. To get rid of these bad habits, you need to experience children's resistance, and the bigger the baby, the greater the resistance. Therefore, it is very important to form good habits from the beginning. Therefore, it is recommended that you finish reading it before your child 1 month, because it will make a comprehensive and clear arrangement for your child's future work and rest, and it is easier for a baby with a small month to develop good habits.

You can learn this book first. If you have too many sleep problems at home, or you want to know about sleep problems systematically, recommend another book, The Baby Sleep Bible.

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Your n-year-old child

This book is large in scale, covering the growth process of children from 1 to 14, and the answers to children's questions at any stage can be found in this book.

Each book consists of four parts: children's growth law, children's ability breakthrough at a certain stage, parents' correct practices and misunderstandings, and very detailed and practical problems.

For example, for example, 1.5 years old and 2.5 years old are very difficult times for parents, but why do children behave like little demons? When a child is 3 years old, it is the golden age of creativity. What should parents do? This book has a very detailed explanation.

In a word, after reading this book, the books about sensitive period can be put aside for the time being, no matter how old the child is, so that he can have an overall perception, make predictions and help the child better.

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The trap of happiness

This book is a book that I recommend to mothers who are the main body of parenting. Why? Because honestly,

Many women seem to be divorced from the dimension of happiness after becoming mothers. They are always overwhelmed by life and feel depressed, uncomfortable and unhappy. The more you try to get rid of it, the deeper you get into it.

The most inspiring thing about this book is the "free" approach.

"Dissociation" is actually a method of psychological counseling and psychotherapy. After reading this book, you will also know the specific methods of "dissociation", which can help you through some difficult periods in your life. You know, going to psychological counseling for an hour is hundreds of dollars. This book is only a few tens of dollars, which can be said to be very cost-effective.

The method of "dissociation" can not only help ourselves, but also help children get out of emotional difficulties. Let children know their emotions and values through "freedom" so as to live a happier life.

Happiness is the essence of education, so I strongly recommend this book to everyone.

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The seed of happiness

The last book recommended is Seeds of Happiness.

In this book, the author introduces the significance of picture books to children's growth, how to choose picture books for children and the significance of parent-child reading.

Nowadays, education is almost purposeful, and children, like standard products, have no mistakes. To some extent, this is an alienation of children's emotional development.

There is a friend around, and his idea is to read more "useless" books to children. This book coincides with his idea. The book emphasizes that picture books are not used to learn things, but to feel happy.

Some people may ask, what's the use of reading so many parenting books? If children's problems were all done according to the methods in books, there wouldn't be so few geniuses in this world.

In fact, reading parenting books is also a process of self-reflection, because in getting along with children, you can also learn from them and become a better yourself.

Moreover, in the process of raising children, you can also know fairly well, and you will no longer panic and be afraid when you encounter problems, because you know how to deal with them.