A small character defect may ruin his life. Not alarmist. During the Spring and Autumn Period, Song, the minister of the State of Zheng, had a premonition that his thumb would move as soon as it was delicious. One day, his thumb moved. It turned out that Zheng had cooked turtle soup to entertain ministers. Knowing that Song Gongzi had this peculiar ability, Zheng deliberately refused to give it to him in order to play tricks on Song Gongzi. Son Song became angry from embarrassment, walked up to Zheng, put his finger into Zheng's tripod, dipped in turtle soup and left. This not only embarrassed the atmosphere, but later the son thought it was getting more and more angry and even launched a rebellion to kill Zheng. Because of his imprudence, Zheng Lingwang led to his own physical death and the death of the country. And a little good character can bring us a better fate. Ma Ying of Taiwan Province is meticulous at ordinary times. When he ran for public office, the campaign had reached a critical moment, and he and his assistants got together to write a report. He showed the staff the written report. Ten minutes later, the staff handed the revised report to Ma Ying IX. Ma Ying IX was satisfied with this and asked the staff to print it out. After receiving the report, the staff found that the originally planned time 1 1 point was changed to the newly revised time of 0: 00 by Ma Ying IX. Ma Ying IX's preciseness and meticulousness not only influenced the people around him, but also made the people of Taiwan Province Province trust him very much, which brought him higher public opinion and even made him successful in the election. It can be seen that personality factors have a great influence on our destiny!
Qin Mugong lost a horse, and farmers at the foot of Qishan caught one and gave it to 300 people. Officials in Qin Mugong tracked down the horse eaters and hoped to deal with them according to law. Qin Mugong said, "People with ability and integrity say they won't kill people because of animals. I heard that eating horse meat without drinking will hurt your health. " So he gave them wine to drink. Later, Qin Mugong attacked the State of Jin. When the three hundred people heard that Qin Mugong was besieged by the State of Jin, they took up sharp weapons to help each other in return for their kindness to Ma rou. This time, Qin Mugong captured the slate of Jin Hou and returned to China. Once, Empress Dowager Cixi played chess with a minister, and the other party inadvertently said, "I killed Lafayette's horse." She flew into a rage: "If you kill my horse, I will kill your family." So the minister was hacked with the door, which was terrible. Later, the ministers left Germany with him, and her own personality also brought great disaster to China.
Why can personality determine fate? Because character is formed in the environment in which people live for a long time, the environment determines that person's behavior habits, but after he left that environment, his habits have been deeply rooted and it is difficult to change. A person's personality determines his interpersonal communication and the people he contacts, so the good may be better and the bad may be worse. The behavior of interacting with people determines a person's vision, ideological realm and moral cultivation, thus determining a person's future path. Therefore, personality and the rudder of fate cannot be ignored.