When I was a child, Misa thought that after reading a good book, one could settle down and even take a part-time job. However, when he grew up, Misa found that not everyone had read the book well and his life had fallen.
Twenty years ago, Wu, a girl from Ganzhou, Jiangxi Province, was admitted to Peking People's University with a score of 692 and became a 94-year-old student at the Archives College of the National People's Congress. She thought she could get a good job in the city after graduation, but everything went up in smoke. Finally, Wu married in the countryside and became an ordinary rural woman, which makes people feel sad!
You know, Renmin University is a famous school in China, second only to Tsinghua Peking University, and its graduates are top students all over the country. Our familiar boss Liu was admitted to the National People's Congress as the number one scholar. Shortly after graduation, he founded JD.COM, and now he lives a happy life.
Wu scored 692 points in the college entrance examination, which proves that her brain is very smart, but why is her future worrying after graduation? What has she experienced in these years?
First, I was born in poverty and dreamed of working in a public institution.
Wu was born in a poor family, but she studied very hard. From elementary school to high school, her grades have been very good. Parents also have high hopes for her, hoping that she will have a stable job after graduation.
From 65438 to 0994, Wu took the college entrance examination in peace county, Guangdong Province, and was admitted to the Archives College of China Renmin University with a total score of 692.
The whole family thought that after graduation, she was likely to enter a public institution and do work such as file management.
However, things are unpredictable. When Wu went to college, the state still implemented the policy of package distribution, but by 1996, the state cancelled the government's distribution of graduate packages. This means that Wu's dream of "iron rice bowl" is completely shattered.
Wu University graduated from 1998. She didn't want to give up her career, so she studied hard and was admitted to Beijing civil servants. But I don't know why, she was eliminated in the interview and failed to enter the institution as expected. To make a living, she has to work.
Second, finding a job has repeatedly hit a wall, married into the countryside, and ended his working career.
WU GANG left the society because he had a resume of graduation from the National People's Congress, and found it not difficult to find a job. Moreover, the country was particularly short of college students at that time.
However, after running a lap, she was shocked. She went to Beijing, Guangdong and Tianjin to look for job opportunities, but she ran into a wall everywhere.
In Guangdong, she changed a lot of jobs in two years. She worked in educational institutions, engineering projects and garment factories, and sometimes did odd jobs, but they didn't last long.
She used to do filing and information entry in an educational software company, with a good monthly salary and professional counterparts. With the passage of time, with her NPC degree, it is not difficult for her to get promotion and salary increase. But because of bad interpersonal relationship, she had to resign and leave.
In 2000, Wu, who had a bad job, met a junior high school classmate in Shunde, Guangdong. They got married not long after they got together, ended their work trip and returned to the countryside.
I thought she spared her life, but I didn't expect fate to spare her.
In 2005, Wu and her husband divorced because of emotional discord, and her ex-husband left with her daughter. She was alone, lonely and helpless, and endured the pain of separation and went back to her ex-husband's house for some time. However, at this time, she found herself pregnant again, which made her feel at a loss. Later, she was introduced and married an old bachelor named Deng Gaohua without thinking.
However, this marriage has not changed her fate, and the current husband is poorer than her ex-husband. In Deng's family, in addition to a son of her ex-husband, she also gave birth to four children. A family of nine depends entirely on their husbands to work and farm, and their lives are very tight.
It is deeply touching to witness Wu's experience. Why is fate so unfair to a woman? She had a bright future, but in front of life, she was completely defeated.
Third, what now?
Many years later, the poverty alleviation cadres in the county visited the village, only to find that the 43-year-old mother of five children, with a thin face and living in a dilapidated house, originally graduated from China Renmin University.
After that, the poverty alleviation working group made a poverty alleviation plan for her, built a new house for her family and gave her a minimum living allowance.
After the reporter exposed her story, many alumni groups of China Renmin University were very sympathetic to her experience. At that time, the class teacher and classmates extended a helping hand to her and recommended her to go back to her old job and work in the archives. Now her life has been greatly improved.
Four. conclusion
Looking back on Wu's decades of life, she did have too many misfortunes. She was born in poverty. She thought that learning could change her life, but she met with a policy change and an interviewer who looked at her face. Working everywhere, she never met a good husband twice.
There are objective reasons and personal reasons, but the reason is still because of her withdrawn and indifferent personality. She is not good at dealing with interpersonal relationships, which often puts her at a disadvantage in life.
Although Wu has a high degree, he failed to apply what he has learned. Faced with failure and confusion, he didn't know how to change his destiny with knowledge.
Even so, we can't say that her life is a failure, because the rest of her life is still very long, when her children and grandchildren are around her knees, or her happiest life!
Her misfortune is just an example, it doesn't mean anything. Reading to change one's destiny is still the mainstream value in contemporary times.
Smart people will learn from the success of others and understand the true meaning in the tortuous life of others!