However, many parents have doubts. Obviously bought so many toys for the baby, he doesn't seem to like it. This is probably because you have fallen into some misunderstandings, misinterpreted the use of toys, and neglected the care for children.
I bought him so many toys, isn't it good enough for the baby? ? At any time, toys can't replace people. Don't think of it as? A second nanny? .
Choosing toys for your baby according to different months of age and playing with him can really play a role in developing your intelligence.
Ma Bao complained: I bought so many toys, but my baby only likes to play with bottle caps. Recently, Xiaoyu's mother complained to me: I worked hard, searched books and the Internet, sought other Ma Bao's advice, and bought all kinds of toys for my son, but the child was only fresh for two and a half days, so I switched to my own set. Compared with Huamei's toys, Xiaoyu prefers to play with various bottle caps, such as mineral water bottle caps and medicine bottle caps. Recently, it has been developed into pots and pans or tissue boxes, digging sewers and occasionally playing with mom's toys. Give face? Yes
She couldn't understand what was going on in her son's mind. Is there such a deep generation gap between mother and baby?
In fact, many parents have encountered the problems encountered by Xiaoyu's mother. I asked her about the details of buying toys. After analyzing with her, Ma Bao suddenly realized.
Analysis: Why are Ma Bao's toys? Unhappy? ? There are two reasons. The first reason is that Xiaoyu's mother bought it carefully. It is more like a teaching aid with powerful functions, including reading, learning to walk, spelling letters and so on. However, if the child is still young and asks him to learn at once, he will naturally have resistance.
The second reason is that children are in a sensitive period of space. According to Montessori's theory, children aged 0-6 are in this period, and they will show special interest in space, including holes, holes, crawling and so on.
At this time, it is best for the mother to accompany the child to build a tent with a quilt, or play hide-and-seek games with the child, which can stimulate the child's enthusiasm for playing. He is exploring the size and position of space on his own.
When it comes to buying toys, mothers and babies are like two parallel lines. Can children do it once in a while? Join us? It's not easy, let alone? Cute? That's it.
Children don't like playing with toys. Adults should reflect on these issues first. 1) Is the toy you bought fun?
Toys and toys, the first priority is to play, but like Xiaoyu's mother, children are required to train their senses, develop fine movements, develop socialization and practice pronunciation.
So complete? Teaching AIDS? Children naturally think it's not fun and don't even want to watch it. It's useless to have more functions.
From the price point of view, it is really appropriate to buy like this, but parents must not think about one-off? Packing? The whole church gave it to the child, but he couldn't bear it and didn't appreciate it.
Suggestion: Toys with single function can also play tricks. Take the bottle cap as an example. It can be stacked high, spliced, thrown and even filled with water. Don't underestimate the potential of children. Sometimes the simplest toy is just the love of children.
2) Are the toys you bought interesting?
In order to help their children develop their intelligence at an early age, some parents buy complicated assembled toys when their babies are very young, and then look forward to their success from the perspective of God.
He will be attracted at first, but too complicated gameplay and frustration will soon make children lose interest.
Generally speaking, the average time for a 2-year-old child to concentrate is about 7 minutes; 3-year-old children average 8 minutes; At the age of 4, it is 12 minutes; 5 years old is 14 minutes. When the brain is excited for a long time, it will feel tired and need to rest. Therefore, it is obviously unrealistic to expect children to break through the age limit. Not liking to play is not stupid, but really don't want to play.
Suggestion: Choose toys for your baby according to your age and baby's characteristics. Parents' guidance will be more operational, so that children can master skills faster and increase their interest in playing.
3) Do parents play with their children?
Come on, I bought so many toys for my children, didn't I just let them play by themselves? ? There are not a few parents who hold this view and regard toys as? A second nanny? Take a back seat
But even so, the baby still doesn't like to play, and he still has to stick to his parents. At this time, parents will be very helpless and send out soul torture? Aren't toys fun? ?
Toys are good, but they can't replace parent-child companionship. There are two advantages that many parents ignore.
First, parents play with their babies, which helps to develop their intelligence.
A study on children's games from 30 months to 36 months shows that some imitative games, if there are adults present, children play longer than children simply play with their peers. This is because the demonstration of adults will inspire children. Under the guidance of parents, children can quickly master novel gameplay and then develop more gameplay.
Second, parents play together, and the parent-child relationship is closer.
Imagine the picture, dad holding a straw, putting the little ants into the observation box, attracting the ants with cotton balls wrapped in sugar and watching them climb in and out. This will be the most unforgettable memory between father and son.
In this process, parents can tell their children stories about scientists and ant nests, and teach them to learn to observe and think while playing.
Suggestion: High-quality parent-child companionship is far superior to any toy. Parents should learn to interact, think from the child's point of view, and choose toys and play with toys according to the standards acceptable to the baby.
This matter should not be limited to the toys themselves, but also include contact with nature and the development of daily necessities.
4) Does the baby have it? Share toys? The spirit of?
I once met an old woman with a baby in the community. Children always watch others play with toys and stay alone. A treasure mother can't help but ask? The child doesn't even have a toy? ?
Grandma's answer is jaw-dropping. My grandson's toys are expensive, so if they break, I'm afraid I'll leave them at home. . The precious mother made a gesture of spreading out her hands to show that there was nothing she could do.
Toys should be shared together. What's the point of playing by yourself? Cherish it like a baby, spend less time on your own, and lack experience to share, which is not good for children.
Suggestion: Parents should guide their children to learn to share the spirit. Not sharing before the age of 3 is not selfish or ignorant, but they haven't understood the concept yet.
Sharing is sharing, so that children can experience multiple times of happiness, provided that children are voluntary and mutually beneficial, not mandatory.
How do babies of different ages choose toys? 0~30 months age guidance 0~6 months: choose toys with bright colors and clear sounds.
Such as rattles, colored balls, etc., are hung 40~70 cm above the baby's head for the baby to see and listen from different angles.
From 4 to 6 months, many children will sprout their first teeth, and parents can prepare some grinding sticks for their babies.
7~ 12 months: toys that can move and knock.
Such as building blocks, drums, pianos, drag toys, trolleys, etc. These toys can cooperate with the baby to practice sitting alone, crawling, walking and so on.
Remind that parents are not advised to buy a walker for their children, which will easily lead to children's O-legs and leg muscles not being effectively exercised, which will delay the process of children learning to walk.
13 ~1August: multifunctional toys
At this time, toys can have both colors, shapes and walks, and guide children to know each other while playing? Red apples? 、? Huang Xiangjiao? Wait, I recommend large push toys, many of which are multifunctional.
In listening, story machine and robot can be prepared for the baby, so that the baby can feel the keys, understand the causal relationship, and practice pronunciation and speaking.
19~24 months: doodles and detachable toys, telling stories to babies.
It is suggested to play with plasticine, crayons, graffiti, assemble toys, and instill concepts such as big, small, dry and wet into children when playing.
Use the toys at hand to try telling stories to your baby, such as playing house games.
25~30 months: educational toys
Puzzles, dolls, pictures, books, mosaic boards, etc. Female babies can also try to match clothes and accessories for dolls.
Finally, buying toys for children should not only make children love to play, but also play well. There is great wisdom in this, parents should cheer up!