There are naturally heterosexual friends in real life, but how to deal with them, many people don't quite understand where the boundaries are.
Maybe they can't figure out the real difference between a normal friend and a boyfriend.
In short, I just take some actions based on the most direct reaction in my heart, and it is these things that completely change the taste of getting along with each other and produce ignorance.
Of course, if they don't have real boyfriend and girlfriend around them, they can like it, but what happens is that both sides have their own boyfriend and girlfriend, or one side has real boyfriend and girlfriend, which is the key to the problem.
Friends with pure relationships will not go to these three places together, so that the friendship between the two sides can be kept pure and there will be no unnecessary misunderstandings and emotional changes. Let's get to know each other.
Sleep together in a hotel.
As soon as Sun came back from a business trip, his girlfriend put his things away and threw them outside the door, but the door wouldn't let him in, telling him to get out of here.
He actually knows where the reason is. Although he is guilty, he still wants to. Dying? A handful. He said:? What are you doing here again? Tired from business trip, I need to have a rest now. Let me come in first and we'll discuss it in a couple of days. ?
His girlfriend exploded as soon as she heard it, and said loudly, of course you are tired. Take your confidante with you on business trip. Don't think I don't know, you are all staying in the same hotel these days. She is not your colleague. Are you on business or on your honeymoon? Don't you have any psychological points? ?
Then he slammed the door in front of him.
In doing so, he is actually naked and openly derailed. How can a truly simple friend of the opposite sex sleep in a separate hotel?
It is said that they are boyfriend and girlfriend. To put it bluntly, it is to become a spare tire.
Usually, my girlfriend is idle around, and I want to have a little emotional interaction with each other, and my girlfriend is idle. There is no such thing as convenience, so it's just a goof.
Go to the playground together
Xu also broke up with her boyfriend Dong Luan these days, because he took a friend of the opposite sex to the playground and was photographed by several other friends in the same industry. Intimate? The photo was sent to a circle of friends.
Xin Yue flew into a rage after reading it, saying that she didn't want to believe what he said. Just a group of friends to relax together.
Why does Dong Luan's girlfriend get furious and want to break up just by playing some amusement projects with friends of the opposite sex in public? Is she too stingy?
Not exactly. Any girl who sees those photos will break up.
There are two reasons: whether he plays roller coaster, Arabian flying carpet, 3D Star Trek or roller coaster with her, he always sits next to her. The girl jumped into his arms when she was frightened, and then he either held each other's hand with one hand or put his arm around each other's shoulder with the other hand, smiling extraordinarily brightly, just like playing an idol drama.
Many boys take girls to amusement parks to experience exciting projects, just to strengthen emotional interaction with them, in order to get this kind of physical contact and women's psychological dependence on him.
She felt that the motives of these two people going there were impure, seemingly aboveboard, but in fact they were openly flirting.
A quiet and dark place
Friends of the opposite sex have seen people who go to the library together, do public welfare together, take part in dinners or group activities together, have never seen two people talking quietly in a closed small room in a tea ceremony house, and have never seen anyone stay in a quiet and dark place, only thinking that the years are quiet and good.
As we all know, there is a psychological and social distance between ordinary people. Once they go beyond the distance they think is appropriate, they will feel embarrassed and uncomfortable. Only lovers can infinitely narrow this distance, so small that staying in a particularly narrow space will not feel uncomfortable and unnatural, but will feel particularly enjoyable and happy.
If you say that you are just ordinary friends, but you can actually do this, it can only be said that the feelings of two people for each other are not as simple as they say. I'm afraid there are some beautiful feelings related to the love between men and women.
And this kind of place will amplify this goodwill and let everyone know what will happen.
If you don't want your relationship to fluctuate, you should keep a certain social distance from ordinary friends of the opposite sex and try not to get along alone. Even if you want to, you should keep up with the words and deeds of ordinary friends in crowded places around you.
To put it bluntly, this is both a kind of? A gentleman does not stand under a dangerous wall? The sense of necessity is also the right way to avoid some emotions that you can't control.
In fact, to put it bluntly, both men and women should not get too close to their heterosexual friends.
Because the friendship between men and women can be changed at any time, the focus is on whether the weather, location, people and people can match.
You may not have found love in each other in the past, but that doesn't mean you won't have it in the future.
Don't let this button change your feelings with ordinary friends of the opposite sex be touched on the premise that you already have formal male and female friends around you. This is a kind of respect for your love.
If you are single, you are not so particular, and it is no problem for friends to become lovers. In short, it is right to grasp the degree, see the actual situation clearly, and manage your own behavior, so as not to cause a lot of troubles that you don't want to face.